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Offline kerem

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low risk but help me
« on: July 05, 2008, 09:05:09 PM »
hı everyone.ı am sorry my englısh.ı lıve ın turkısh sıde cyprus
ı traveled amsterdam.ı met the uk woman.ı dıdnt know about hiv status.
ı fıngered and receıved oral sex 20 mınutes.ı ejaculated ın her mouth.after 1 week later;sore troat
after the exposure 11 weeks very heavy flu(;hıgh fever;sore throat;fatıgue;chil;;ı couldnt eat anythıng and only slept 3 days)ı am scared because of the hıv acute symtomps
5 weeks duo hıv 1-p24 combıne test :negatıf
8 weeks duo hıv 1-p24 combıne test :negatıf
87 days later antı-hıv test :negatıf
87 days ıs ıt conclusıon?or retested 6 months
thank you for response.ı am sorry my englısh.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: low risk but help me
« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2008, 09:16:59 PM »
Kerem, nothing you did with the woman involved put you at risk for HIV transmission. None of it was risky. In the entire history of the epidemic there's never been a documented case of transmission to a man receiving oral. Not one! And of course fingering is not even remotely a risk either.

Whatever has caused your symptoms has nothing to do with HIV. If your symptoms persist you should discuss them with your doctor.

Stop wasting your money on tests you don't need to take. You have absolutely no need for any further HIV testing. Period. End of story. Of course your results were all negative. You didn't have any risk!
Andy Velez

Offline kerem

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please help me.??advice
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2008, 07:57:26 PM »
hı everybody.
ı am sorry for my englısh.ı am 20 years old.my natıonalty ıs saudı arabia;ı am writing in cyprus.ı am male.my rısk ıs receıvıng oral sex and fıngerıng deeply vagına wıth brıstısh  woman maybe 20 mınutes;after that ı ejaculated ın her mouth.ı thınk she certainly has hiv. ı have many symtomps.3 days later sore throat and 11 weeks later ı had a slıghtly fever and flu(chılly,fatigue;loose weight)ı am scared.
after 5 and 8 weeks duo test is non-reactıve.
87 days is non reactive.
ı am scared.ı cant sleep;or eat someting.ı dont know how can ı move normal life.arabic doctor said that "you should retest 6 months later."if ı have hiv;my country rules are deported  me!
1- Do I have to recheck again at 6 months.It is torturing to wait more 3 month to have again at 6th mnth.
2- Can I go back to normal life now? Should I stop worrying?
thank your response.please give me advise..

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: please help me.??advice
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2008, 08:00:04 PM »
Please keep all your additional thoughts, questions and comments in your original thread. This helps us to follow your story and give you the most accurate advice.

If you can't find you original thread click on the red link I've provided above. Alternatively you can click on the "show own posts" link in the left hand column of any forums page.

Your questions will not be answered until you return to your original thread.


Offline kerem

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Re: please help me.??advice
« Reply #4 on: July 06, 2008, 08:05:06 PM »
thanks for answer.ı could not see.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: low risk but help me
« Reply #5 on: July 06, 2008, 08:25:51 PM »
Kerem, I have merged your threads. Please keep all of your comments in this same thread. Thanks for your cooperation.

I don't have anything to add to what I have already said to -- specifically that you were not at risk and testing is not necessary. Are you really reading what is said to you or are your fears preventing you from listening? You didn't do anything risky for HIV. Really. -
Andy Velez


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