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Author Topic: feeling rejected & snub ,  (Read 1639 times)

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Offline sanitex

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feeling rejected & snub ,
« on: April 03, 2008, 04:06:35 AM »
H! everyone,
                  sometime i feel like to hurt myself or started thinking what kind of plight did i found myself into. >:(,my friends use to ask me ,what hapen to my hands?
 because i got rashes on my arms,is always turn my mind to positive then i'll start imagine how could i get marry with someone i love or better look for poz lady too.my whole life has changed to positive even my business,travel (etc)i don't know who can i meet and as for marry without telling her my hiv status.i still look young but this disease has made useless in my life,yesterday i went to see my skin doc for the small black spots on my arms he said that's insects biting that i should use cream called(diprosone)for it to clear the scars.

1,how can i ask someone for marry?
2,live without wife?
3,keep silence lady will look for me if there's money?

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Offline BT65

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Re: feeling rejected & snub ,
« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2008, 07:45:02 AM »
Sanitex, I'm sure one of the goderators will move this to another part of the forums.

But anyway, I wouldn't concern myself with getting married right now; you've got to fully accept your diagnosis yourself before dabbling with the whole marriage idea.
Betty (who is against marriage, well for me anyway)

Edited to add:  this was first posted in 'treatment & side effects' (just so no one will think I'm crazy)
« Last Edit: April 03, 2008, 07:58:49 AM by Bettytacy »
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Offline Desertguy

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Re: feeling rejected & snub ,
« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2008, 09:21:13 AM »
I agree with Betty that you have to accept the + before you can really move on with a relationship.  As far as disclosure I think you need to be nonest. There are several HIV+ Dating sites out there that you can look on and maybe find a lady in the same spot as you.  I found a nice person on one.

Good Luck

Oh I think you can live without a wife I thought the same thing after my divorce.  I found out that I have to find myself & like myself before I can like anyone else.



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