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Author Topic: STD!!??  (Read 3058 times)

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Offline luisoncln

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« on: May 08, 2007, 10:28:28 PM »
Hi All

I know this is not an HIV issue but I have tried other places with no luck . A while back I had an HIV scare myself and was very well informed here my the experts who helped me out with the whole ordeal. Now I am back but with another question , somewhat off topic. Please forgive my intrusion.

 A few days ago I engaged in unprotected sex with a girl i totally trust. We have both been tested for HIV with negative results and have a very respectful monogomous relationship, since we both had our scares in the past. She is Japanese and planning on getting married. Anyway, she visited a few days back and we engaged in , what I would I would consider rough sex , since she was a bit hard to penetrate and my wood was really tight in there. Not something I had experienced in the past. Anyway , a few days later I noticed these red little dots on the head of my Johnson. No pain, no rash , no leaking pipe, just red pinhead sized elevated dots , not many , i'd say about 10 or 15 total all around the head of my uncircumcised buddy.


Offline luisoncln

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2007, 01:03:09 AM »
Let me rephrase that so there 'd be no confusion " She is Japanese and planning on getting married" should read " she is Japanese and WE are planning on getting married"

thanks to all in advance!

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #2 on: May 09, 2007, 07:36:59 AM »

Thanks for the clarification - I thought you were trying to say you were in a monogamous relationship with someone who was marrying another person! ;D

We can't possibly diagnose your spots over the internet. It doesn't really sound like any STI that I know of - but then again I'm not a doctor and I'm not looking at your Johnson either. If it worries you, the only thing for it is to have it checked out with your doctor.

In future, I would suggest using some lube when your woman is tight - you'll save damaging either one of you. Water based lubes are the kindest to skin and mucus membranes, but you can use what you like when you're not using condoms. When using latex condoms, it MUST be water based.

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Offline luisoncln

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #3 on: May 09, 2007, 10:16:40 PM »
Thanks Ann,

anyone else have their 2 cents? anyone? andy?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2007, 10:30:44 PM »
I concur with Ann, see your doctor.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2007, 08:03:29 AM »
Given what you have reported it's not an HIV situation.

But your concern is understandable since you only have one set of. And stuff happens with our sensitive parts. Sometimes things get passed back and forth between partners. 

So I concur, check it out with your doctor.

« Last Edit: May 10, 2007, 08:05:16 AM by Andy Velez »
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Offline luisoncln

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Re: STD!!??
« Reply #6 on: May 12, 2007, 03:10:29 PM »
I took a peak down there this morning as I was taking a shower and the spots seem to be fading away! Nevertheless I will follow up on all your kind advise and made an appointment to see my Doc this wednesday.

Its great to know that there are a  lot of kind folk here, taking the time to answer all sorts of questions. Their advise is invaluable and I recommend all the newbies here to take all the advise here from these kind, knowledgeable folks as a Godsend.

Thanks Andy , Ann , rapidrod and milker for your time to read and give me advise. Thanks a lot. God bless you all!


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