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Author Topic: Could u please help me. I m so scared  (Read 1687 times)

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Offline ego88

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Could u please help me. I m so scared
« on: November 25, 2017, 05:42:51 am »
Hello everyone

I went for a 'massage' to a sw. we didnt have anal sex or vaginal just oral with protection.  The problem was that when i was about to ejaculate she removed the condom and started giving me oral sex with a lot of saliva till i finally i ejaculated in her mouth.Furthermore Is there any possibility to have HIV by fingering her?
this was on 21st of june. exactly one month later i had blood tests (including lupus if that helps) so i had Anti-nuclear antibody(ANA) test. So the results  for SSA(Ro) and SSB(La) were both negative. All other results were very good too. (BTW i didnt tell them anything about HIV so i dont know if they can see it)

SO my questions are: 1) Can i be infected from receiving oral and saliva?
                                2) Can i get infected by fingering a woman?
                                 3) Because i dont know the negative results its also a good sign right? Cause they test my antibodies so they look good. When someone is infected with HIV has loads of antibodies right?

PS My liver tests were very good. When someone is infected this is the first thing that could have problem right?

Could u please help me? i m so scared and i dont want to live with this though every day. Thanks in advance and have a good day

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Re: Could u please help me. I m so scared
« Reply #1 on: November 25, 2017, 06:17:30 am »
Hi

Look if you did not tell them to look for HIV antibodies they were not checking for it. ANA testing does not look for HIV antibodies.

Not that it matters and relax already, you had no risk from what you posted here.  Getting your penis sucked is not a HIV risk, saliva is not HIV infectious, it also contains over a dozen elements that neutralize HIV.

Fingering is also not a risk, nobody has ever been infected from fingering ever, you will not be a worlds first either.

If this was your only concerns regarding HIV, its safe to move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

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Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Could u please help me. I m so scared
« Reply #2 on: November 25, 2017, 06:57:43 am »
Thank u very much for ur excellent answer Jim. Have a good day and take care

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Re: Could u please help me. I m so scared
« Reply #3 on: November 25, 2017, 07:45:53 am »
You're welcome
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