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Title: Tricky: Changing Condom 2 times with a sex worker
Post by: Mazent on December 16, 2021, 10:17:26 am
I had sex with a Sex worker (status unknown) 3 days ago. She gave me a blow job with protection, then when i wanted to penetrate her Vagina she insisted to change the condom eventhough it was intact. . Then in the middle she wanted to ride on me but then took the second condom off with her hands (was also intact), put another new one on but I noticed that she had put it by rolling it with her fingers from the inside all over my penis. I assume then that her fingers caught some of the vaginal fluids on the condom she removed. Then she rolled the new condom from the inside, made sure first that the tip has space, but this means those fluids on her fingers got inside the new condom, correct? We continued and then I took my penis out and rubbed it between her breasts, the condom was on and intact. Then I came and noticed again that the condom is intact. After that I washed only my penis with soup and water, dressed up and drove home 20 min with the bicycle nd took a shower. My questions are:
1. What is the risk of exposure generally?
2. Does my assumption that her vaginal fluids got inside from her finger tips while rolling the condom from inside correct? If so, what is the risk of getting HIV?
3. Does rubbing against her breasts with the condom that has vaginal fluids considered risky giving that my balls could have gotten some fluids from the condom while rubbing and I showered after I got home?
I'm so much scared and worried and I'd appreciate your reply!
Title: Re: Tricky: Changing Condom 2 times with a sex worker
Post by: Jim Allen on December 16, 2021, 11:30:23 am
I read your post three times.

Nothing you mentioned was an HIV concern.

If this was your only sexual encounter then move on with your life, continue to use condoms for any intercourse and as you are sexually active test out of standard routine yearly for STI's & HIV.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider talking to your health care provider about taking PrEP going forward as an additional layer of HIV protection.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards


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