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Title: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Matty the Damned on August 27, 2007, 05:29:40 am
This thread will contain an excessive amount of profane language. Those who have a problem with that are invited to click the "Report to Moderator" link and then go and fuck themselves. Shitbags.

Today Matty the Damned schlepped down the hill from darkest Boolaboolabongbong to the Nepean Fracture Clinic to have his injured wing examined.

To say things have not gone well would be a serious fucking understatement.

Far from healing, the fracture is worse now than it was 7 days ago. The fucker has become displaced. Seriously displaced. Not only that, it seems a motherfucking infection has set in and there is some damage to the radial nerve. I can no longer move my right hand at all.

Except for the constant fucking burning ache of the shattered fucking bone, my whole right arm is completely dead.

The stupid whore of a doctor who assessed me last week, it turns out, is some half trained registrar who doesn't know her twat from a tear in a cheap pair of pantyhose. As a result I've been scheduled for emergency surgery tomorrow.

Apparently I'm in need of a humeral nail insertion. A great cock-sucking metal rod is going to be driven down through my shoulder and into the bone to join the recalcitrant ends together. I'll be in hospital for a couple of days. I have to report at 0645 hrs to begin an IV antibiotic infusion because the dumb slut has only just realised I have AIDS.

Oh yeah, THAT bit of news wiped the smug shit eating smile off her face. The slag.

As for the three cunts who did this to me, let me just say that their identities have been determined and the matter is being looked into. They will not be allowed to get away with this. They're what Australians call "bogans". In the States they'd be called crackers.

Furiously,

MtD

/edited upon reflection/
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on August 27, 2007, 05:38:29 am
Oh Matty!

I am so pissed to hear about this setback!  Dammit all!  I wish I was there, I wish we could ALL be there to wish you well in person, and to somehow help you through this.  Dammit, that cunt fuck bitch whore who tended to your arm!!  I am in a rather "profane" mood tonight, myself!  I am so frustrated for you!   >:(    >:(    >:(   

It sounds like there is going to be some physical therapy in your future to say the least, with the nerve damage.  My grandmother was 78 when she ruined the nerve in her right arm in March 2005.  Even at her age, she is almost back to normal and doing very well.  I am hoping your "youth" will be of a benefit to you.  Please don't give up with the recovery and therapy afterwards! 

I know you'll keep us informed.  I'll be thinking of you!

Much Love,

~Cindy   :-*
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: englishgirl on August 27, 2007, 06:04:51 am
matty, this is truly fucking shit and im very pissed off on your behalf
hoping that the very nasty sounding surgery goes well and is much less nasty in reality, and you recover very quickly
lots of love
xxxx
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Cerrid on August 27, 2007, 06:11:24 am
Mathilda, I wish you good luck with the surgery and cross my thumbs for your quick recovery! Let your anger out!

It's good to hear your assaulters have been identified. Hope they are thrown into the snake pit!
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: aupointillimite on August 27, 2007, 06:59:33 am
BASTARDS!

Matty, I am very very sorry to hear that you've been malpracticed on like this.

I hope that everything goes well with your osteosynthesis... I have to look at a lot of medical reports from people who have the same sort of surgery done, and they all come out on top in no time. 

I'll be pulling for you, Mr. Damned. 

Much furiousness here at medical fuckups and bastards Down Under who clearly must be put down for the good of humanity.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Dragonette on August 27, 2007, 07:06:16 am
I identify with your fury at the fucking incompetent and careless medical staff.
I think you had the same thing that I had last year: broke my upper arm but they could not put a cast on it and I was supposed to try to hold it as still as possible for 10 days and somehow managed to avoid the dreaded nail. Wish you a quick recovery with an abundance of painkillers (real ones not just love).

PS good to hear that these yobs (UK) have been located and will be punished.
  
