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Off Topic Forums => Off Topic Forum => Topic started by: Javicho on January 05, 2007, 02:23:56 pm
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OK lets try to remember with how many Guys or/and Girls we had have sex, everything counts BJ, F###G, Masturbation everything.
I will say I have been with 32 Guys and 4 Girls
J.
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Holy Mother of God.....how times change. I used to know someone who could say he did that many in a week. He would have several booked over his lunch hour.
Modified to add: Pleading the 5th here too Rod. One too many just about says it all.
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I plead the fifth. Looks like I was with one to many.
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How many stars are in the sky?
How many grains of sand are on a beach?
Okay, maybe not that many... but I loved them all (if only for the moment). ;)
This reminds me of years ago when I was in a clinical trial. The doctor running the trial asked me how many sexual partners I'd had. I told him I wasn't sure. He said more than 5? Yes. More than 12? Yes. More than 20? Oh yes. Then he just looked at me with disgust. I said "You do realize you're working with gay men, right?" He just went to the next question.
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Ummm...will the Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York City phone books work?? ;D
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And I was wondering if I need more training, ABSOLUTELY!!! I need more :D
J.
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Javico darling....Training? At this point in time I would go for quality rather than quantity. Just a suggestion. If you equate quantity with learning, I think thats a mistake. Finding a really good teacher is a good idea. And, if you dont mind me asking...what kind of training do you need/want?
You can go out and buy all the Disco Mix CD's you want.
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Holland Tunnel has too much traffic.
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Bear, I think you are right I need a good teacher or keep watching porn maybe ;)
J.
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I honestly has not had over 20, that's the best I can do. But what is the guidelines, if any.
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I have had 3. First serious boyfriend, ex hubby, and current hubby.
Teresa
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You see Guys, the Females are the brave ones, at least they posted numbers ;)
Thank you Girls,
J.
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They are countable? Rememberable even? I used to keep a log of sexual encounters in my 20's - I began to shock even myself. Gave that up. To echo GSO it is probably somewhere between the number of stars in the sky and the number of grains of sand on the beach at Fire Island.
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Echoing Ernie: I used to keep a count in my 20s but gave up when I turned 30.
But I'll pretend to be brave and hazard a very very rough guess: between 500 and 600? In my own defence I will say this is over a period of 15 years. ::)
Jay
Edited to add: and one girl.
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:-X......... ;)......... ;D
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come on Marco dont be shy :-*
J.
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Edited to add: and one girl.
Jay, try a woman next time! ;) ;D
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Jay, try a woman next time! ;) ;D
Well, we were teens... but your advice is heeded! After all, Queen Akasha has suggested "doing" me with a strap-on. :o
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Well, we were teens... but your advice is heeded! After all, Queen Akasha has suggested "doing" me with a strap-on. :o
Jay, that can be your New Year resolution ;)
J.
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Javicho,
was that 32 Guys and 4 Girls -- AT THE SAME TIME? :o
Wow that must've been some party can I have an invite to the next one please ;D
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Javicho,
was that 32 Guys and 4 Girls -- AT THE SAME TIME? :o
Wow that must've been some party can I have an invite to the next one please ;D
That will be one of my fantasy's a big orgy :P
J.
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heeheehee mine too ;D
If only ::)
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Well, we were teens... but your advice is heeded! After all, Queen Akasha has suggested "doing" me with a strap-on. :o
Hey, it is a fantasy of mine, I'm not even going to lie. :D
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(In my best philly267 mode)
::enters thread::
::gasps and thinks better of posting::
::exits thread::
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(In my best philly267 mode)
::enters thread::
::gasps and thinks better of posting::
::exits thread::
Aw Tim, pleeeeeeeeease tell us. Just a hint. A ballpark figure. Is it as many as a ballpark? ;D
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Dayum...
Ummm let's see....
Highschool=2
Tudor hotel on South Beach use to be a 3/4 way house=8
Treatment=5 (13th stepped them)
1rst marriage=1
2nd marriage=3
Between 1rst + 2nd marriage=7
After 2nd marriage=4
Grand Total=30
The ones I don't talk about=1
Plans for future=1
Number of times I have jacked off : 8,025,759,541
Thomas
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What if I was raped ...unwilling participant..
ie, if she tied my hands to the bed and goes on top....
