Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
November 22, 2017, 03:59:54 PM

Login with username, password and session length

  • Total Members: 31866
  • Latest: febreze
  • Total Posts: 722661
  • Total Topics: 58731
  • Online Today: 342
  • Online Ever: 1421
  • (August 13, 2016, 05:18:44 AM)
Users Online


Welcome to the POZ Community Forums, a round-the-clock discussion area for people with HIV/AIDS, their friends/family/caregivers, and others concerned about HIV/AIDS.  Click on the links below to browse our various forums; scroll down for a glance at the most recent posts; or join in the conversation yourself by registering on the left side of this page.

Privacy Warning:  Please realize that these forums are open to all, and are fully searchable via Google and other search engines. If you are HIV positive and disclose this in our forums, then it is almost the same thing as telling the whole world (or at least the World Wide Web). If this concerns you, then do not use a username or avatar that are self-identifying in any way. We do not allow the deletion of anything you post in these forums, so think before you post.

  • The information shared in these forums, by moderators and members, is designed to complement, not replace, the relationship between an individual and his/her own physician.

  • All members of these forums are, by default, not considered to be licensed medical providers. If otherwise, users must clearly define themselves as such.

  • Forums members must behave at all times with respect and honesty. Posting guidelines, including time-out and banning policies, have been established by the moderators of these forums. Click here for “Am I Infected?” posting guidelines. Click here for posting guidelines pertaining to all other POZ community forums.

  • We ask all forums members to provide references for health/medical/scientific information they provide, when it is not a personal experience being discussed. Please provide hyperlinks with full URLs or full citations of published works not available via the Internet. Additionally, all forums members must post information which are true and correct to their knowledge.

  • Product advertisement—including links; banners; editorial content; and clinical trial, study or survey participation—is strictly prohibited by forums members unless permission has been secured from POZ.

To change forums navigation language settings, click here (members only), Register now

Para cambiar sus preferencias de los foros en español, haz clic aquí (sólo miembros), Regístrate ahora

Finished Reading This? You can collapse this or any other box on this page by clicking the symbol in each box.

Welcome to Am I Infected

Welcome to the "Am I Infected?" POZ forum.

New members -- those who have posted three or fewer messages -- are permitted to post questions and responses, free of charge (make them count!). Ongoing participation in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- posting more than three questions or responses -- requires a paid subscription.

A seven-day subscription is $9.99, a 30-day subscription is $14.99 and a 90-day subscription is $24.99.

Anyone who needs to post more than three messages in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- including past, present and future POZ Forums members -- will need to subscribe, with secure payments made via PayPal.

There will be no charge to continue reading threads in the "Am I Infected?" forum, nor will there be a charge for participating in any of the Main Forums; Meds, Mind, Body & Benefits; and Off Topic Forums. Similarly, all POZ pages, including our "HIV Transmission and Risks" and "Am I Infected? (A Guide to Testing for HIV)" basics, will remain accessible to all.

NOTE: HIV testing questions will still need to be posted in the "Am I Infected?" forum; attempts to post HIV symptoms or testing questions in any other forums will be considered violations of our rules of membership and subject to time-outs and permanent bans.

To learn how to upgrade your Forums account to participate beyond three posts in the "Am I Infected?" Forum, please click here.

Thank you for your understanding and future support of the best online support service for people living with, affected by and at risk for HIV.

Author Topic: PLease help me! handjob with intentional infection!  (Read 2576 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline blackwinterday

  • New Member
  • Posts: 2
PLease help me! handjob with intentional infection!
« on: May 26, 2008, 07:46:18 AM »
Dear Experts,

Firstly, I would like to express my gratitude to all experts and members here for their great hearts!

Although I have read the Transmission Lesson for several times,but my scenario is quite complicated! I am living in a country which HIV/AIDS has been considered to be very "dirty". And what i have learnt from school is not enough..

Last night, I was involved in an stupid incident.

We had a party,I drank a lot of beer.Then my friends called some girls to entertain us.

 I invited a girl to come to my room. She offered the vaginal intercourse, but I refused, I allowed her to give me the handjob.

She used some oil taken from the bottle in her bag to do handjob. I am so careful that I checked her hands and her fingers to make sure that she has no bleeding wins on her hand. Then I allowed her to perform the handjob until I ejaculate.

That story seems to be simple,but I have told my friends today,he said that that girl is very cruel. He has been told that she always intentionally infect her customers with STD and even HIV while performing vaginal sex.

But I said that I only get handjob.He said the bottle of oil could be infected with HIV( he think that the girl had poured blood into that bottle then used that infected fluid to infect me).

Is my friend's thought TRUE in the real world of HIV transmission? IF I received handjob only,and the girl wanted to infect me, what did she do to infect me?Is the possbile blood from the bottle transmissible?

Dear Experts, Is this circumstance a risk of HIV infection? I have read the LESSON, but I think my story is quite complicated. Could you rate my risk? I am very scared....
Thanks a lot, EXPERTS,

Offline blackwinterday

  • New Member
  • Posts: 2
Re: PLease help me! handjob with intentional infection!
« Reply #1 on: May 26, 2008, 08:04:15 AM »
Dear Experts,

I am scared,so scared and lonesome! Could you give me your assessment?

I mean that the girl use oil based lubricants to peform handjob. But I afraid that she could pour fresh blood into that bottle to infect me.

Does HIV live in the bottle of oil based lubricants for 15 minutes?

Thanks a lot in advance,

Black Winter Day
« Last Edit: May 26, 2008, 08:09:06 AM by blackwinterday »

Offline Ann

  • Administrator
  • Member
  • Posts: 28,138
  • It just is, OK?
    • Num is sum qui mentiar tibi?
Re: PLease help me! handjob with intentional infection!
« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2008, 09:51:30 AM »

Even if there WAS hiv in this oil, there is NO WAY you would have become infected from it. NO WAY. Even masturbation using hiv positive semen as a lube is not a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv is a very fragile virus that quickly becomes damaged once it is outside the human body. This is why hiv is primarily transmitted during UNPROTECTED anal or vaginal INTERCOURSE.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, no matter who you're with, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple. Read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them correctly and with confidence.

You had NO risk when being masturbated. NO RISK.

Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts


Terms of Membership for these forums

© 2017 Smart + Strong. All Rights Reserved.   terms of use and your privacy
Smart + Strong® is a registered trademark of CDM Publishing, LLC.