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Author Topic: is it possible to have hiv this way  (Read 3746 times)

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Offline kuko

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is it possible to have hiv this way
« on: February 05, 2013, 12:33:01 pm »
i was unknowningly involved in frottage with a lady in a bus as buses are ususally packed in india.
the lady stood in front of me so frottage occured.  but my mind thought i might have made sex with her but not remember....in this case what shall i do .....
i also dont remember how many days
have passed after this incident.......pls help ..
.i m in mental trauma.....is this possible to have sex in bus in front of everyone...is this irrational fear
actually tell me by particular which way hiv occurs....

Offline jkinatl2

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Re: is it possible to have hiv this way
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2013, 02:27:00 pm »
Under no circumstances did you have unprotected sex with a woman, standing up on a bus, and not know it.

This is in NO WAY an HIV situation.



"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Re: is it possible to have hiv this way
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2013, 12:23:43 am »
but why my mind thought again n again that i might have sex with her in bus...pls  help..
            kuko.

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Re: is it possible to have hiv this way
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2013, 12:38:02 am »
but why my mind thought again n again that i might have sex with her in bus...pls  help..
            kuko.

I cannot help what is going through your mind. We are a risk assessment site, base don science. I am sorry you are going through a traumatic time. Thee is no way that this is an HIV situation.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Offline kuko

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Re: is it possible to have hiv this way
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2013, 08:26:39 am »
so now can i make conclusion that if i would have done anything stupid thought like sex in public bus then i would have surely got any reaction.as it didn't happen so i m safe ...pls anyone help...

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Re: is it possible to have hiv this way
« Reply #5 on: February 06, 2013, 08:33:22 am »
You did not have a risk for HIV. Period. There is nothing more we can do for you in this setting. If you are unable to let go of this unwarranted fear then you need to see a therapist or other professional to discuss the matter. We can't help you with that.

If you come back again about this fanciful concern you are going to find yourself getting a Time Out from this site. HIV is not your problem. Period.
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