Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
January 17, 2018, 04:18:23 AM

Login with username, password and session length

  • Total Posts: 725184
  • Total Topics: 59104
  • Online Today: 297
  • Online Ever: 1421
  • (August 13, 2016, 05:18:44 AM)
Users Online
Users: 0
Guests: 232
Total: 232


Welcome to the POZ Community Forums, a round-the-clock discussion area for people with HIV/AIDS, their friends/family/caregivers, and others concerned about HIV/AIDS.  Click on the links below to browse our various forums; scroll down for a glance at the most recent posts; or join in the conversation yourself by registering on the left side of this page.

Privacy Warning:  Please realize that these forums are open to all, and are fully searchable via Google and other search engines. If you are HIV positive and disclose this in our forums, then it is almost the same thing as telling the whole world (or at least the World Wide Web). If this concerns you, then do not use a username or avatar that are self-identifying in any way. We do not allow the deletion of anything you post in these forums, so think before you post.

  • The information shared in these forums, by moderators and members, is designed to complement, not replace, the relationship between an individual and his/her own physician.

  • All members of these forums are, by default, not considered to be licensed medical providers. If otherwise, users must clearly define themselves as such.

  • Forums members must behave at all times with respect and honesty. Posting guidelines, including time-out and banning policies, have been established by the moderators of these forums. Click here for “Am I Infected?” posting guidelines. Click here for posting guidelines pertaining to all other POZ community forums.

  • We ask all forums members to provide references for health/medical/scientific information they provide, when it is not a personal experience being discussed. Please provide hyperlinks with full URLs or full citations of published works not available via the Internet. Additionally, all forums members must post information which are true and correct to their knowledge.

  • Product advertisement—including links; banners; editorial content; and clinical trial, study or survey participation—is strictly prohibited by forums members unless permission has been secured from POZ.

To change forums navigation language settings, click here (members only), Register now

Para cambiar sus preferencias de los foros en español, haz clic aquí (sólo miembros), Regístrate ahora

Finished Reading This? You can collapse this or any other box on this page by clicking the symbol in each box.

Welcome to Am I Infected

Welcome to the "Am I Infected?" POZ forum.

New members -- those who have posted three or fewer messages -- are permitted to post questions and responses, free of charge (make them count!). Ongoing participation in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- posting more than three questions or responses -- requires a paid subscription.

A seven-day subscription is $9.99, a 30-day subscription is $14.99 and a 90-day subscription is $24.99.

Anyone who needs to post more than three messages in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- including past, present and future POZ Forums members -- will need to subscribe, with secure payments made via PayPal.

There will be no charge to continue reading threads in the "Am I Infected?" forum, nor will there be a charge for participating in any of the Main Forums; Meds, Mind, Body & Benefits; and Off Topic Forums. Similarly, all POZ pages, including our "HIV Transmission and Risks" and "Am I Infected? (A Guide to Testing for HIV)" basics, will remain accessible to all.

NOTE: HIV testing questions will still need to be posted in the "Am I Infected?" forum; attempts to post HIV symptoms or testing questions in any other forums will be considered violations of our rules of membership and subject to time-outs and permanent bans.

To learn how to upgrade your Forums account to participate beyond three posts in the "Am I Infected?" Forum, please click here.

Thank you for your understanding and future support of the best online support service for people living with, affected by and at risk for HIV.

Author Topic: Well, a bit of a question  (Read 2151 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline itsmespanky

  • New Member
  • Posts: 2
Well, a bit of a question
« on: March 16, 2007, 11:29:22 PM »
Ok, I did something dumb.  Last night, I called over a Tranny and proceeded to blow him w/o protection.  He didn't cum and I only did it for about 3-5 mins.  He also fingered my ass w/o any protection.
What is my risk?



Offline Bucko

  • Member
  • Posts: 1,947
  • You need a shine, missy!
    • The Spin Cycle
Re: Well, a bit of a question
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2007, 04:14:52 AM »

My vote is for you're getting by just fine. In a study of poz/neg long-term couples where condoms were restricted to anal (nor oral) sex, none of the negs seroconverted.

Fingering is a no-risk activity.

(Who has Tranny friends)
Blessed with brains, talent and gorgeous tits.

The revolutionary smart set reads The Spin Cycle at least once every day.

Blathering on AIDSmeds since 2005, provocative from birth

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 32,240
Re: Well, a bit of a question
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2007, 07:42:04 AM »
As Bucko has indicated, there is much substantial evidence to indicate giving a blowjob is not a risk via longterm studies of sero-discordant couples. There has been some anecdotal evidence in a few cases that transmission occured through giving a blowjob. But those are not totally reliable. It's thought that giving oral might be riskier if you have bad oral care (bleeding gums) and/or ejaculation takes place orally.

So giving unprotected oral is a matter of what level of risk you're comfortable with. Given how common a sexual act it is, we would have known long before today if it was a significant risk.

In general we do recommend that anyone who's sexually active should regularly have a full STD panel done. That means at least annually and every six months would be even better.

This time out I don't see any cause for concern about what you have reported.

Andy Velez

Offline itsmespanky

  • New Member
  • Posts: 2
Re: Well, a bit of a question
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2007, 03:00:15 PM »
Thanks to you both very much.  Much relieved.


Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 32,240
Re: Well, a bit of a question
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2007, 04:46:10 PM »
I'm glad you found our responses to be helpful, Spanks.
Andy Velez


Terms of Membership for these forums

© 2017 Smart + Strong. All Rights Reserved.   terms of use and your privacy
Smart + Strong® is a registered trademark of CDM Publishing, LLC.