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Author Topic: Please Help!! New to this  (Read 4654 times)

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Offline 8484life

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Please Help!! New to this
« on: July 27, 2006, 09:59:49 PM »
If two men who are hiv-[ have unprotected anal sex, what is the risk of contracting hiv?

Offline AlanBama

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2006, 10:02:11 PM »

Just having sex does not 'create' the virus
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Offline 8484life

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Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #2 on: July 27, 2006, 10:03:17 PM »
If two men who are hiv- have unprotected anal sex, what is the chance they will contract hiv?

Offline SouthSam7

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #3 on: July 27, 2006, 10:07:29 PM »
If you are both negative then you cannot contract hiv.  A lot of people, however, are positive now because they thought their partner was negative.  You should use protection.

Offline 8484life

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #4 on: July 27, 2006, 10:08:24 PM »

Offline Eldon

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #5 on: July 27, 2006, 10:29:20 PM »
Hello 8484life, it is Eldon, First, welcome to the forums. Secondly, you should always use protection because you never know what might happen. If the both of you ar neg then do your best to stay togehter as a team and don't let any outsiders influence your relationship.

Offline Lis

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #6 on: July 27, 2006, 11:14:33 PM »
what alan said.... NO RISK
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Offline Lis

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #7 on: July 27, 2006, 11:18:08 PM »
why are you starting 2 threads? you are negitive...... NO RISK....

by the way.... please dont post stuff like this in the LIVING WITH section...


poz 1986....

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #8 on: July 27, 2006, 11:23:42 PM »

  I wonder what happens if two positive people have sex...  does the HIV cancel itself out....  OMG I think I may be negative.
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Re: Please Help!! New to this
« Reply #9 on: July 28, 2006, 04:55:44 AM »

I've merged the two threads you started into one and moved it over to the Am I Infected forum where it belongs. You should not be posting in Living.

I want you to read through the Welcome Thread and after you've digested the posting guidelines, click on the links so you can learn a little more about hiv.

Hiv does not spontaneously appear from anal sex. Hiv is not a punishment sent down from on high to hurt people who engage in anal intercourse.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

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