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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: whatcanido on March 23, 2007, 01:24:15 am

Title: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: whatcanido on March 23, 2007, 01:24:15 am
Went to a Massage Parlour Female, gave me and unprodected Hand Job, and with the other hand touched my anus, and maybe put 1/4 finger inside at most, what if she had cum on her hand from a previous customer, and it went inside my anus and I got HIV, im so stupid im never doing this again, im done should I go get tested, what if she gave me something catastrophic
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: gaz41 on March 23, 2007, 03:42:46 am
what can I do ? ...firstly learn about the transmission methods of HIV

I´m sure the lady concerned washed her hands before fingering you, I hardly think she goes around with sperm covered hands and even if she did it is highly unlikely to be infected in this manner 
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: whatcanido on March 23, 2007, 04:15:08 am
omg so there is a possibiliy, im so scared right now, somebody please help me. I cant believe I have HIV
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: thedarkknight on March 23, 2007, 07:34:32 am
omg so there is a possibiliy, im so scared right now, somebody please help me. I cant believe I have HIV

Dude, I wouldn't post something like that, it's pretty uncool of you to say when you don't know that you have, and on this site in particular, and you certainly won't from the encounter you mentioned. Doesn't work like that, it's very fragile and outside the body it breaks down very very quickly. No risk.
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: Andy Velez on March 23, 2007, 07:48:57 am
Candido, your reply was totally wrong. You are not qualified to be responding to concerns here. Don't do it again. Deal with your own stuff in your own thread.

Dark, you're here on the site also seeking help. Please stick to your own thread as well.

Thanks for your cooperation.
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: Andy Velez on March 23, 2007, 07:53:05 am
What, whether the woman washed her hands or not, HIV is not passed in that manner. And never has been. HIV is a fragile virus and doesn't remain viable in that manner, even IF she still had semen on her hand from a previous customer.

HIV is passed in very particular ways, specifically vaginal or anal intercourse, and NO, her fingering you does not qualify as anal intercourse.

We would have known long before today if fingering was a risk. There's never been a documented case of transmission in such a manner.  It's safe to say you won't make history by becoming the first. But you do need to become better informed about HIV transmission. Our lesson on the subject will give you all of the basics. There's a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section.

There's no need for further concern this time nor for testing.

Cheers,
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: whatcanido on March 23, 2007, 01:13:13 pm
Thank you andy, you truly are a gift to this world
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: Andy Velez on March 23, 2007, 03:03:28 pm
You're welcome. I am glad the exchange was helpful to you.
Title: Re: Help me I can't sleepa at night Risky Exposure
Post by: Ann on March 25, 2007, 07:30:10 am
whatcanido

Can I ask why you are using different usernames while posting to our forums? Thus far, you have also used scarredturbo (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=9141.0)

Please realize that this kind of activity is disrespectful of other forum members, as well as our moderators. People spend a considerable amount of time helping others in these forums. Using multiple accounts is at the very least annoying, if not deceiving and disrespectful of others. It is also against our Terms of Membership (http://forums.poz.com/Terms.htm) which you agreed to when you became a member. This information is also contained within the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0), which you should have read by now. So really, you have no excuse.

You must realize that the answers won't change, no matter how many names you post under.

I would appreciate a reply to this message, and I hope you will commit to using just one account - preferably your original one. If not, you will be banned from further access to the forums.

Ann