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Title: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 08:34:01 am
This article says it all for me. What do you ladies of the stalls and backrooms and parks think? Or maybe some of our "straight" brethren can chime in?   






  http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/31/bathroom_sex/
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: DanielMark on August 31, 2007, 08:56:30 am
LOL! Hot? I think not.

Even animals don't eat where they shit!
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Matty the Damned on August 31, 2007, 09:01:15 am
Even animals don't eat where they shit!

No but I'm told Canadians do. ;) :)

MtD
(Who is very fond of a spot of cottaging)
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 09:07:27 am
LOL! Hot? I think not.

Even animals don't eat where they shit!

Oh I don't know, happy as a pig in shit ring a bell? Ever done a bit of rimming? Dirty Sanchez? Cleveland Steamer? I hate to hijack my own thread  but the topic of poo is very popular around the forums. And your post proves he who smelt it dealt it. ;D
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 09:46:06 am
each of us who live and have sex find a way that satisfies our desires. what is hot to one person is completely disgusting to another.
who are we to judge how a man or woman get off?
I accept and appreciate all types of sexual practices.......well, let me take that back. I cant accept sex involving a child or an animal.
outside of those boundries, who gives a shit.....oops maybe wrong word to use in this case.

NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 09:46:54 am
...........rimming........did someone say rimming????????
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 10:43:42 am

Even animals don't eat where they shit!

Just to clarify a misperception here - most public toilets that are popular for hook-ups rarely have anyone actually using them for non-hook-up related practices.

Then again, it is usually because they are too disgusting to even crap in so I'm not sure if I'm really making a great point here.



Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: aztecan on August 31, 2007, 11:18:11 am
This article says it all for me. What do you ladies of the stalls and backrooms and parks think? Or maybe some of our "straight" brethren can chime in?   






  http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/31/bathroom_sex/

Seemed pretty concise to me.

Did someone say . . . rimming???????? ::)


HUGS,

Mark
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: DanielMark on August 31, 2007, 11:26:44 am
what is hot to one person is completely disgusting to another.

NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


That is correct!


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Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: northernguy on August 31, 2007, 11:28:47 am
I still don't understand the physical mechanics of this.  Does the suckee put his member under the divider, and the sucker have to lower his face to near ground level (yuck) to get at it?  I can't imagine there would be glory holes in an airport washroom.

I'm not judging, but just the smell in most public bathrooms, even clean ones, would render me limp in about 2 seconds.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 11:48:15 am
I cant accept sex involving a child or an animal.
outside of those boundries, who gives a shit....NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


buca's right!


bring on the corpses and ketchup!

 :P
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 12:13:29 pm
each of us who live and have sex find a way that satisfies our desires. what is hot to one person is completely disgusting to another.
who are we to judge how a man or woman get off?
I accept and appreciate all types of sexual practices.......well, let me take that back. I cant accept sex involving a child or an animal.
outside of those boundries, who gives a shit.....oops maybe wrong word to use in this case.

NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's perfectly legitimate to judge public sex vs. private sex.  I mean really -- where do you draw the line?  Having sex on the equestrian statue in front of City Hall?
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 01:38:19 pm
I still don't understand the physical mechanics of this.  Does the suckee put his member under the divider, and the sucker have to lower his face to near ground level (yuck) to get at it?  I can't imagine there would be glory holes in an airport washroom.

