What turns you on...

[marco23]

The topic says it all...what turns you on.  Flirting with someone, kissing, touching....talking, a simples gesture.  No holds barred...What turns you on!

[aupointillimite]

Intelligent conversation.  Seriously.

And have a bloody personality. 

These things make me putty in your hands.

It also helps when a guy shows up with a 12 pack of cheap beer... and if he has chops... and we end up going out and being rowdy and getting kicked out of places.

Major turn on.  Oh yes.

[Eldon]

Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Marco...

It is interesting that you brought this up as Dating was on my mind last night when I went to go to bed. As I awaited for the sleep to fall, those were some of  my thoughts. Very interesting. Hmmm...confirmation of thought. Powerful.

In any case there are a number of things that is a "turn on" and a "turn off" for me. Good looks are a plus. However, I look for what is inside of the guy more than anything else meaning his personality , intelligence, sense of humor, originality, realism, appeal, charm, magnetisim, and OH when I look into their eyes, it tells me a story about them.

What about inside of the pants? Well that is something that is to be discovered and to be experienced. It is the QUALITY not the quantity that counts the most. Foreplay is one hell of a "turn on" just as well...Hmmm...

Enjoy your Holiday Season.

"Don't You Dare Give Up, Don't You Dare Give In... Cause it is ALL within you to WIN!"

[JeffInNYC]

I get turned on ny men who speak with accents...especially European and Israeli accents. LOL

[cubbybear]

Biggest turn ons for me, a kind soul, great smile, great eyes, great kisser and lots of fur!! WOOF!  Someone who looks like they could tear you apart with their bare (bear!) hands but too gentle to hurt a fly.

[Eldon]

Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Jeff...

Sounds like I need to learn another language. I pretty much have the Spanish accent down though. Latin guys are such "turn on's" they got the flavor to Savor!

Enjoy your Holiday Season.

"Don't You Dare Give Up, Don't You Dare Give In... Cause it is ALL within you to WIN!"

[joyluckclub]

I'm a bit of a snob,

I like a person who challenges me.  I enjoy highly stimulating conversation.  A person who is humorous.  More importantly, I like a person who has compassion and is kind and gentle in spirit and action.

[thunter34]

This thread is turning me on.

[Eldon]

Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Tim...

Its time to take care of YOU! LOL! You started it. LOL!


Enjoy your Holiday Season.

"Don't You Dare Give Up, Don't You Dare Give In... Cause it is ALL within you to WIN!"

[Robert]

 a gap between his 2 front teeth...and if he's bow-legged...watch out.

[thunter34]

Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Tim...

Its time to take care of YOU! LOL! You started it. LOL!


Enjoy your Holiday Season.

"Don't You Dare Give Up, Don't You Dare Give In... Cause it is ALL within you to WIN!"

I suppose I asked for that... LOL

[budndallastx]

A sense of humor and a great smile !!  Of course, add some sarcasm and I'm there! 

[skeebo1969]

  ...and if he's bow-legged...watch out.

    I better watch the fuck out then

[skeebo1969]

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[blondbeauty]

Mysterious personality and hairy chests! 

[GSOgymrat]

The THUMP, THUMP, THUMP of the disco beat, baby

[skeebo1969]

  Oh god my atripla insomnia...  this shits going to get me into lots of trouble one day

  Intelligence, personality, and good kissing... 

[ademas]

most recently...this dude.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p_B6xFfnncA

[thunter34]

People that are boldly goofy and left of center.  Fiercely unique.  Brainy is a big one!  Nimble communicators.  Kind and compassionate spirits.  Cuddle bugs.

Failing that, hung like a rhino.

[Lwood]

total sucker for a pretty face...   puppydog cuties get me every time...

..and the whole brainy sarcastic cynical thing helps too..

[Longislander]

I waited to get a post away from T's hung like a rhino thing.........

I'm a sucker for a handsome face. After that,if we can keep up a converstion on anything at all for hours, and you can make me laugh, I'm all yours!

Ok, if we're only talking about sex, just be hot.

[Queen Tokelove]

   Nappy pussy hair and a black ass...


   I'm not really that shallow.... really I'm not 

No nappy pussy hair here just gray ones, maybe it's the Puerto Rican in me.....   Funny, you mention a black ass, I actually had a white dude turn me down because I was not black enough and said I had too many white features, go figure...

What turns me on about a man is one who has some stability in his life. I have had too many run ins with scrubs. But  a man with a nice ass, lips, and sexy eyes. He also has to know more in his vocabulary than just slang!

(whose pussy is turning gray because of no one to play with)

[thunter34]

(whose pussy is turning gray because of no one to play with)  ~ Queen Akasha


Oh, Lordy!  She's back with a vengeance!

[fearless]

Imperfection.

I love cute guys with chipped teeth, broken noses, scars, dirt. Scroughy and rough looking. A little bit dopey/dumb doesn't hurt either.

I'm also a sucker for dirty street kids and hookers - I think it is because a) they look rough, and b) because they look like they need loving, not necessarily sex, but someone to care and love them.

Big, rough looking men who look like, and hopefully can, throw me around with the fear of real danger at the back of my mind. Afterwards though, to be in the tight embrace of such a man. Ah.  I usually go all week at the knees and shy round these types and end up missing out. damn, anxiety. give me a few beers though. grrrr

And, dimples and green eyes.

[HollyStar]

Ok, ok, ok! I haven't had sex in a while but what turns me on is a guy masterbating. MMMMMMM

[thunter34]

OK.  Post 23 turns me on.

