Please help me

[sampeace]

I once met a lady, whose status I do not know. None of us removed our dresses. I had my pants on, but I was not wearing any underwear inside my pant. She just kissed me on the lips and slightly touched my tongue.

I also think I sucked her breasts a little.
After that I rolled over her and she tightly pressed me and I ejaculated in my pant. I immediately got up and went to the toilet and washed my penis,buttocks and anus.

This incident happened nearly 10 years ago.

Is there any risk of infection? Am very anxious and tense. Please help.

[anniebc]

Sam

You have absolutely nothing to worry about this is not an HIV situation, I suggest you read the lessons here on how HIV is and is not transmitted, you really need to educate yourself...seriously.

Jan

[sampeace]

Thanks a lot for your reply. However, I am still very anxious and confused. I came across an article in the World Health Organization website, which says "HIV can be transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse (vaginal or anal), and oral sex with an infected person; transfusion of contaminated blood; and the sharing of contaminated needles, syringes or other sharp instruments. It may also be transmitted between a mother and her infant during pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding. ."

I want to know if kissing the woman on the lips , touching my tongue with her tongue or sucking her breasts can be termed as having oral sex, because the article says that oral sex can be a cause of transmission.

Request you to please clear my doubt. Am very nervous because of this doubt. As a result, I have not married or had sex till now.

Also, I know that this is an exclusively HIV/AIDS forum, but I would request you to please guide me if any of my actions could lead to Hepatitis infection.

I would be very grateful for your honest reply.

[RapidRod]

At no time were you at risk of contracting HIV. You don't contracting HIV from kissing.

[anniebc]

Sam

Kissing on the lips is not and never will be classed as oral sex...come on think about it, you are letting your imagination run away with you...stop now before you get too carried away with this...again nothing you have said has put yu at risk for HIV.

Just for your Information...saliva is very good at destroying HIV, specific enzymes present in saliva mean HIV is not transmitted in saliva.

Jan

[sampeace]

Thanks again.....but please tell me if even touching the woman's tongue with mine or sucking her breasts has any HIV risk or not and does it come under oral sex, because I read somewhere that if there is any blood on the lips, it can transmit HIV. Also I read that HIV can be transmitted through breast milk.

Please clear my doubt.

Also, can you  please tell me if any of my actions could cause Hepatitis....

Tanks a ton!

[RapidRod]

The answers are not going to change no matter what kind of spin you are going to put on it. Breast milk does not transmit HIV to adults.

[sampeace]

Thanks again...but please tell me if there was any small amount os blood in her lips or tongue, would there be a chance of me getting infected. Also please tell me if any of my acts could cause Hepatitis infection.

Thanks a ton!

[RapidRod]

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[Ann]

Same,

Unless you've been having UNPROTECTED anal or vaginal intercourse, then you haven't been at risk for hiv. Unprotected intercourse means putting your penis inside another person's anus or vagina without a condom covering your penis.

You haven't been at risk for any sexually transmitted infections in the actions you describe.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple, I promise you. Read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them with confidence.

Ann