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Author Topic: Needs an update  (Read 2400 times)

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Offline worriedwell21

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Needs an update
« on: November 05, 2008, 09:48:37 AM »
OK I am not going to paste the thread of this specific topic from a member named pozmd  ( oct 16 & 17 2007) which was claiming he was infected through oral sex, but his tests the he was talking about was very confusing...
I engaged in oral sex being the one perfroming, this just brought me into panic mode.  help!

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Needs an update
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2008, 10:00:36 AM »
It's good you didn't copy and paste. As for your risk of giving a blowjob, ZERO. HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal and vaginal sex, sharing works with other IV drug abusers or from mother to child.

Offline worriedwell21

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Re: Needs an update
« Reply #2 on: November 05, 2008, 02:39:07 PM »
then why is he claiming he is infected that way??its very scary

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Needs an update
« Reply #3 on: November 05, 2008, 02:57:19 PM »
Don't know and don't care. What I care about is correct information and that is what you are given on this forum.

Offline worriedwell21

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Re: Needs an update
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2008, 04:06:21 PM »
IN his case, was it proven that he was indeed positive? his posts are confusing and some of his tests are negative and some are positive but he has a viral load.. I dont understand.
I find this very intriguing, since most of us who engage in oral sex get concerned, I want to reassure myself, and the rest of us worried folks that we are worrying needlessly over this guy's claim of way of transmission ( is he really hiv+ by judging his statements?)..

and I am surprised he never posted agan or even ran amok or whatever (Considering he claimed he was an HIV councelor) ..  pls give an insight to this.. anybody? Andy? Rapid? Ann?

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Needs an update
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2008, 05:58:32 PM »
His case remains open and insufficiently documented including as to whether he is actually HIV positive.

Of course you and other anxious readers seize on this totally unfounded claim to confirm their worst fears. Other contrary for-real and well documented information like the longterm study of sero-discordant couples, both gay and straight, just falls by the wayside. They had lots of mutual unprotected oral sex and only protected vaginal and anal intercourse. The results of this longterm study has been that not one sero-negative partner has become infected.

Give it up and get on with your life. Really.
Andy Velez


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