plz i really need help!!!

[link1]

hello

(((im sorry guys i dont speak Eenglish very well)))

im a male 22 years old i'm allergic  to many things and im having cold sores since when i was young and i used to get it when i dont eat very well or moving to other country
or when i gets stressed  and i have borken toth always beeling when i put my Tongue on it  im kind of peolpe who's overthing too much  anyway

ive been hidng  that im gay in my whole life and i had many problems with myself
i used to  eat depression bills
 
untill i moved to NYC i start dating someone i dont know if he is infected we took shower togther and we did oral sex for less then 20 sec and we stopped and  we used condom for anal sex i was bottom was less then 2 min he didnt cum it was in 2012DEC 29  and im not sure if the condom  broken   after 2 day i told my best friend im gay and i had sex
and he was really choked he told me about hiv and stuff   the way he were speaking with me i felt im infected i freakt out i had test the same day with oral test and it was neg in this time i really didnt know what to do  i lived in fear  i was reading everything about hiv and everyday i spent more than 5 hours reading i almost cry everyday and i had anxiety stress and panic attack!!

this was my frist sex and i had some symptoms i dont know if its hiv or its from the stress

i had cold sore more then 4 times in one month!!!
 
and nick pain  when i was overthinking

and hives in my feet and hand

i hope this is from the stress not hiv


and i wanna  if i can take oraquick test now

plz help me

[Andy Velez]

Link, as long as a condom was used for anal intercourse you were well protected against HIV if it was present. The only confirmed risks for HIV transmission sexually are unprotected anal and vaginal intercourse. As long as condoms are always used for those activities you will be well protected.

If the condom had broken you would have known it. It's not about itty bitty little holes as people sometimes fear. The whole thing ends up looking like a bunch of fringe with a hoop on the penis.

Nothing you are reporting symptomatically is HIV-specific. If your symptoms persist you should discuss them with your doctor. I don't see any need for HIV testing nor for further concern on your part.

Just remember that for anal sex whoever is insertive must always wear a condom. No exceptions.

[link1]

thank you Andy velez  i just wanna know how about the oral sex i told you that i have broken tooth is always bleeding
and i also feel of Swollen lymph nodes on the right side of my neck  near to my ear
is not the same of the left side i can feel it
 i cant live my life im really worry..

[Andy Velez]

Doubts and fears are not facts, and the facts of your story equate with no risk.

Leave your lymph nodes alone. You can create a real problem by squeezing or bothering them as they are sensitive to the touch. Swollen nodes happen for all sorts of reasons that have nothing to do with HIV. If they continue to be swollen then discuss the matter with a doctor.

You have no basis in HIV science to be concerned about HIV. If you can't let go of your fears then get tested and collect the inevitable negative result. I can't at this point add anything further to what I have already said. HIV is not your problem. Period.

[link1]

Andy Velez  thank you appreciate it
that's right i can't control my fear i really need to get tested and i just got cold sore again now I'm having cold sore every week..

is it ok to take oraquik in 9 weeks??

[Jeff G]

If you insist on getting tested again wait until the 3 month mark to get tested , then collect your inevitable negative result and move on with your life .

As Andy said , you didn't have a risk to worry over to begin with .