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Nadine on August 27, 2007, 07:13:59 am
Aww Matty, I'm so sorry to all hear this.  I'll keep you in my thoughts.  I know you will come through this just fine.  :-*

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It's good to hear your assaulters have been identified. Hope they are thrown into the snake pit!
DITTO
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: emeraldize on August 27, 2007, 07:22:40 am
Matty: Very sorry to learn of your setback. Glad you're en route to being fixed and glad they found the perps. Seems a letter, once you're able, to Ms. Ne'er Do Anything Well's supervisor and higherups, might help prevent similar treatment of someone in the future. She apparently is the definition of "has looks that can kill " and likely has hyena bloodlines, hence the well-developed assholism. Hope you heal quickly and hope you have some help available while pinned. Em
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: anniebc on August 27, 2007, 07:41:55 am
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Well if they do it on my watch they will find themselves talking to the friggin wall.

I can understand your anger Matty and I hope the surgery goes well...please know I will be thinking of you and wishing you a good recovery.


((((Hugs)))

Jan :-* :( >:(
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: David_CA on August 27, 2007, 08:04:32 am
Yikes, Matty.  At least it's been properly diagnosed now and can be taken care of, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't suck.  I'll be sending you positive thoughts of good painkillers and a speedy recovery.

David
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: JeffInNYC on August 27, 2007, 08:47:12 am
I am very sorry you have had to deal with this entire situation.  You will come through the surgery just fine.  Those bogans surely will be dealt with. I dont know what to say about that stupid cooch at the registrar...its just inexcuseable to say the least.  Here in the States we sue for malpractice.  But first things first...concentrate on your speedy recovery.

Get well soon!!
Jeff
xoxoxo
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: BT65 on August 27, 2007, 09:10:16 am
My poor Damned one-
   I hope those mother-f****** who did this to you get fried along with the doctor who didn't treat this right in the first place.  I got so angry reading this.  Wish I was there to help you through this, but I know that your bad-ass attitude will help you through, along with all the people here who love you.  I'm sending you HUGE {{{{HUGS}}}}!
Love you Sir Damned-
Betty
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Andy Velez on August 27, 2007, 09:12:43 am
Good luck with getting your shoulder properly taken care of. Hope you have some good company and distractions while recuperating.

Wishing you the best recovery,
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Dachshund on August 27, 2007, 09:30:59 am
So many thoughts are going through my head right now, it makes it very difficult for me to know where to begin. There will be no Skype, no text message, email or PM for the next 24 to relieve my worries. No jokes, no gossip, no friendly banter between two men who have become as close as brothers. I hold no other person I know in higher esteem than my friend Matty.

This was a hate crime pure and simple with the resulting unnecessary consequences. Consequences that require my friend to have surgery, antibiotics for his infection, and anesthesia. Consequences requiring his family and friends to worry needlessly. Consequences we might not even learn of till later on down the road.

You can't explain this attack on junkies needing cash for their next fix or kids trying to score some easy money to buy some new Nike's. This was an unprovoked attack on a man, minding his own business, waiting for a train. A man they perceived to be queer and they attacked from behind like a pack of jackals. Think of how much more damage would have been done if after following Matty into the bathroom they had continued their wanton attack? The only bit of luck Matty had that night was that someone or something frightened these goons away.

Matty will hate me for sharing this, but I will anyway. Do you know what Matty was doing in Katoomba that day? He was attending another Labor party meeting...walks to the train station, takes the train, because he is one of the most politically active people I know. Hell, most of us won't get in our car and drive to our polling station and vote. There lies the difference, whether you agree with him or not, Matty walks the walk. Not for glory, attention or power, but because he believes in his cause and thinks it is the right thing to do and that he can make a difference. Matty is the guy that will make the phone calls, stuff the envelopes, and canvass a neighborhood door to door. He was doing something positive and good but his legacy could have just as easily been a one day headline: Gay Man Found Dead With Head Bashed In.

