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Offline jackb

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Stressed and worried
« on: July 26, 2007, 12:33:37 PM »

I had two recent encounters that have me worried:

1.  I received a blowjob from a woman I met on the internet.  She claims to be disease free although hasn't been tested in a while.  I didn't notice any cuts on me or her at the time.  No vaginal penetration was involved, although I did finger her clitoris.

2.  At a massage parlor, I received a handjob.  During the massage, she also let me touch her and I inserted my finger into her vagina.  Later in the massage, she massaged the hand and finger that I touched her with, and a few minutes later she touched my penis again.

Am I at risk in either situation?  I'm particularly concerned about #2...  Could I have gotten infected from vagina-to-hand-to-hand-to-penis contact?  This sounds silly and irrational as I type this, but I'm really stressed out about it!! 

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Offline RapidRod

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Re: Stressed and worried
« Reply #1 on: July 26, 2007, 01:33:55 PM »
You were never at risk for either of the situations that you've mentioned.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Stressed and worried
« Reply #2 on: July 26, 2007, 04:28:05 PM »
If you haven't already done so, I recommend that you read our lesson on Transmission. There's a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section. You get all of the basics there.

Just so you know, in the entire history of the epidemic there has never been a confirmed case of transmission to a guy getting a blowjob. It's safe to say you aren't going to make history by becoming the first. Ditto for being jacked off including with the woman's vaginal fluids on her fingers, etc. No risk for HIV transmission there.

Andy Velez


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