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Author Topic: Dan, What the Fuck?  (Read 3098 times)

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Offline Matty the Damned

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Dan, What the Fuck?
« on: July 27, 2006, 10:21:24 PM »

Honey the first thing I want you to know is I'm not angry at you. Like all your other brothers and sisters here, I'm terribly worried about you, but I'm not angry.

Sweetheart, I don't know exactly what's going on in your life but obviously it ain't good. I hope you understand exactly how much we love you here. If you ever doubt that (and let's face it your life is filled with doubts) all you have to do check out the responses to other thread.

Christ babe, even Peter Staley stepped in. If that ain't love, I don't know what is. ;)

Dan you've gotta sort this stuff out. We can help you to an extent, but you've got to do something. You can't keep doing this to us. It's extraordinarily distressing. I don't mean to sound selfish, but honey you're causing me and a lot of other people a great deal of grief. I have to tell you that.

Hal especially.

But it's cool. This place is about love and that's what you're gonna get. I'll say it again, you are loved. You deserve better than this and so do we.


Matty the Damned.

Offline Lis

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2006, 10:32:58 PM »
hey Dan, as i said in your thread, i love you, and i understand how you feel... please... please....

i feel like no matter what i say here, that it is too late...  im sorry... im at a loss.

poz 1986....

Offline Dachshund

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #2 on: July 27, 2006, 10:45:50 PM »
I just received a message from Dan's father. Dan was admitted to the hospital and according to his father is doing okay. Please don't call Dan's cell until we hear from him. I will talk to his parents tomorrow and if Dan needs or wants will be available...I am just an hour away.

It is so surreal dealing with all this online and by phone.


Offline Lis

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #3 on: July 27, 2006, 10:47:26 PM »
im glad he is safe.. thank you Hal!

poz 1986....

Offline tnboy

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #4 on: July 27, 2006, 11:42:04 PM »

  Ditto Matty!!

  I join the others in saying "Thank You Hal" for keeping us informed of good solid information.

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #5 on: July 28, 2006, 12:03:59 AM »
I'm so glad to hear that Dan has been carted off to Bedlam. It's long overdue I think. May he get the help he so clearly needs and may he be back amongst us soon. I'm extraordinarily fond of Dan and I hate to think that he's suffering.

As for Aunty Doxie (Hal) his efforts in this matter have been nothing short of astonishing and have renewed my belief in the essential goodness of people. Like I told Aunty Doxie in a private message earlier:

Dan, and indeed all of us here, are lucky to have you.

« Last Edit: July 28, 2006, 12:06:00 AM by matty.the.damned »

Offline purpledragonfly

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Re: Dan, What the Fuck?
« Reply #6 on: July 28, 2006, 12:05:24 AM »
Thank you all who have kept everyone up to date on Dan. I hope he gets better soon and will be able to read for himself how much he is loved. I have to admit i was so scared and was crying like everyone else here. It is funny how even tho we do not know each other in these forums, we are still loved by each other, it doesn't matter what color we are or what sex we are or how much money any of us have or anything, we are a family and are loved. I thank God every day that i found this site, it has saved my life. I hope our out pouring love for Dan will let some of the new ones on here know just how much we care about our family.

Love Wendy


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