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Message in Parlour
« on: December 24, 2021, 12:14:32 am »
Hi
Recently i had visited a message parlour, wherein the lady messager gave a complete Aroma Oil body message. After 45 mins of message she asked me if i needed any thing extract for which I agreed to offer body to body message. Before she could begin, she removed all her clothes. My pennis was completed covered with my foreskin on which she applied the oil and after that messaged for few seconds. During the time she was lying naked on my right hand side. After which she partly removed my message pant and started rubbing her boobs on my genital for about few seconds or might be a minute. After which i discharged. She immediately got up went to the bathroom and washed her body. Post which I took a bath with hot water and came home.

Please note there:

No deep kissing
No Male to female nipples sucking
No Male to female vagina licking
No Male to female anus licking
No female to Male nipples licking
No female to male pennis sucking
No female to male anus licking
No penetrative sex i.e Pennis in Vagina
No penetrative sex i.e Pennis in Anus
No penis is female mouth
No fingers in Vagina and Anus insertion

There was no form of sex what so ever.

My query is that am I at risk of HIV infection due to-

a) By rubbing her breast on my genitals. Though my pennis was completed covered with foreskin and with aroma oil.
b) While she turned over on top of my body, I left her genital hair brushed over my left leg. During her turning, incase her vagina touched by pennis for a second and some discharge might have toughed by pennis foreskin.. Also there were few minor red rash dots on leg. Did her vaginal fluid touch the same.

Please advise.
Do I need to take any test after 90 days.

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Re: Message in Parlour
« Reply #1 on: December 24, 2021, 01:55:58 am »
Hiya,

I read your post three times, this encounter was no HIV risk to you whatsoever.

Move on with your life, use condoms for any intercourse, and as you are sexually active test out of standard routine yearly for STI's & HIV.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider talking to your health care provider about taking PrEP going forward as an additional layer of HIV protection.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get tested regularly and at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and, the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Message in Parlour
« Reply #2 on: December 24, 2021, 01:58:42 am »
P.S

Quote
Please note there:

No deep kissing
No Male to female nipples sucking
No Male to female vagina licking
No Male to female anus licking
No female to Male nipples licking
No female to male pennis sucking
No female to male anus licking
No penis is female mouth
No fingers in Vagina and Anus insertion

Even if you had engaged in the above activities it would not be an HIV risk to you.

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No penetrative sex i.e Pennis in Vagina
No penetrative sex i.e Pennis in Anus

If you had engaged in these activities it would have been a risk. Use condoms.
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Offline Vithal

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Re: Message in Parlour
« Reply #3 on: December 24, 2021, 02:02:55 am »
Thank you Jim

Offline Vithal

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Re: Message in Parlour
« Reply #4 on: January 03, 2022, 12:15:34 am »
Dear Jim

One last query, though I did not absolutely had unprotected Oral, Vaginal & Annal sex, am I at risk of HIV infection due to :

a) By rubbing her breast on my genitals. Though my pennis was covered with foreskin and with aroma oil.

b) While she turned over on top of my body, I left her genital hair brushed over my left leg. During turning Incase her vagina touched by pennis for a second and some discharge might have toughed by pennis foreskin.

c) Also there were few minor red rash dots on leg. Did her vaginal fluid touch the same.

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Re: Message in Parlour
« Reply #5 on: January 03, 2022, 01:06:17 am »
You already asked me this and I already have answered it's not an HIV risk.

Move on with your life!
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