She had sex with me.. I did NOT (Clinton, Bill, 2000).
Would that still count.....???? Plleeeeezzzeeee, help me !!!!
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Dan, it's not rape if you gave her the rope with which to tie you up. Just sayin'.....
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I don't think I can count high enough to even begin to tell!
I do know that I've been with only one woman (my ex-wife). Until about 7 years ago, I could remember all the guys' names and a brief description. Now, I just try and keep track of how many for a given week (if out of town having fun) or month. I do know that the number increased tremendously after my husband and I became a couple (increased for both of us). At the risk of sounding slutty or ho-ish, I hope the number continues to rise! ;)
David
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Hell.....I can't even keep count of my marriages...let alone the number of men and women....
A few years ago a therapist asked me to make a list of my partners so the data is a little old
men.....>150
women.....>35
oh and by the way:
marriages.....1 less than Liz Taylor
....shame on me
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I tried to add it up on my laptop's calculator, and my computer crashed.
Wonder if that means anything?
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Ummm...will the Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York City phone books work?? ;D
Okay, in all fairness, I will give an estimate...um now let me see here...um...if I really tell you all, you won't think any less of me will you??
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Awwww....Jeromy! We couldn't possibly think any less of you!
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OK, doll. You KNOW I love you, but you walked right into that one! I mean how could I resist an opening like that?
;D
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God, I was 20 in January, 1976. Between then and 2001 and my present celibate state I'd guess about 20 - 100 guys a year depending on the year. Defining myself by engaging in sex was what it was all about back then. I had to be unfettered by society's ridiculous mores and declare myself a free gay man. At the beginning of the AIDS epidemic there was a lot of talk about scare tactics being used to inhibit our sexuality. Then the shit really hit the fan.
30 years later I realize that, as someone else stated earlier, quantity has nothing to do with quality or enjoyment. I've noted elsewhere I'm big on kissing/cuddling/intimacy even more than a sex act so many of the guys I had sex with failed to inspire me. We might as well have been masturbating. Mechanized sex has never turned me on... well, it aroused me enough to join in (that's really easy to do...) but left a blank feeling afterwards.
If that sounds bitter it's not, for true. I'm just speaking my mind, or what now passes for one.
Boo
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More than one, but less than one million. ;D That's all I'm sayin. ;)
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From Edmund White's The Farewell Symphony:
"If I had sex, say, with an average of three different partners a week from 1962 to 1982 in New York, then that means I fooled around with 3,210 men during my twenty years there. The funny thing is that I always felt deprived, as though all the other fellows must be getting laid more often. A gay shrink once told me that that was the single most common complaint he heard from his patients, even from the real satyrs: they weren't getting enough tail as the next guy...
"Nor did all this sex preclude intimacy. For those who never lived through that period (and most of those who did are dead), the phrase 'anonymous sex' might suggest unfeling sex, devoid of emotion. And yet, as I can attest, to hole up in a room at the baths with a body after having opened it up and wrung it dry, to lie, head propped on the guy's stomach just where the tan line bisects it, smoke a cigarette and talk to him late into the night and early into the morning about your childhood, his unhappiness in love, your money worries, his plans for the future -- well, nothing is more personal, more emotional. The best thing of all were the random, floating thoughts we shared..."
Jay
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Sonja: Oh, Boris, I'm so unhappy.
Boris: Ohh, I wish you weren't.
Sonja: Voskovec and I quarrel frequently. I've become a scandal.
Boris: Poor Sonja.
Sonja: For the past weeks, I've visited Seretski in his room
Boris: Why? What's in his room? Oh...
Sonja: And before Seretski, Aleksei, and before Aleksei, Alegorian, and before Alegorian, Asimov, and...
Boris: Okay!
Sonja: Wait, I'm still on the A:s.
Boris: How many lovers do you have?
Sonja: In the mid-town area?
-Love and Death
These are ballpark figures, mind you. I haven't done an accurate count since 2002.
Guys: Probably around 80 or 90.
