Any risk

[Benlad]

Hello
Me any my partner went to the Greek islands recently
And met up with a few guys
Every time we engaged in sex we used condoms for all sex

However one particular guy we met asked us after via a messenger app
He said he didn't want any guy to cum in his ass but he never mentioned this when we met the fact remains we came in the condom which was not broke and ok and intact he said he never lets anyone come in inside him
Now he's made us abit paranoid now because we are thinking what if he was HIV positive would be at risk ? Even though we used comdoms

Second question if we are meeting with random men and use condoms for anal sex each time do we need to take prep treatment ? Thanks

[Ptrk3]

Since you engaged in protected sex, you are not at risk for HIV infection, regardless of the HIV status of your partner(s).

For risk assessment purposes, we always presume in this forum that a partner of unknown status is HIV positive.

If you use condoms for sex, you do not "need" PrEP, but whether you "want" or choose to is your decision.

[Benlad]

Hi
I went for a general back maasarge in my local high street
It was a thai massarge which they do sweedish aromatherapy etc
I took my top off the woman applied oil and asked me do i want an happy ending, i said no couldnt beleive what i was hearing
Why she was massarging my back i felt a sharp scratch pitch i said that hurt, she said i just burt a spot, now my question is if the spot was bleeding etc would i be at any risk from her hands as i dont know where they have been

[Jim Allen]

None

[Benlad]

Thankyou, even if though she burst a spot on back what if it bled because I felt her pinch it squeeze it, what if she was infected or had cuts on her hand Thankyou my last message

[Jim Allen]

No

Its not a route to you for infection of HIV, anything on her hands was exposed to air and thus inactive and in 40 years despite wounds, scratched and boo-boo's nobody have been infected from day to day contact with them and yes touching someone's back and a spot falls under this.

It lacked exposure, quantity and route, it actually met none of the conditions needed. Theoretically as in never happened before if you cut her hands off and rubbed the stumps into bleeding knife wounds of you own it might be a risk but than I think you would have bigger problems to worry about.

Jim

[Benlad]

Hi
I recebtky met a guy and we had mutual masterbation then the
Guys pre cum was on my chest and stomach he then licked it then straight away he began to suck my penis, if he was hiv would there be any risk with this

[Jim Allen]

None

[Benlad]

Hi Jim
Can you explain a little more than just saying none
There is bodily fluids interaction so it’s deffo no
Thankyou

[Ptrk3]

You had no risk because the HIV is fragile and does not survive outside the body (exposure to air). 

Also, receiving unprotected oral sex is not a risk for HIV-infection, though it could expose you to other STD's/STI's.

Please access this link to read, learn, and understand how the HIV is transmitted:

https://www.poz.com/basics/hiv-basics/hiv-transmission-risks

[Benlad]

Last question
So even though his pre semen was on my stomach he liked then started to given me
Oral there is is no risk
Thanks
Ben

[Jim Allen]

already asked and answered

Move on with your life!

[Benlad]

So then because I don’t know that’s why. I’m asking the pre semen If was infected with hiv dies straight away when exposed to air? I was only asking for clarification that’s all

[Benlad]

Reason why I asked because his bodily fluids were involved ie pre semen licked from my chest then received oral sex, that’s why I was concerned that’s all
Thankyou for your time  Jim
Sorry to trouble again, many apologies

[CaveyUK]

It's really simple.

HIV when exposed to air is not infectious. So any pre-cum, even if containing HIV, would not pose a risk to you. Even if it was a risk (which it isn't), saliva contains enough neutralising properties to render the virus ineffective, which is why oral is such a low risk activity in comparison to other activities.

To simplify further, the ONLY sexual acts which would signify any sort of risk are :
 - Unprotected vaginal and anal sex
 - Oral as the receptive partner (giving a BJ), in the setting of significant open wounds in the mouth.

So you need to stop worrying and move on with your life. Seriously.