I'm not judging, but just the smell in most public bathrooms, even clean ones, would render me limp in about 2 seconds.
yes that is usually the way it works. thanks to msm, everyone now knows our dirty little secrets as to how we go about sucking dick in a public washroom.
after the foot tapping and then the ever so innocent hand motioning, the sucker will generally get down and peer under the partition to find the suckee sitting on the toilet jerking it and then showing his wares to the sucker. if the sucker then deems the tool in question worthy of a bj, he will motion for the suckee to bring it on down. at this point, the suckee gets as close to the wall as possible and comes down to his knees and adjusts himself so his tool is under the wall and available to the sucker who gets on down and does his thing. a few minutes later, its all over and each is on his way....
I dont get the (yuck) part of your question as, i would say, 95% of us here got infected by taking an erect penis in our rectums.....now to most of the population, nothing could be yuckier than that!! I dont partake much if at all in anal anymore because the thought of that actually sort of grosses me out. unless your partner took a major irrigation and is colonoscopy clean, its pretty nasty when you really think about it. but again, no judgements please.
based on personal preference, id much rather be on a bathroom floor sucking dick than being a bottom boy.

re: glory holes in an airport bathroom, when the subway first opened at O'Hare, there was a bathroom at the end of the hall past the subway entrance that sported a glory hole so big you could actually crawl through it. same with the old denver airport.....near baggage pick up was a mens room with a huge glory hole that stayed for years up until they closed the airport.
judging airports on the availability of bathroom sex, chicago led followed closely by denvers.
as iggy mentioned before, most bathrooms that have the sex thing going on were seldom used for anything else. some find the smell of urine a manly turn on...me not so much, but it just came with the territory.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 01:41:12 pm
i keep my hootchie pristine.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 01:41:50 pm
It's perfectly legitimate to judge public sex vs. private sex.  I mean really -- where do you draw the line?  Having sex on the equestrian statue in front of City Hall?

hhmmmmm you just gave me an idea!!!!! although not much into equestrian references during sex, that would be pretty hot.....

still have to respectfully disagree with you about sexual judgements of any sort.
having a finger pointed at you because of the way you became infected has turned me off to judging any sort of activity.
again, one persons idea of the perfect fuck is anothers idea of utter perversion.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: BT65 on August 31, 2007, 01:42:24 pm
Well, I was in the hospital once and my first husband came to visit me and we had sex in the bathroom.  I'm not sure if a hospital room bathroom is considered public or private? ???  I'm sure it didn't have the stench of a regular public restroom.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 01:45:55 pm
hhmmmmm you just gave me an idea!!!!! although not much into equestrian references during sex, that would be pretty hot.....

still have to respectfully disagree with you about sexual judgements of any sort.
having a finger pointed at you because of the way you became infected has turned me off to judging any sort of activity.
again, one persons idea of the perfect fuck is anothers idea of utter perversion.

I don't judge what any two consenting adults do in a private space, and I think generally the majority of Americans do not actually either.  I don't find trying to draw a dubious equivalency with sex in public in the least convincing, regardless of HIV.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 02:03:20 pm
last word from me.......
regardless of where it is performed and by who, judgements of sexual activity (other than children or animals) is just so........conservative fundamentalist blah blah blah.......

shivers........
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 02:12:39 pm
I don't think I've ever been accused of being a conservative fundamentalist.  That's a new one.

By the way, I should clarify that I consider sex clubs and video peep show booths to be "private" as you have to pay to enter and you know what is going on there.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 02:21:52 pm
last word from me.......
regardless of where it is performed and by who, judgements of sexual activity (other than children or animals) is just so........conservative fundamentalist blah blah blah.......

shivers........

again i say- necrophilia is the shiznit
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: ademas on August 31, 2007, 02:26:39 pm
necrophilia?  animal sex?
talk about beating a dead horse.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 02:34:23 pm
necrophilia?  animal sex?
talk about beating a dead horse.


i love you for that
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 02:49:16 pm

i love you for that

horses can never be beaten enough
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Bucko on August 31, 2007, 02:52:18 pm
This article says it all for me. What do you ladies of the stalls and backrooms and parks think? Or maybe some of our "straight" brethren can chime in?   


Anonymous sexual encounters are sorta like drugs in my experience. I did enough of both for so many years that most discussions regarding either activity implying "judgments" will seem disingenuous if not hypocritical.

However, even when it seemed like I had few limits, I did have a few. I never injected heroin, for instance.