I don't know what else to say.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: GSOgymrat on August 27, 2007, 09:32:07 am
I hope your arm gets proper treatment this time. What quacks. Hang in there.

I'm glad to hear your assailants have been identified. May they get what's coming to them.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: RAB on August 27, 2007, 09:47:28 am
Christ Matty, this is just awful.  I can't imagine the pain and frustration you must be feeling.

Good luck with the surgery tomorrow and know that I'll be keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome and a speedy recovery.

RAB 
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: ademas on August 27, 2007, 09:48:59 am
well, damn...I'm so sorry to hear this, Matty.

I've got a few good thoughts heading your direction for a successful surgery,
and a few very hateful thoughts headed the same general direction for the fuckers that did this to you.

xox

Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: bear60 on August 27, 2007, 10:10:21 am
Sending some positive healing thoughts your way.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: cjc on August 27, 2007, 10:18:16 am
Matty, Sorry those idiots messed up the treatment of your arm so that now you have to have painful and scary surgery. I hope they give you lots of good pain meds.    I am really glad those the sorry bastards that did this to you have been identified. i hope they lock them in the basement of the  jail with the childmolesters and rapists.                           Wishing you a speedy recovery and please update as soon as you can.  Cristy
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Dan J. on August 27, 2007, 10:19:45 am
Good luck with the surgery & hoping for a speedy recovery for our dear Matty the Damned.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Miss Philicia on August 27, 2007, 10:46:15 am
I really shuttered when I read the description of the surgery you must undergo this morning, Matty (or is that tomorrow morning I guess... time difference).  Plus it's so outrageous that if this had been properly taken care of in the first place it would not be so bad a week later.  What incompetence.

The only good thing is that the attackers were caught and will hopefully live to regret this attack -- of course that's a big if the penalty is strong and it doesn't end up getting cut in half after any legal wrangling. 
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: dixieman on August 27, 2007, 10:52:00 am
Matty... I only know you from your posts and comments like many on this board.... but, I am thinking about you to have a swift recovery and I am sorry for all this unnessary set backs. Keeping you in my thoughts... John
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Iggy on August 27, 2007, 10:53:13 am

As for the three cunts who did this to me, let me just say that their identities have been determined and the matter is being looked into. They will not be allowed to get away with this.

I'm glad for this and hope to hear more of them being charged.  Sorry about the arm - particularly the infection - I hope they get it right this time.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: aztecan on August 27, 2007, 10:55:13 am
Well shit Matty,

That just plain sucks. As I mentioned before, I've been there too, including the surgery., but I didn't have the infection, or at least they never told me if I did.

Mine wasn't the arm, it was my right leg. They shoved a metal shank up it starting at the knee. So, I understand what you will be going through.

It may hurt for a while. On the brighter side, it may help the bones to heal more rapidly.

In the meantime, let the venom fly as you will. It may help ease the situation.

I will still be sending positive, healing energy your way.

HUGS,

Mark
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: thunter34 on August 27, 2007, 10:58:26 am
Matty,

To put it bluntly:  I'm too stunned at the moment to even know what all to say.  I guess I can just rely on stating the obvious:

I think the world of you and you know it.  I'm hoping for a stellar outcome from this impending surgery.

And I'm hoping for swift and severe justice for the ones that did this to you.

My love,

YPT
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: cayucosguy on August 27, 2007, 11:05:58 am
Matty -

Wishing you the best through this next part of your ordeal.  We're all sending you our love and support.  Let's just hope the judge/magistrate takes into account all of this crap you're having to go through. 

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

Vince
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: milker on August 27, 2007, 11:10:03 am
That's not the news I expected to read this morning. Sorry things got even more fucked up. I hope this time the doctors and nurses got it right and make your right arm fully functional soon.