[Queen Tokelove]

(whose pussy is turning gray because of no one to play with)  ~ Queen Akasha


Oh, Lordy!  She's back with a vengeance!

LMAO....Oh no, don't try to regret me being back now...

[sweetasmeli]

Cant remember. Its been that long...

[blondbeauty]

I just had sex with bald a man with hairy chest I met in www.bearwww.com and was back home just in time for dinner! 

[bear60]

One of the advantages of being "older", is that I have a lot of stories to tell.  
Quote:"Big, rough looking men who look like, and hopefully can, throw me around with the fear of real danger at the back of my mind. "
Apropos this one........I have a story. A friend of ours who drank too much and partied too much, had the same fantasy (aparently) because he picked up some rough trade at a bar here. Took the guy back to his apartment.  The guy tied him to a chair...now we all know being tied up is often part of a sexual encounter. ( I have had guys ASK to be tied up.  Like "aren't you going to tie me up?)  So ok so far.  But then the guy went beserk and told our friend he was going to cut him up with a kitchen knife.  ...and went into the kitchen to get a knife or knives. I am not sure if this then turned into a burglery or not but in any case our friend realized that he was in deep doo doo and had better get away from this guy.  ( Who it turned out, had murdered two other gay guys the same way.)  He managed to get out of the bindings....and because he didnt want the guy to see him...jumped out the window of his apartment. He was naked.  he lived on the second floor.  He ended up naked on the pavement with a broken back and was crawling out into the steet where a police cruiser found him.  Took him to the hospital.  He survived to testify at the criminals murder trial....he was the only survivor.  
And you know the moral to this story.......those dangerous looking guys sometimes really are dangerous.
And I cant remember if our friend was HIV positive then or not but I think he was.

[marco23]

Wow.....I just went limp.

[sweetasmeli]

I just had sex with a man with hairy chest I met in www.bearwww.com and was back home just in time for dinner! 

Right, thats blondbeauty on Ignore...

[blondbeauty]

I am a bitch, I know...but I enjoyed it.

[sweetasmeli]

Only joshin of course bb

(joshin=English slang for joking btw)

[marco23]

Blond,
you're not a bitch....you're a slut!
Talk about your friendly skies!

[blondbeauty]

Thanks, Melia. I will add it to my vocabulary book and try to use it in a sentence with a passenger. 
I have to leave you now. It is Sustiva time!

[marco23]

What really turns me on is a soft and slow kiss. Grabbing the back of his head and wrapping my other arm around his waist....the kiss always does it.

[fearless]

don't worry bear, I've ended up on the wrong side of fear myself a couple of times, and am old enough and have enough scars to know now that some things should just remain as fantasies. 

[blondbeauty]

I forgot to add...he had short hair on his back...that really turns me on. Hair all over the place except on his head. 

[marco23]

Bears make my mouth water! Big, husky guys....oh yeah...that's my other turn on.....hmmm, big and husky with nice big legs and big arms and with a chest that isn't muscular but meaty.....oh, yeah......yeah, that's it........ I think I need to excuse myself......

[blondbeauty]

And with a little beard under his lower lip...very sexy!

[cubbybear]

WOOOOOF!!! *faints*

[Rhino]

Heres a weird one. I love me a woman that can drive a stick shift .Sitting in the front passenger seat while a girl works that gear lever and clutch, just sends shivers up my spine. Hmmm that gear lever, maybe thats why I like handjobs so much

[BikerGuy]

It's that moment i realize his legs will fit perfectly on my shoulders.
It's that moment i realize my legs will fit perfectly on his shoulders.
When my husband flashes that grin.
When i drop my pants and all the men in the room smile and move closer.
When i unbuckle his belt and start to unzip his pants.
When flesh touches flesh.
Facial hair...full beard...hairy legs, chest, treasure trail...
When i write stuff like this.

[marco23]

When you write stuff like this......what.....continue...what..... facial hair...full beard..hairy legs, chest, treasure trail...........
Damn you!!! Your such a tease........Damn you to hell.......

[David_CA]

It's that moment i realize his legs will fit perfectly on my shoulders.
It's that moment i realize my legs will fit perfectly on his shoulders.
When my husband flashes that grin.
When i drop my pants and all the men in the room smile and move closer.
When i unbuckle his belt and start to unzip his pants.
When flesh touches flesh.
Facial hair...full beard...hairy legs, chest, treasure trail...
When i write stuff like this.

Damn, now I'm blushing!  No, wait, that wasn't ALL about me!  LOL     Getting a nice buzz from a few drinks or a few tokes... talking to a hot man who then stands closer and a bit of grinding takes place (frottage, anyone?), even more body contact, then a good kiss, then an invitation to follow him back to his campsite.  Other than that, a hot man in the hot tub with me is ALWAYS a turn on. 


edited to add... a few guys in these forums REALLY turn me on....

[BikerGuy]

When you write stuff like this......what.....continue...what..... facial hair...full beard..hairy legs, chest, treasure trail...........
Damn you!!! Your such a tease........Damn you to hell.......

Teasing?  Who's teasing 

[bear60]

Wondering what Campground DavidNC goes to?

[BikerGuy]

David_NC is turned on by Picnic Table; so am I

[Boo Radley]

I'm extremely discerning -- if the object of my affection has a pulse and is not using a machine to breathe I'm satisfied.

Boo