Girls: 5 to 7 (the last two are dependant on whether or not anything happened... I don't know and neither do they. Thank you, Stoli and cocaine.)
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leapin lizards, Batman
um, I was using my calcumalator, but it just showed me a bunch of weird symbols and stuff. Doesn't that mean I've exceeded the display limit or something? :-[ ::)
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leapin lizards, Batman
Um, did Batman kick Robin to the curb for Lil Orphan Annie.... ;)
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How 'man'y? ??? mmmmmmmmm I'd have to agree with Javichos count except for the girl count. I was only once with a hot "lesbian" who seduced me into sex and it WAS great! When I wasn't "taken" during my college years, I guess my rump had a sign on it saying "Free available tight space. If you qualify. I'll try.."!
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I have to add one more, this past weekend my BF and I play w/another Guy :P
J.
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More than one, but less than one million. ;D That's all I'm sayin. ;)
So youre saying I have a shot?!?!?!?!?!
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OH MY GOD.... actual numbers. They may be around my CD4 count. If you can find that, you are close to my number.
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If my cd4 count equalled the number of sexual partners I would be the envy of all. Including JO it is closer to my VL at time of diagnosis.
Excuse me but the stroll down memory lane has brought something up that needs attention. Add another 1.
Woods
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I'm starting to feel in good company with my numbers.
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I can't help but notice that I was the last person to do so....
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I'm starting to feel in good company with my numbers.
But lots of you being coy with the actual digits. I'll try the research angle again: I'm trying to write about modern-day promiscuity and need facts and figures. (That sentence is a big fat lie.)
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I can scarcely believe I'm going to admit this in public, as I suspect many
will be disappointed by my answer, and I'm likely to have my gay card
revoked: I've had sex with 9 men (no women).
Regards,
Henry
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I can scarcely believe I'm going to admit this in public, as I suspect many
will be disappointed by my answer, and I'm likely to have my gay card
revoked: I've had sex with 9 men (no women).
Regards,
Henry
No disappointment and no revocations! My best gay friend is 40, and his "number" is three. I certainly wish (well, sometimes wish) that my total had one less zero. Yep, we gay boys come in all flavors.
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No disappointment and no revocations! My best gay friend is 40, and his "number" is three. I certainly wish (well, sometimes wish) that my total had one less zero. Yep, we gay boys come in all flavors.
I'm come in the Slutbags Anonymous (well... not so anonymous anymore) flavor.
It tastes like caramel.
Nummy treat!
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I'm come in the Slutbags Anonymous (well... not so anonymous anymore) flavor.
It tastes like caramel.
Nummy treat!
I'm so glad I''m not the only one. I couldn't even begin to try to count. I lived in Long Beach for three years. 2 block from the gayborhood cruising spot. And I was a drunk. You do the math
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I'm so glad I''m not the only one. I couldn't even begin to try to count. I lived in Long Beach for three years. 2 block from the gayborhood cruising spot. And I was a drunk. You do the math
Danny I did the math for you and I used the quadratic formula... x=slut
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OK Thomas, you started this. The general form is ax2+bx+c=0. (Where a doesn't equal 0.) So if the variable x=slut, I now want to know what the constants (a,b,c) are. Mathematically inclined people, your thoughts appreciated.
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um, er, .....duh....
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Danny should be able to answer the X= slut part himself
In the mean time A= men in San Antonio (current residence)
B= Long Beach
C=Every other location, other than outside the country..oh it includes Disneyland also ;D
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I would guess about 80+ guys and 2 women. You do the math ;) Most of them were anonymous.
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Damn, most of y'all have had more ass than a toilet seat or more poonani than a tampon.... ;D I mean that in a good way. ;D
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Queen....what is "poonani" -- I sense some Carrib influence, there..
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OH MY GOD.... actual numbers. They may be around my CD4 count. If you can find that, you are close to my number.
Exactly. Same as my CD4. :P
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How many ?
According to my mother, I was an innocent angel. 0 ; )
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Queen....what is "poonani" -- I sense some Carrib influence, there..
It is pussy... and it is normally used by Jamaican men .. example below:
Mi na wah go below belly to lick di punani... Translation.. I won't eat no pussy!
Thomas