Milker.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: northernguy on August 27, 2007, 11:14:35 am
I'm really sorry to hear of the complications.  Might there at least be some good drugs that come with the surgery and recovery? ;)

Glad to hear you have decided to pursue justice against the 3 assholes who did this.  And hopefully, your attendance at the rally will not have been in vain and that Bush-lover John Howard will get thrown out on his ass!
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Robert on August 27, 2007, 11:33:42 am
Well, let's just hope they get it right this time.  If not, the consequences could be dire

robert

Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Buckmark on August 27, 2007, 12:24:29 pm
It's darn frustrating (to say the least) when you can't depend on healthcare providers to do the right thing.  I realize they don't always have all the answers.  But in your case, Matty, it seems like they were downright negligent.

I wish you well on your surgery.  And I'm glad the perpetrators have been identified, and hope that they get what they deserve.

Henry
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: AlanBama on August 27, 2007, 02:50:28 pm
Oh Matty, I am so sorry to hear this.   Medical incompetence...just what NONE of us need.   You poor guy.

I hope you have someone to go to the hospital with you.


Sending love & hugs, and lots of positive energy your way...

Alan  :-*
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: PeteNYNJ on August 27, 2007, 04:09:04 pm
So sorry to hear of your situation - sending you positive vibes.

Who is going to make me laugh for the next few days?

Pete
(Who voted for MTD in the funniest category)
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: scud44 on August 27, 2007, 07:19:06 pm
Hi Matty - I was shocked to hear about the unfortunate and most likely unprovoked attack on you. I feel very deeply when bogans act that way and hurt an innovcent person like yourself.
I sincerely hope that everything turns out alright for you and that the recupeation period is not to long or too painful.

In a similar type of attack last year three of my friends were attacked in Melbourne - one was killed, one lost a kidney and the other is still getting treatment for nerve damage.

Unfortunately it is not a perfect society that we live in - we can only do our best

Matty, if there is anything that I can do to assist you, please let me know. I live in Hobart but am currently in Melbourne and will be back in Sydney for a few days in October.
Good luck - I hope thy get the pricks that did this to you and that they get "hell" inprison!

Regards
Scud44
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: fearless on August 27, 2007, 08:05:01 pm
This just sucks, big time.

I'll see if I can't call the hospital some time today to find out how he is going, and if my boss cooperates I may even try to go out and see the Damned one.

Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Basquo on August 27, 2007, 08:41:05 pm
Best wishes for excellent drugs for you Matty! You deserve them after what you've been through, and what's yet to come. You can hang the misdiagnosis over their heads forever, you know, and they can't do shit about it. For all the crap, at least you get that too.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Queen Tokelove on August 27, 2007, 10:24:16 pm
My Dearest Damned One,

I will miss you while you away. You mean to tell me that you can't sue those incompetent bitches, it is because of them that this infection set in. The most important thing is that you get through this surgery and get the proper healing. I'm glad you know the pussies that did this and that's what they are to me when they have to jump someone from behind. Obviously they were threatened by your manliness and you are one sexy tall drink of water.. ;) I hope you nail their asses to the wall. Her Majesty worships the ground you walk on...Get better soon..
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: fearless on August 27, 2007, 10:29:59 pm
I hope you nail their asses to the wall.

That has a number of meanings, Queen. I chuckled anyway.

I managed to speak to the man himself a little while ago. He was in good spirits and waiting to see if they can fit him in later today for surgery. In typical Matty fashion, he was far more concerned as to how I am as opposed to focusing on his current situation. How can you not love the man.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: JeffreyM on August 28, 2007, 12:54:41 am
Hi Matty, Holy Crap you have been going through a lot!  Hang in there!  I am very sorry you were not given the best of care. And very sad that  you were hurt.
Get Better Soon,  JeffreyM
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Dachshund on August 28, 2007, 06:31:47 am
That has a number of meanings, Queen. I chuckled anyway.

I managed to speak to the man himself a little while ago. He was in good spirits and waiting to see if they can fit him in later today for surgery. In typical Matty fashion, he was far more concerned as to how I am as opposed to focusing on his current situation. How can you not love the man.

