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Author Topic: Question. Little Worried  (Read 2218 times)

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Offline curious123

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Question. Little Worried
« on: August 20, 2007, 09:36:20 PM »
Alright, here it goes...  About two years ago, October 2005 I was 16 years old and very stupid and went to a party with older people. I went to a party and done the stupidest thing in my life.  I got drunk...  drunk enough to pass out.  I woke up and there were two guys sucking my penis, and one of them started to finger my anus.  It scared me to death, I couldn't believe it was happening and I didn't want it too.  It couldn't have gone on no more than 2-5 minutes?  Fingering about 10 seconds.  I feel stupid because I got curious for a minute and let it go on, then I stopped it.  I got up and went to the car and left.  I was scared. 

So my exposure was unprotected oral and anal fingering.  From posts I've read here I should be VERY encouraged, and don't really believe I've been put into any risk at all.  So my question is.  Do I need to test, is it warranted?  I don't feel like I need to and believe I'm all right.  This has been my only sexual encounter in my life, and it obviously didn't go the way I wanted it to be.  I'm one of those guys that wants to wait till he gets married.  I guess all the recent worries have been is I am getting married and a little worry I'm dealing with, but I believe I am ok.  What do you guys think?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Question. Little Worried
« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2007, 10:36:39 PM »
You were never at risk.

Offline curious123

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Re: Question. Little Worried
« Reply #2 on: August 20, 2007, 10:39:58 PM »
Thanks Rod!

I just wanted to let you guys know (Ann, Andy, Rod, Matty, and whoever else helps people on here)  I think you guys are doing a great thing!  And I'm glad you could help me out!  I feel relieved!  I feel like I can move on now!  Thank you guys!

Offline curious123

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Re: Question. Little Worried
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2007, 07:50:44 PM »
Since this has been my only encounter and you say no risk, there's no reason to test right?

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Question. Little Worried
« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2007, 09:10:37 PM »
That's right. You don't have any need to be tested. Get on with your life and make sure that everytime you have intercourse, when you do, that you're wearing a latex condom. No exceptions!

Andy Velez


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