Netta, you are a beautiful woman. I love that wig. I know how you feel about the lipodystrophy. I have it in my face as well, my legs are like toothpicks, and I have a basketball gut. But, as I get older, I truly believe that beauty runs skin deep. And hey, please take your meds like you're supposed to. I don't want anything to happen to you!
I have been feeling crappy lately, I am not sure if I picked up something at the hospital or I am just in a "mood" I have had no energy at all. Do you guys know of anything that helps your energy level, besides a vitamin?
HEY LADIES, hope everyone is fine. Yes its that time again! Thanksgiving, then Christmas! are you getting ready???? ::) :)
Living on a fixed income, I don't worry much about spending money I don't have. I make homemade gifts and feel good about it!!!
The only thing I get excited about is its closer to income tax time!!!! Now that I got a working hubby thats something to really celebrate!
Had a great Haloween, trick o treating in our subdivison was great, all kinds of folks were out with their kids at nite and security was right there! Of course I am stealing my grandkids candy.
On a funny note, my DH played a trick on us, I am going to kill him! lol
This morning my oldest grand came running in the room, saying there was a rat in the hallway, now we don't have rats, maybe some fieldmice out side, I don't see too good without my glasses, so I looked and I saw something big as a rat, but it did not move, my daughter, and grandkids and I almost had a heart attack!!!! no one would go near it, it looked so real, my daughter almost fainted, we locked ourself in her bedroom and called the kids dad to come over, only problem, someone had to go to the door to let him in and pass the rat!! He knocked on the door so long and was ready to leave! finally my daughter ran screaming to the door, let him in, and ran back to the bedroom, he looked at the rat and saw it was a rubber toy!!! he picked it up, but we didn't believe him, finally we looked at it and it sure enough was a toy rubber rat with a long tail!!! we don't have any toys like that so my DH must of planted it earlier when he went to work!!!,Its not even aprils fools! When we were alll locked up in the bedroom, screaming and bugging out, my six year old gd told us "ya'll should be praying" it was so funny, we were so scared! i had tocalm down after that and almost had a drink! Thats my excitement for the day.
Queen- hope you get the apartment ! take care
Betty- I guess, I can't get away from that word "crap" didn't mean to use it again. lol
Cindy- congrats on your engagement!!!!!
Ann- Happy Birthday!!!!!
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he moves.[quote aShe is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he movs. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the ban didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
I am having a bad day. Things are not going well for me at home with hubby. My dh is "off the wagon" so to speak and getting high again. I can't hardly believe it! He works but is a working crack addict!
Of all the things that could have happen to me this is the worst. and its not the first time, its the 2ncd time he stayed out all nite on his payday! come home waging his tail between his legs. paid 2 bills but spent the rest.Ok I let that one time slide,but it put us behind a little. Now he got paid last week came right home paid bills ,but the job owed him another small check which he got aandcashed and gave me a little and put the rest in the bank ,50.00. Well he decided last nite to have the car overheat and never made it home till 2am this morning, no gas in his car and not a ime left in the bank!
I am not speaking to him. he said he would get help and stay out of my life. Good I told him, but he has to help pay my car loan,which is in both names. We got a title pawn loan some months ago. we planned to pay it all off at tax time. On top of all this my daughter is in the process of buying a house, due to close in DEC. 09!!! we are suppose to stay here and pay this high ass rent, b I love my dh and knew he had a past drug habbit, but in the year we've been together he has not used to my knowledge, but has a drink now and then. Ok I blame myself .I feel stupid for thinking I had finally found the rgiht one. BUT I WILL NOT TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, KNOWING I SPENT 10 YEARS OF MY LIFE WITH A FORMER ADDITCT FOR A HUSBAND AND IT WAS HELL! jUST call me stupid, I gave up my section 8 for this man, thinking we could build a life together on our own. gave up my nice apartment and all. I wish I had stayed single! I have made the dumbest mistake. I am sorry I am just so tired and have to vent. My daughter wants me to move with her, I wll have to for a while, but I am use to having my own. He has to be a man and take care of him, I can't do this anymore!
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Becaue he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was abl to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denia about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!