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Offline Lucero_villar

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Risk? Massage
« on: December 03, 2021, 02:23:13 pm »
Hello, I'm a woman. I always like to go to the sauna. On Tuesday night I went to the sauna and it occurred to me to call a masseur. They sent a male masseur. He began to massage me and began to touch my vagina and clitoris. I told him that I had asked for a conventional massage, that I did not want an erotic massage. I saw that he was touching his penis. I do not know his serostatus, suppose he is hiv positive. The questions are as follows: 1. If he had precum and semen on his fingers, when he caressed my vagina and clitoris, could I have been infected with HIV? 2. If he had precum and semen on his fingers, when he inserted his fingers into the vagina, he introduced the semen into me, could he give me HIV? At no point did he put his penis in my vagina, I just went for a massage. I am terrified, I am afraid to be sick. Do I need a test to rule out hiv?

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Re: Risk? Massage
« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2021, 02:27:54 pm »
Hiya,

What you posted here is zero HIV risk.

Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about taking PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get tested regularly and at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and, the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Risk? Massage
« Reply #2 on: December 03, 2021, 02:41:42 pm »
ok there is 0 risk. Suppose that the man had precum and semen on his fingers and after a few seconds he put his fingers inside the vagina, very deep, can he infect you with HIV? Thanks for answering my questions.

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Re: Risk? Massage
« Reply #3 on: December 03, 2021, 02:51:59 pm »
You already asked this question, except you added it being very deep.

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If he had precum and semen on his fingers, when he inserted his fingers into the vagina, he introduced the semen into me, could he give me HIV?

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Suppose that the man had precum and semen on his fingers and after a few seconds he put his fingers inside the vagina, very deep, can he infect you with HIV?

The answer remains the same, zero HIV risk.

To be clear I read your post three times, being fingered isn't an HIV risk, nothing you mentioned changes that and you will not be the first person after nearly 40 years of this pandemic and 80 million cases to acquire HIV this way as it simply lacks all the conditions needed to acquire HIV.

Now, although it's no HIV risk whatsoever, it's a low risk for pregnancy if seminal fluid was on their fingers and other easier to acquire (transmit) STI's. I don't see a reason to panic about it though.
« Last Edit: December 03, 2021, 02:54:21 pm by Jim Allen »
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Re: Risk? Massage
« Reply #4 on: December 03, 2021, 03:29:08 pm »
So you don't need to test for hiv, right? can I be calm and forget about it? Thanks Jim for your patience. God multiply you with thousands of blessings.

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Re: Risk? Massage
« Reply #5 on: December 03, 2021, 03:36:20 pm »
Yeah, this event was no HIV risk and hence no need to test for HIV over this event as it was no exposure.

Relax, move on with your life, use condoms for any intercourse, consider PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention and remember to test out of standard routine at least yearly for STI's and HIV.

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