Boston had several TeaRooms (as public toilets where men sought sex were known in the 70s). The most infamous were at City Hall and in the basement of the main branch of the public library in Copley Square. The Fens and that part of The Esplanade closest to Beacon Hill (between the Hatch Shell and Charles Street) were basically one big open-roofed backroom, teeming with men after dark. I was well acquainted with these park areas and the fact that I could get anything I could have wanted there. But aside from a few brief tours accompanied by friends, never actually cruised those places looking for sex. 

No medals, please...

I was, however, the darling of several porn theaters and a late-teen denizen of Boston's backrooms as well as a habitué of the Regency Baths in the financial district. These venues were certainly no cleaner than the men's room at City Hall, but they seemed somehow more appropriate to me (if not the Police Department which raided these places with regularity, except for the baths which were "private"). One of the first articles I ever wrote for The Spin Cycle discusses a place called South Station Cinema and the sorts of things one saw and did there.

I even coined a term I though unique: "Parisian Manicure", which is the inevitable accumulation of Santorum under one's cuticles. Matty tells me that the expression is known in Oz, which either means that gay slang travels around the world or that great minds really do think alike. "Parisian Manicures" are strictly an operational hazard of sex without the benefits of running water nearby.

These places were all swept away in response to AIDS in the early 80s (expect for The Fens, which had a fanatical following) in Boston. It wasn't until I moved to New York in 1988 that I saw that the traditions died harder elsewhere, and Paris in 1990 that I picked up where I'd left off ten years previously.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Bucko on August 31, 2007, 02:55:55 pm
I don't think I've ever been accused of being a conservative fundamentalist.  That's a new one.

By the way, I should clarify that I consider sex clubs and video peep show booths to be "private" as you have to pay to enter and you know what is going on there.

Philly and I seem to have similar experiences once again. Odd, huh?

Something tells me that we'd have scorched a new hole in the Ozone layer circa 1984.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:04:18 pm
By the way, I should clarify that I consider sex clubs and video peep show booths to be "private" as you have to pay to enter and you know what is going on there.

Agreed.  

I am all for sex - by yourself, with someone, or with a group - and at times no holes barred sex is great.  I have seen some pretty unusual things, not for me, but if someone wants to shove a stool leg up there ass that's fine and I certainly pass no judgement.  However I think there are appropriate places and then there are inappropriate locations.  I have no desire to walk into a public restroom and see a couple getting it on nor would I want my niece or nephew to have that experience.  

I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me.  An experience I prefer to not have again.

Woods
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 03:10:55 pm
If there's one thing for which straight men envy gay men, aside from that fashion-sense stereotype, it's that we have institutions that promote no-strings sexual encounters, and that on nights when we haven't gotten lucky by last call, we can stop off at a sex club, a bar with a back room, a park or a public bathroom to find like-minded guys, usually at no charge beyond admission. So if you're a slut and all you want is a mouth on your dick, it might not matter to you whether that hole's wearing lipstick, a goatee or both.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 03:16:27 pm
I don't think I've ever been accused of being a conservative fundamentalist.  That's a new one.

By the way, I should clarify that I consider sex clubs and video peep show booths to be "private" as you have to pay to enter and you know what is going on there.
sorry philly you misunderstood my post..... i am by no way calling you a CF.....not at all!!
what i am saying is "in general" judging one by ones sexual actions is so CF.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 03:23:13 pm
sorry philly you misunderstood my post..... i am by no way calling you a CF.....not at all!!
what i am saying is "in general" judging one by ones sexual actions is so CF.


I'm not judging your "sexual actions" just the location you seem to want to do such things.  The same as I would do if the woman sitting next to me on an airplane started to yank at her labia lips with her pants down around her ankles. 

Not sure why this is a difficult concept to grasp, but whatever.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 03:30:41 pm
I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me.  An experience I prefer to not have again.




Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 03:31:22 pm
well, i too am somewhat confused by your inability to grasp the concept, but also....whatever.....
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 03:34:23 pm
well, i too am somewhat confused by your inability to grasp the concept, but also....whatever.....

i'm also kinda confused, though.  on one hand, you seem to say that anyone who gets caught doing this gets what they deserve.  on the other, you seem more than enthusiastic about it.

?? ?

Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 03:36:18 pm
well, i too am somewhat confused by your inability to grasp the concept, but also....whatever.....


Take it outside ladies we would rather hear about Woods run in with the Po-Po than from you two, bitter ol' queens. So you were saying Woods?
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 03:38:15 pm
well, i too am somewhat confused by your inability to grasp the concept, but also....whatever.....

riiiiiiiight... because I'm the sole person making the argument
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Bucko on August 31, 2007, 03:42:01 pm
I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me.  An experience I prefer to not have again.




Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.

Agreed, Woosdie...details, we want salacious details!
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dan J. on August 31, 2007, 03:42:17 pm
I have never told this story but here goes. In late summer of 1983 I was out at Muse Park here in Jackson. This park is well known as a cruising spot here in West TN. Anyway, I was out there on a hot August afternoon & this good looking man pulled up & parked next to me. He got out of his car and walked out into the woods.  I followed... When I caught up with him we kinda chit chatted for a minute. He was tugging on willy inside his pants. I thought it was an invitation to touch it, so I did. He slapped the handcuffs on me, took me to the police station. They arrested another guy the same day. The Jackson Sun ran an article about it on the front page. They listed our names & addresses. I was fired from my part time job at Parks Belk Department Store. I recieved several threatening phone calls at home so I moved to Memphis a few days later.  I tried to get home to get the news paper before my parents read the story. I didn't make it in time, when I walked in the back door my Dad started reading the story out loud.

Talk about an embarassing moment!

Dan
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 03:42:39 pm

Take it outside ladies we would rather hear about Woods run in with the Po-Po than from you two, bitter ol' queens. So you were saying Woods?


Woods stopped after getting popped by a cop he thought was a top.


(I couldn't resist)
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:43:16 pm

Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.


Just for you Auntie D,

It was November of 1992, Chattahoochee park in the Vinings area of Atlanta.  This nice looking guy was walking around the park.  He walked back in the woods to the river and I followed. We were about 15 feet apart he stopped, started groping himself first, so I did the same, he kept groping but never pulled it out.  Well I did then he opened his jacket to show a nice big badge.  It is not entrapment I guess, but definitely he was enticing his prey.  I learned never to make the first move.  Funny it was my first visit there, knew I should have stayed at Piedmont Park that afternoon..... :)

Probably will regret posting this, but I don't plan to have a public life so no big deal,
Woods
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:44:07 pm
(I couldn't resist)

 :) :) :) :) 

Nor could I that fine November day!!!!
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 03:44:32 pm
i'm also kinda confused, though.  on one hand, you seem to say that anyone who gets caught doing this gets what they deserve.  on the other, you seem more than enthusiastic about it.

?? ?



hhmmm sort of lost on this one....dont recall saying anything about those who get caught deserve it... I think that anyone who is HYPOCRITICAL and gets caught deserves it and the attention focused on them.
getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action. I wouldnt say 'enthusiastic', only relating experiences as so many here claim not to be aware of any such behavior.... ::)
anyhoo im pretty much done (buca says again) with this subject.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 03:44:41 pm

Talk about an embarassing moment!

Dan

That deserves more than just "embarrassing" :) -- more like traumatizing.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 03:44:48 pm

Talk about an embarassing moment!


Talk about understatement!  DAN - holy crap!  
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 03:45:50 pm
That deserves more than just "embarrassing" :) -- more like traumatizing.


Our jaws dropped when Dan copped that he'd been popped!

(Perhaps I should stop)
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 03:46:01 pm

getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action.

