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Offline Rockit

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online chatt rooms
« on: December 31, 2006, 02:56:22 pm »
here i go wish me luck... ;D ok so like i don't know how to put this in adult and professional grammar but i hope u don't judge me cuz i know there is some haters and i wont use punctuation marks either.!~! just help a sistah-out :-* 

  i get on gay chatt rooms. and sometimes the chatting gets carried away into talk about sex,or hooking up. so some guys ask if i do it BB? and i Finlay got fed up recently. "Hello-kitty", that's what got me here in the first place!?^ so i asked a guy if he was poz? - "i mean who says that kinda stuff online"  so i told him i would BB if he loved me. was sure if i should say i was poz over the internet besides he lives like 5 hours away.not going to hook up any time soon.i do knw I'm suppose to inform them of it . but my QUESTION is am I suppose to say that I'm poz online to them if we R just chatting? is their a law i don't want to get blogged one day. and arrested cuz i denied it or consented to BB on line?   

oh by the way i think i use to not use a love glove because i thought they would like me more...i was so stupid but i was depressed also. ..lesson learned bigtime. but now i have JESUS,who loves me . well hes been their but i liked to missbehave. and i bit from the forbidden fruit.

javi

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Offline Razorbill

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2006, 03:08:56 pm »
No, you don't have to reveal anything to anyone ever.  Especially if it's online chatter. 

Offline Life

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2006, 03:14:41 pm »
I think just cock size disclosure is required....  Why would you think you would need to disclose to someone who you don't even know??   Down the road when that 5 hour distance is closed to 30 seconds and BB is brought up again, then things might need to be discussed in greater detail....

Offline rick21007

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2006, 03:55:11 pm »
Eric---and if a guy tells you his cock size in chat you would believe him?????   ::)ROFLMAO!!   I can tell you back when I was neg. when a guy told me up front he was poz. my first thought was, Gee!  Maybe this is a guy I would want to get to know a little better.       Rick

PS--if this feels like I am flaming you then I apologize for being an ass.  Not meaning to, and hope you will not take that way.

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #4 on: December 31, 2006, 04:08:36 pm »
I don't disclose but I am not out there like that sexually. I also have my own demons about disclosing not trying to influence you not to that is your choice. But I would not disclose to anyone right away on a hook up site, I would get to know them. There are some people that are assholes out here in cyberspace. Just my 2 cents.
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Offline marco23

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2006, 05:57:40 pm »
I feel the reason for chat rooms is "fantasy", one can say anything he wants, be anyone he wants...you don't need to disclose anything in chat rooms.....especially when the talk turns to sex...you can have a great time "fantasizing" about anything and everything you want!......um, so I hear.  ;)
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Offline Eldon

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #6 on: December 31, 2006, 10:06:19 pm »
Yes, I AM Supporting You!


Hey Javi...

That sure was some conversation that you had over the net in the chatrooms. In the chatrooms, anything goes as far as imagination is concerned. In this case, you are not engaging in any sexual contact with the person so therefore, it would not be necessary for you to disclose your status to him. IF, there was an event that took place where you both were going to hook up for a wild time, then...It would be advised to disclose at that point so that the other partner is aware of your status.

Hold firm to your convictions, they will carry you through in this life.


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Offline Amosboy

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2006, 10:51:36 pm »
Please note the following universal rule when it comes to any online cock size.  I call it the "The Subtract Three Rule" and it usually speaks to the truth.  Most guys must think they should place the ruler just above their assholes and measure to the tip of their erect penises.

If someone tells you that they have 9 inches (9 - 3 = 6 inches), you are DAMN LUCKY TO GET SIX!

Amosboy

P.S.  I think this deserves its own post, so I'll do it now.
« Last Edit: December 31, 2006, 10:54:47 pm by Amosboy »
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Offline Rockit

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2006, 10:55:11 pm »
cool, thank u so much guys. i sort of felt that maybe the guy knew something about me.like an ex- so i felt like i needed to confess. one guy even assumed because i was thin i had it. so like he was asking me how long and how am i doing?   i got sad because i cant believe guys assume this kind of things cuz people are thin. he also said my nail beds were dark? on a pic i had withlike my hand showing. so of course i denied it .and i took the pic off.  at the end what i want is a BOYfriend. :-*  . thanks again for quick reply and  ill keep in mind. that its just a fantasy and we don't have to say anything...BLOGBLOGBLOG
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Offline rick21007

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #9 on: January 01, 2007, 12:55:29 am »
Javi---may 2007 be the year that your dream guy comes swaggerin' through the door with a big grin and a box of chocolates!   Hold on to your dreams, man, and hold out for the man of your dreams!  He's hurrying as fast as he can, doncha know!

Rick in Central Oregon

Offline Rockit

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #10 on: January 03, 2007, 06:43:25 pm »
 ???    wht about this?  if i J.O. and some sperm gets on the toilet seat? but i dont see it, so i dont clean it ?
and wht if my neices grabb my tooth brush?

sincerly  javi       
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Offline chadnla

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2007, 07:15:04 pm »
As long as Dateline NBC doesn't start running a show called "HIV+ Predators" or something like that, you should be fine
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Offline racingmind

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Re: online chatt rooms
« Reply #12 on: January 04, 2007, 12:14:41 pm »
???  [  wht about this?  if i J.O. and some sperm gets on the toilet seat? but i dont see it, so i dont clean it ?
and wht if my neices grabb my tooth brush?

As far as I know sperm dies very quickly outside the body (and so does the virus along with it), and no your neices are not going to become infected if they handle your toothbrush. ;D
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