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Author Topic: So Freaked Out  (Read 1861 times)

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Offline whatswrongwithme

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So Freaked Out
« on: May 28, 2008, 02:18:23 PM »
I did something I never thought I would do. I recently went to a porn shop and went into their booths to watch a video. Some guy reached over and gave me a hand job. Thinking about it now but not then what is the possibilities of getting HIV this way? It was a dark setting so I could not tell if there were any breaks in this persons hand. We did however rub the heads of our penis together for a short time. What are my chances of this happening.

Though I will never do that again however it has been freaking me out.

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Re: So Freaked Out
« Reply #1 on: May 28, 2008, 05:13:08 PM »

Nothing you did at the porn shop put you at risk for hiv infection. Neither being masturbated nor rubbing penis heads together will result in hiv infection.

Hiv infection happens in a sexual setting when unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse occurs.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple! Read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them with confidence.

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Re: So Freaked Out
« Reply #2 on: May 28, 2008, 06:16:47 PM »
Thank you. I was just curious because of the thought of precum or what if had semen on his hand from someone esle freaked me out. I read the transmission outline before posting. I am however curious how can it be transmitted to the penis if your with a women or a man. Also why would a mutual mastubation even if he had semen on the hands not help transmit the virus.

I read on other sites about the mucas memebrane on the penis and the tip of the penis so I am curious.

Thanks so much.

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Re: So Freaked Out
« Reply #3 on: May 28, 2008, 08:31:22 PM »
HIV is a fraigile virus and therefore not easily transmitted. It needs the kind of receptive setting which either vaginal or anal intercourse provides. Then HIV can be introduced through the urethra into the penis or in the case of men who aren't circumsized through the underside of the foreskin.

None of the actions you are concerned about work to make the transfer possible and we would have known long before today if those were risky acts. They aren't and there's never been a documented case of transmission in that manner.
Andy Velez


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