Hence why I think there are some deep-seated OCD issues going on with bathroom sex.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 03:48:34 pm
Hence why I think there are some deep-seated OCD issues going on with bathroom sex.

issues, of course, though i wouldnt place them under an OCD diagnosis.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dan J. on August 31, 2007, 03:50:23 pm
Now when they catch guys doin' the nasty in Muse Park, they take a Polaroid photo of them & keep it on file at the Police Department.

Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 03:51:02 pm
Sorry Woods Dan done trumped you.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Matty the Damned on August 31, 2007, 03:51:18 pm
issues, of course, though i wouldnt place them under an OCD diagnosis.

Really Doctor? I thought you'd finished with this subject.

MtD
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 03:52:03 pm
Now when they catch guys doin' the nasty in Muse Park, they take a Polaroid photo of them & keep it on file at the Police Department.

I'm betting some of the cops do more with those pix than just keep them on file...

mark my words - what we are seeing now with hypocrites in politics will be followed by cops who engaged in entrapment being busted for similar things.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 03:53:16 pm
hhmmm sort of lost on this one....dont recall saying anything about those who get caught deserve it... I think that anyone who is HYPOCRITICAL and gets caught deserves it and the attention focused on them.
getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action. I wouldnt say 'enthusiastic', only relating experiences as so many here claim not to be aware of any such behavior.... ::)
anyhoo im pretty much done (buca says again) with this subject.


i think i am referencing another post you made in one of the other shitter threads currently running, but i'll be damned if i care enough to go rummaging through all of your old posts to try to dredge it up, so have it your way.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:53:30 pm
 
Now when they catch guys doin' the nasty in Muse Park, they take a Polaroid photo of them & keep it on file at the Police Department.

Since the park I was in was federal, I guess my Polaroid is on file with the federal government.  Boy if they do much investigating I probably could be confused for some sort of terrorist these days.

I am just wondering what kind of training cops receive who get assigned busting the queers cruising for sex in parks and tearooms.  I mean they have it down to a T. Send out all the right signals, but never ask for it.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:54:14 pm
Sorry Woods Dan done trumped you.

I know and he got to touch it.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 03:55:18 pm
Our little Woods. Always the bridesmaid. ;D
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 03:55:36 pm
issues, of course, though i wouldnt place them under an OCD diagnosis.

Seems clear to me.  Repetitive behavior linked to an obsession.  You're obsessed with getting caught, so you repeat bathroom trolling.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 03:56:25 pm
I am just wondering what kind of training cops receive who get assigned busting the queers cruising for sex in parks and tearooms.  I mean they have it down to a T. Send out all the right signals, but never ask for it.

Maybe they went to the seminary before the police academy
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: bear60 on August 31, 2007, 03:58:37 pm
philly

I am not sure I buy the OCD label you are putting on bathroom sex....it just doesnt seem that getting caught is the obcession....but rather the sex?????
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 03:59:51 pm
Maybe they went to the seminary before the police academy

But I have never known a priest to stop the action.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 04:01:52 pm
But I have never know a priest to stop the action.

I guess you never had a nun walk in on you then?
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 04:03:22 pm
Seems clear to me.  Repetitive behavior linked to an obsession.  You're obsessed with getting caught, so you repeat bathroom trolling.

lol ok whatever you say.
just wanted to correct you though, my obsession involves 'cock' and not getting caught...and once again, i dont troll, i just enjoy.....

thanks bear for the clarification....
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 04:05:43 pm
philly

I am not sure I buy the OCD label you are putting on bathroom sex....it just doesnt seem that getting caught is the obcession....but rather the sex?????

I only pulled out my psychology degree once he wrote this

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=15161.msg191635#msg191635


getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action.

If he just wants sex he'd log on to mancunt

This ain't 1972 sweetie :)
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: buca45 on August 31, 2007, 04:08:31 pm
would you accept a faxed copy of my middle finger in response to your 1972 comment?????
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 04:09:22 pm
The thing I enjoy most about bathroom sex are those wonderful large blue mints you find in the urinals.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Bucko on August 31, 2007, 04:13:19 pm
would you accept a faxed copy of my middle finger in response to your 1972 comment?????