Let us know the minute you hear something Steve. Thanks!
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: RapidRod on August 28, 2007, 06:59:53 am
Matty, when you get out of the hospital. You and Stevie go have a couple at the pub and take it easy. To a speedy recovery dude.

Roddles
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: scud44 on August 28, 2007, 07:17:24 am
Matty - here is one that yo can have a smile to - As I said earlier - if I can help in any way PM me


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i35WRFDcKGo


I hope you enjoy this
I always do when I feel a bit down

Regards
Scud
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: sweetasmeli on August 28, 2007, 07:29:19 am
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this latest crap. :(

Hope the surgery was successful and not too painful. Gentle but healing hugs and kisses from me.
Does this mean you're going to be like the bionic man when you get out? ;D

There's a text and voice mail waiting for you when you get out. (Didn't realise you didn't have your phone with you...Handsome Hal told me this morning...thank you Handsome Hal! :-*)

Wishing you all better and pain-free very very quickly. Love you baby!

Your Miss Melia :-*
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: camille07 on August 28, 2007, 09:00:55 am
Dear Matty-

This is just awful!  I'm sorry and my heart goes out to you.  I hope they get the buggers and throw them in the clink for eternity.

Love Cammie
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Queen Tokelove on August 29, 2007, 12:16:33 am
Hmmm, I didn't know nailing asses to the wall has more than one meaning.... ;D I can imagine what those other meanings are. I hope my Damned One is recovering well after the surgery. Maybe I will try that phrase as a pick up line.....Come here...*evil grin*, let me nail your ass to the wall, don't worry you'll love it... ;D

(The Queen with a strap on can be a beautiful thing) ;)
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: fearless on August 29, 2007, 01:07:42 am
oops. wrong thread
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Queen Tokelove on August 29, 2007, 03:04:29 am
oops. wrong thread

That's ok, sweetie....Just let me nail your ass to the wall..... ;D...Sorry, I was just dying to say that to you...
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: fearless on August 29, 2007, 03:27:41 am
I just spoke to the big man and he is doing fine.

Surgery went well, although it was delayed until this morning Aus time - Matty can fill you in on that.
No pin in the end, which sounds good. They set it back in place and he has an external brace holding him together.

He was somewhat groggy, but has not lost his sense of humour.

He will be released tomorrow and back on line soon to share the love.

Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Dachshund on August 29, 2007, 07:03:29 am
Thanks for the update Steve. I can't wait for Matty to come back online and join in the fun.

AD
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Ann on August 29, 2007, 07:20:16 am
Thanks for the update Steve!

Good news about the pin - or more to the point, the lack of one. Various metal bits inside one's person are a pain in the whatsis when going through metal detectors.

And not to mention the extra pain during the healing process.

Ann
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: sweetasmeli on August 29, 2007, 08:40:17 am
He will be released tomorrow and back on line soon to share the love.

Ooooo hubba hubba! Hmm, so I guess he'll be more like the tin man rather than the bionic man... :D

Hug hug kiss kiss to you Stephen for the update. :-* And hug hug kiss kiss for my Mattymoo. :-*

Miss Melia
(who has missed the naughty damned one's antics)
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: manchesteruk on August 29, 2007, 12:52:58 pm
Glad to hear the operation was a success Matty, looking forward to you being back on the forums soon.
Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: StrongGuy on August 29, 2007, 03:51:45 pm
If what happened to you happened to me your venting would sound like a sweet poem compared to what I would say (and do).

Hope the surgery goes as smoothly as possible and, like I said earlier, I hope when they find the f-kers someone goes mediaval on them.

Title: Re: Dumbfuck Bigot Douchebags or A Fractured Update
Post by: Nadine on August 29, 2007, 08:31:01 pm
Thanks for the update Steve!

Glad to hear things went well for ya Matty!  :-*