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Author Topic: what can i do?  (Read 1362 times)

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Offline Newlife

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what can i do?
« on: June 06, 2008, 12:18:24 PM »
hi guys .Am a lhiv+ gay. Me and my partner did manytimes unsafe sex before i was diagnosed .Since i know and my partner know that am hiv+ he never left me cos we love each other verymuch .But the problem is that he never go to the lab and did  the test.So what can i do to to let him do the test?
10x for ur replies and ur support my friend .

Offline Florida69

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Re: what can i do?
« Reply #1 on: June 06, 2008, 12:20:36 PM »
How about taking him to a anonymous place for the test.  Here in Florida we have organizations that do the test, because otherwise they turn your name into the health department.  D
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Offline BT65

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Re: what can i do?
« Reply #2 on: June 06, 2008, 07:29:23 PM »
Why doesn't he want to take an HIV test?
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Offline weasel

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Re: what can i do?
« Reply #3 on: June 06, 2008, 07:36:04 PM »

get to a health department and get him tested !

 He may still be negative , my partner of 28 years  is NOT HIV poz !

 I do everything now not to let anything get  on him .

 he says he loves me and does not care .......................

But nobody  should get HIV if they know how not to .

until you know you got it ,it is not real ..........................

 good luck and let us all know .

be safe and still have fun .

" Live and let Live "


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