Festooned with a Parisian Manicure, no doubt.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Dan J. on August 31, 2007, 04:15:38 pm
Somebody didn't start SLA for nothing. 
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 04:17:03 pm
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

Woods
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Iggy on August 31, 2007, 04:22:18 pm
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

Woods


Kind of agree with this - I did enjoy it (as well as sex in the park) when I was a yoot with no other ideas of where to go....outside fo the piers and theatrers and just picking guys up off the street...but did outgrow it.

Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: marc11864 on August 31, 2007, 04:27:14 pm
Imagine the lack of effort in a Thai restroom!  ;D

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Post by: Dachshund on August 31, 2007, 04:34:54 pm
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Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 04:44:24 pm
we wouldn't have nearly as much of a problem with toilet sex if we had these...


(and i personally vote for these as the new florida toilet upgrades.  let's see how that flies)

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Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 04:47:30 pm
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Bucko on August 31, 2007, 04:52:26 pm
We seem to have forgotten Turkish Toilets.

http://www.flumesday.com/092406deadliest.html
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 04:53:19 pm
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.

they can't be more public than these...

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Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: woodshere on August 31, 2007, 04:59:53 pm
they can't be more public than these...

not public, just cute.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: allanq on August 31, 2007, 05:05:42 pm
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.

Just remember that they open automatically after 20 minutes.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: marc11864 on August 31, 2007, 06:47:54 pm
Good luck avoiding the syringes  :P
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 06:54:09 pm
Just remember that they open automatically after 20 minutes.

We'll...uh, I will have to set the timer on my cell phone.  Thanks for the tip.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Matty the Damned on August 31, 2007, 06:55:48 pm
A good lav deserves a kiss . . .

(http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j232/matty_the_damned/2081.jpg)

MtD
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 07:00:45 pm
Wow... love that stainless steel toilet console.  Where's that from Missy Timmy?
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: thunter34 on August 31, 2007, 07:12:07 pm
that is belgium, i believe.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 31, 2007, 07:12:59 pm
that's a wealth of information you're divulging there
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: fearless on August 31, 2007, 07:52:02 pm
Imagine the lack of effort in a Thai restroom!  ;D

No imagination required here,  ;D, but that's a story for another day.

I agree with Philly about the appropriateness of sex in public places, but only when I'm not involved.  ;D. In the past it was just too tempting sometimes. These days I rarely have sex, but I have enough dumb stories to fill several volumes of the Spin Cycle, except my writing talents are poor and Bucko's stories aren't dumb.

Story 1: Sydney 1989/90 (sorry, this may be a little x rated)

Walking home from my boyfriends house in Edgecliffe back to the Cross I had to cut through Rushcutters Bay Park to get home. The park was a notorious beat after dark. As I entered the Park, this rough looking 'straight' guy started cruising me. Never to pass up an opportunity, I followed him into the toilet block. He wanted me to fuck him, so I obliged, did the deed and pulled up my pants eager to get home to bed. He had other ideas and wanted to return the favour. When I started on my way home, he pursued me. I ran off into the night, only to be chopped off from behind. He had a set of knuckle dusters (or whatever you call them). I vividly remember them being brass and quite nice looking as they smashed into the side of my head and jaw. I still have a nice little scar.
Anyway, he dragged me back into the toilet hald dazed. He proceeded to fuck me senseless, me squealing like a pig in pain. He pulled out and made me take his now filthy cock and load and left me on the floor a sobbing mess.
I never condone rape or violence, but the incident did ignite a fetish in me I probably wish I'd never discovered.

