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Author Topic: Bleeding Then Worrying  (Read 1818 times)

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Offline kb1981

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Bleeding Then Worrying
« on: October 24, 2007, 05:43:12 PM »
Hi, i hope some one can help as im going out of my mind. Basically i had anal intercourse for the first time last week with a guy i dont know. He wore a condom to start but had trouble penetrating me. I then noticed i was bleeding from inside somewhwere and that he wasnt wearing the condom anymore. The unprotected penetration was for only about 30 seconds and he did not ejaculate during this time, and im pretty sure there was no pre-cum (altough not certain). I dont know if he has HIV, and obviously i will get a test. But i just need to know in the mean time if it sounds like i could have been easily infected. Thanks to all.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Bleeding Then Worrying
« Reply #1 on: October 24, 2007, 05:52:04 PM »
KB, take a breath. Really. Maybe a couple of them.

Given that this was a single and very briefly unprotected incident during which ejaculation didn't happen, the odds are overwhelmingly in your favor against transmission having taken place. Plus the condom protected you until it came off. 

You've got the right idea about using condoms. Just keeping doing that everytime. They provide very effective protection. Getting accustomed to anal sex takes practice.
As long as you consistently use condoms whether you are receptive or insertive you should be ok.

My expectation is that you will test negative. Stay productively busy during the waiting period and those 13 weeks will pass more quickly than you may imagine possible.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Andy Velez

Offline kb1981

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Re: Bleeding Then Worrying
« Reply #2 on: October 24, 2007, 06:27:24 PM »
Thanks Andy. It was just mainly the blood contact that was my main concern. I will keep you posted. Thanks again.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Bleeding Then Worrying
« Reply #3 on: October 24, 2007, 08:07:10 PM »
Get busy with your other stuff in your life now while you are getting through the waiting period.

I'm still betting on a happy conclusion.

Andy Velez


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