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Who's responsibility is it to start/have the disclosure conversation

all yours
15 (33.3%)
somewhat or mostly yours
7 (15.6%)
equally both or each person for themselves
20 (44.4%)
somewhat or mostly theirs
1 (2.2%)
all theirs
2 (4.4%)

Total Members Voted: 45

Voting closed: July 03, 2008, 01:53:52 AM

Author Topic: Coming out / Disclosure survey  (Read 10957 times)

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Offline WellHungarian

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Re: Coming out / Disclosure survey
« Reply #50 on: July 27, 2008, 02:20:15 AM »
next2u.  what you gotta do is keep the randoms as randoms.  maybe as a bootycall, but anyone you're gonna tag from the bar isn't relationships material.  if you can do that then you never have to disclose (well, in terms of one night standness)  Dude, just hit it and quit it.

Offline next2u

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Re: Coming out / Disclosure survey
« Reply #51 on: July 27, 2008, 02:35:18 AM »
wow, maybe i havent slept with enough men from bars. or maybe too many of them leave their number or ask me for theirs. i guess my problem is i treat ass like jello... there's always room for more. with that said, if i hit it and it's good then its always welcome to return. my only prob with the whole ur not gonna find someone at a bar/online reasoning is that im at the bars and im online. i hope im a good catch. by that logic there has to be others out there at the bars or online who are good too. in all honesty, i havent had any luck at bars, on llne, at school, at work -- u name it : )

i guess i gotta keep em separated, thanks for the words of wisdom bro.
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