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Offline SouthernG88

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Oral From Positive Friend......
« on: January 23, 2017, 11:46:33 am »
Good Morning Ladies and Gentlemen! I hope everyone is having a great day and YEAR thus far!  I'm going to start by saying "THANK YOU" In advance!!!! here is what happened..........

Last week I was hanging out with a friend(Who is HIV +) and we were drinking and listening to music.... I guess we both had a little too much to drink and things went UP from there. (1) Ive been having a problem where my penis head or the skin right under my penis head would dry and crack a little leave little cuts and things like that, so id apply Neosporin or something to help it heal. I continuously masturbate so it never Heal completely! (2) My friend ended up going down on me and suck me off, and his teeth kept scrapping up against it and cause it to open a little more and also cause a couple more cuts.. I didn't think too much of it because I ejaculated within' 10mins.... I did however ejaculate down his throat... because he was throating me as well.

So NOW im just a little scared... NOT too scared but it has been on my mind that what if...... you know? so I had cuts on my penis head and idk what condition his mouth was in.... Am I over reacting?

 
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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2017, 12:03:36 pm »
Receiving unprotected oral sex is not a viable risk for HIV infection, but could be a risk for other STD's/STI's.  The HIV is fragile and, under the circumstances that you describe, there would not be an efficient pathway for transmission.

You can read more about risk activities here:

https://www.poz.com/basics/hiv-basics/hiv-transmission-risks
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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2017, 07:47:04 am »
Good Morning!!!!!!

thank you for the last reply!!!! Gave me GREAT comfort! I have did a great deal of research on this forum, and gathered a lot of information. with that being said, I thought I was playing it safe....

I ended up meeting with the guy again, and did oral again because we are starting to like one another... well, shortly after the oral, he began to eat my ass.... THEN he put his penis on my ass hole and started to move back and forth sort of massaging my hole. did not quite put it in, just the outside of the hole poking and pressing.. he pre cum ALOT... NOW im a bit nervous... but I did tell him to stop unless he went out and bought a condom. NOW im nervous from that incident. what do you think.... im taking ALL of your advice and have not been doing anything fully without protection. besides oral and im stupid for that because there are MORE STI's that can do more harm to me. so from now on, protected oral as well. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!
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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #3 on: March 07, 2017, 08:07:28 am »
Hi, Frontage/rubbing are not risks for HIV as body fluids are not infectious once outside and exposed to air.  The virus is sexually transmitted though unprotected anal and vaginal intercourse.

Best, Wade

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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #4 on: March 07, 2017, 11:04:50 am »
Since you seem to playing around the edges of having anal sex, why not have a supply of your own condoms handy to use "in case," and not have to depend on the other guy supplying them.

That way if it goes that way you will be prepared by taking responsibility for your health.
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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #5 on: March 07, 2017, 12:04:20 pm »
Hello and THANK YOU for the reply I really appreciate it!

Well the thing is, I didn't plan on that happening.. we DID however agree to the oral part, the licking of the anus came suddenly when he decided to throw my legs back.... But you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT ABOUT THAT!!!!!I read the forum and took you guys advice and got 42 condoms and three bottles of lube to keep at home, in my car and in  my bag!

SO, to piggy back off of what you all just said, even though he put his penis head directly on my anus, poked around back and forth , grinded hard, and at a point tried to trust it in(at the point I made him stop)because I felt it, im ok?
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Re: Oral From Positive Friend......
« Reply #6 on: March 07, 2017, 12:21:18 pm »
Hi

If you had no penetration so just rubbing/frontage than you had no risk as HIV is transmitted inside the human body as in never leaving the confides. Rimming is also not a risk for HIV, neither is receiving unprotected oral sex.

If you had unprotected penetration than sure you had a risk. We can only asses what you tell us.

Move on and test at least yearly as routine for STI's including but not limited to HIV. Use condoms!

Jim

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