Stored or frozen cum can spread HIV? If drank or used as lube?

[MildorZalost]

I really like the feel of cum in my hole

There, I said it

And that's not a problem with my main boyfriend (future husband) because we're both neg and been doing Bareback for 9 years now staying neg, mostly monogamous. But since a year ago we're open tho to experiment with others, mostly BDSM sessions without penetrative sex just "BDSM" and toys

 Recently tho (over a year ago) I met a guy at the gym, first he was only a straight friend, then was my straight friend that while high like to kiss me and make out, then the not-so-straight friend who like to learn a lot about anal pleasure, and now we are fuckbuddies or something close to "boyfriends".

But we only fuck with condom (I'm the bottom the most part) obviously

Even so, like all horny power bottoms I eventually feel the need to get bred by him. So we watched these kinky dirty videos of "cum whores" or "cum dumps craving alpha male sperm" and they literally go to look in motels trashcans, alleys, college parking lots etc for used condoms to drink, other Twitter profile specializes in storing Frozen cum his alphas send him all over the world and then make "cum ice cubes" and eat them or insert it in his hole, finally there are some TIM videos about persons storing cum in jars or used condoms (frozen or not) until having copious amounts and then injecting the fluids into the bottom's anus

So I would like to do that (and he is very turned on with the idea too) is it isave to do it?, in HIV terms.

Basically the question is:

-Is cum from used and filled condoms safe to drink, inject in the anus or be used as lube?
-Is cum stored in a jar safe to drink, inject in the anus or be used as lube?
-Is frozen cum safe to drink, inject in the anus or be used as lube?

And if so, how many time does it take to the virus to die? Does it need to be frozen? Does it need to be boiled? Does it need to be in contact with the air? Does it need to be in contact with light or uv light?

Thanks for reading and hope to find a viable answer soon

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

You're not the first or the last to ask these type of questions.

https://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=70197.msg
https://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=72099.msg

Now, in theory, HIV is going to be largely unaffected by freezing itself. That said I doubt home freezing has been tested.

Anyhow is this sort of play safe? Well plenty of risk from other infections but HIV would not be one of my concerns due to exposure outside the body to the environment. Sexually HIV is transmitted inside the confines of the human body as once exposed outside the confines of the body contact with the environment damages the virus receptors used to infect.

Regarding your BF ill give you the same advice I give anyone saying they are in a relationship, that is, if you have been engaging in condomless sex with your partner it would meet all the biological conditions needed for you to acquire HIV.

Now I don't judge couples that decide to engage in condomless sex, it's often based on trust within a relationship or past test results. However, just note this trust or past results does not prevent HIV and any unprotected intercourse is simply accepting a possible risk towards you of acquiring HIV.

Test regularly for HIV and far easier to transmit STI's.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.  Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention going forward.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other far easier to acquire STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature.

Kind regards

Jim

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