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Offline delilah07

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I have a few obstacles
« on: April 13, 2021, 10:26:40 pm »
I’m bipolar with addictions. I also get bored easily. When I get bored my mind goes to one of three things, food, alcohol or nooky. Sorry I don’t mean to offend. But I’m in a nookiless marriage.
My spouse is fourteen years older than me. He has no nooky drive. Now I’m in a boring marriage. Great now I’m bored again.
I have had this problem with being unfocused for a long time.
Yet I have to be a wife, mother, and responsible. How do people deal with this?
Am I the only one? I think I need to mention this to my therapist.
My mental state is stable since I take medication. But I feel bored.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2021, 10:29:30 pm by delilah07 »
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Offline Almost2late

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Re: I have a few obstacles
« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2021, 05:36:46 pm »
It's human to want pleasure, whether it's sex, alcohol or food. It's only a problem if it's excessive.. causing you health or mental issues you can't control. Are you sure you're addicted to all 3? I would definitely talk to the therapist about it if it makes you feel uncomfortable with yourself.

As for your sex issue, if hubby ain't taking care of your needs.. I don't think that's all on you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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