Story 2: London 1994

The day I arrived in London for the first time, my mate took me out clubbing. On the way home we popped by Clapham Common for a looksie at what was going down. I recall being down on my knees, pants down round my ankles, when all of a sudden a set of car headlights came roaring down a track in between the bushes. I stood up, momentarily lstunned ike a deer trapped in headlights. My flight reaction kicked in, the pants were up and I was off. I ran and ran and ran, not wanting to be deported on my first night in the UK.
Now, I don't know if you are familiar with the Commons in London but they are generally large. I had no idea where I was, it was dark. It took me about an hour and a half to find my friend and his car.

Story 3: Amsterdam 2004

I visited in 2004 with the same mate as above, and we stayed in a little pensione just across from one of the main saunas. I was out drinking with my mate but left him in a bar and headed home for the sauna, pissed as a fart. There was a note on the door advising that the sauna was closed for renovations and redirecting me to their day sauna nearby. I studied the map and when I turned around there was this dark dutch boy with his hand on his crotch behind me.
We headed off to the day sauna, but when we got there neither of us had cash. So, we headed off back to an atm to get cash and then back to the sauna. Both growing impatient, we just went for it in some doorway. We did whatever we had to do and he blew all over my face. I was still sitting, jerking off trying to blow. Him, being a typical male needed to pee and proceeded to do so off to one side. He then looked at me with a sheepish grin, turned hosed me down with his piss and washed the cum off my face. I was drenched, my clothes soaked in a mixture of cum and piss, and sans the 100 euros I withdrew from the atm (not sure if he somehow pick pocketed me or it fell out somewhere), but smiling. Unfortunately, as I was only in Amsterdam for a few days I took very few changes of clothes with me. ::)

The good ol' days!!!

edited to ad: my dumb stories aren't all dirty boy sex related. Two mates and myself were held at gunpoint in a girly bar/brothel in Argentina in 1988. Some days I just shouldn't leave the house.



Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: northernguy on August 31, 2007, 10:28:59 pm
...I dont get the (yuck) part of your question as, i would say, 95% of us here got infected by taking an erect penis in our rectums.....now to most of the population, nothing could be yuckier than that!! I dont partake much if at all in anal anymore because the thought of that actually sort of grosses me out. unless your partner took a major irrigation and is colonoscopy clean, its pretty nasty when you really think about it. but again, no judgements please.
based on personal preference, id much rather be on a bathroom floor sucking dick than being a bottom boy...

I dunno having my face inches (possible touching) some urine soaked bathroom floor just to give a little head seems kind of yucky.  Call me crazy. 

And I somehow think anal sex (straight & gay) is a teensy bit more common than sucking dick in a public washroom.  Just a guess.
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: aztecan on August 31, 2007, 10:41:04 pm
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

Woods

If it were just as simple as just getting off, Internet sex would satisfy everyone and nobody would be catching HIV - or anything else.

There is nothing more boring than vanilla sex, except perhaps watching vanilla sex involving two twinks.

I firmly believe there is a kink in everyone's chain, all you have to do is find it.

For some, it is exhibitionism, for others voyeurism. The threat of being caught is just too delicious for some to pass up.

Then, of course, there are handballers, yellow hankie harlots and puppies who need training.

There are the practitioners of pain or those who like to spit shine boots.

Swinging slings and popper-scented leather. The the slap of my favorite cat.

Making them beg, then telling them, "No."

Hot candlewax or a razor scraping against taught skin.

Clamps, collars and restraints.

So, what is yours?

HUGS,

Mark
Title: Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
Post by: Basquo on August 31, 2007, 10:50:28 pm

It was November of 1992, Chattahoochee park in the Vinings area of Atlanta.  This nice looking guy was walking around the park.  He walked back in the woods to the river and I followed. We were about 15 feet apart he stopped, started groping himself first, so I did the same, he kept groping but never pulled it out.  Well I did then he opened his jacket to show a nice big badge.  It is not entrapment I guess, but definitely he was enticing his prey.  I learned never to make the first move.  Funny it was my first visit there, knew I should have stayed at Piedmont Park that afternoon..... :)


But did he take you to the pokey?
 :D