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Offline Willy W

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Fingering with a wound
« on: January 14, 2009, 03:26:26 PM »
Dear People,

2 Weeks ago, when I was really drunk, i decided to go to a prostitute for the first time. I went together with a friend. When we got there, he started to have sex with her. Than i decided i didnt wanted to join them, and so she asked me if i could massage her back while she was doing him. She started suck him off and asked me to touch her vagina. I actually did this. I rubbed between her lips and rubbed her clitoris. I definitaly felt some vaginal fluids on my hands. Then i decided to leave so I left. While i was walking away i remembered my cat scratched my hand that day. The wound/cut was open. It did not bleed but it was definitaly sensitive and it looked pink. I'm really affraid i've catched HIV that day. It has been 2 weeks ago, and I feel quite sick. I've got fever, muscle pain, pain in my throat and one big lymph node on my jaw. How big is the risk i've been exposed to? Stress is killing me...

I hope someone can help me with my questions. My excuses for my bad English but i'm not a native speaker. Thanks in advance...

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2009, 03:39:49 PM »
At no time were you ever at risk of contracting HIV from fingering. Wound or no wound.

Offline Willy W

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2009, 04:33:54 PM »
Thanks for your reply RapidRod.
Could you explain your answer please? Vagina fluid does contain HIV, doesnt it? Why would it be impossible to get infected this way? Can't the fluid with HIV get in my bloodstream this way? I hope you can help!

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2009, 06:09:38 PM »
Hiv can only infected a very few, very specific types of cells. These cells are found in your urethra (where you pee/cum from) and the inner lining of the foreskin (the bit that's hidden when the foreskin is folded over the head of the penis). They are not found in superficial cuts or cuts that are a few hours old.

Fingering, despite the presence of cuts, is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has EVER been infected this way and you won't be the first.

You did NOT have a risk and you don't need to test over what you've brought to us.

Offline Willy W

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2009, 06:49:20 PM »
so this goes for the person who fingers and the person who gets fingered? I'm making up from your post that the person who gets fingered by a finger with a cut is not exposed to risk. But the person who fingers? Does this also apply for him?

I'm sorry my english is just not very good. Thanks for your replies

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2009, 06:51:28 PM »
Neither person is at risk from fingering.

Offline Willy W

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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2009, 05:36:43 AM »
Dear RapidRod,

I've found this on the website acwn.org.

"The chances of becoming infected with HIV by handling a body fluid are extremely small, because that fluid will rarely have access to a person's bloodstream. However, anyone handling blood, semen or vaginal fluids should be careful to avoid touching them with broken skin or getting them into mucous membranes (such as those around the eye)."

So this means I was exposed to some risk doesn't it? I mean I just want to be sure. I have been very ill like Ive tod in my first post, and now I have red rash on my breast.


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Re: Fingering with a wound
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2009, 05:55:03 AM »

We're sure you didn't have a risk.

Take your rash to a doctor. It's nothing to do with hiv.

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