Yes, Drew...
Generally, the ones who tend to blame everyone else instead of being responsible for their own actions tend to fall into the category of hiding from themselves. They are actually afraid to deal with their inner anxieties as it stems from their low self-esteem. It is like they have put up a barrier in hopes of ignoring the real issues that lie dormant within them.
A GOOD suggestion would be to ask to ASk them "How do you fell about XYZ?" It puts the ball in their court and they will then have to look within themselves to give an answer to the question.
"Don't Give Up, Don't Give In... Cause it is ALL within you to WIN!"