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Author Topic: will this be the one?  (Read 4326 times)

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Offline Angel-Ronnie

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will this be the one?
« on: March 04, 2009, 06:30:01 am »
well it is now more than 5 months that i have been single and the most amazing thing happened as I closed the old door to my life embracing the new with open arms. As the Angels will give it I met the most awesome guy one can think of and who makes my stomache go all filled with butterflies and who knows what. the age thing is of no importance as it is a number and the best thing is we are both Positive Virgo's, in more ways than just living as hiv positive men. Me being 36 and Ric 50, he took me for drinks last night and we have decided to spend some time together on friday evening and where i would have had a sence of guilt I don't it just feels right. feels good and as if it is meant to be, haven't felt this way for months and I like him so much and so does he feel the same way, even calling me young sexy man which is the first not that I mind so keep it going baby.

what is nice about this whole situation with Ric he is courteous and respectful which has blown me off my feet. taking one day at a time and small steps as it is a man I can see myself be around him for a long time....
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
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Offline AndyArrow

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #1 on: March 04, 2009, 07:33:33 am »
Congratulations on your new relationship.  I hope things work out just the way you want them to.

Hugs,
AA
It is not the arrival that matters.  It is the journey along the way. -- Michel Montaigne

Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #2 on: March 04, 2009, 07:47:17 am »
Thank you AA
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
2012-04-23 CD4=847 VL=125 CD4%=29
06-02-2013 CD4=990 VL=<20 CD4%=28
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Offline cjc

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #3 on: March 04, 2009, 07:59:16 am »
Honey, you deserve to be happy and it sounds like you are. Hope this turns into a long wonderful relationship for you. Best of luck.     Cristy

Offline Texan38

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #4 on: March 04, 2009, 08:05:06 am »
Whoo Hoo!

That is so wonderful to hear! Have fun and enjoy the beginnings of a new relationship!  ;)
Lots of luck!

Take Care.  :-*
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Offline bear60

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #5 on: March 04, 2009, 08:28:47 am »
Good luck, Honey.  I am happy for you.

Joel
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Offline anniebc

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #6 on: March 04, 2009, 05:57:48 pm »
Wishing you lots of love in your new relationship.

Hugs to you both
Jan :-*
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Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2009, 02:06:20 am »
as you all know he took me for drinks on monday evening but ever since then the sweet messages I am getting is sweeping me off my feet even this morning get a phonecall from him and it was just the tops of the cake so concerned over me and feels awesome for once meeting someone that sees me as equal regardless the age difference it is just so overwelming to have met such a guy.

he has been on my mind now for a week and i can't wait to see him tomorrow evening like a school boy all excited ......

Thank you guys for the good wishes
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
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Offline Funkengruven

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #8 on: March 05, 2009, 10:11:42 am »
Congrats from one positive Virgo to another.

Offline John2038

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #9 on: March 05, 2009, 05:45:03 pm »
Congrats !

I hopes you are just at the begining of a wonderful stable happy relationships !

It's the begining, but you need to have the first day done neh ?  :D

Love is a light is the life

Keep It Well, love is PRECIOUS
« Last Edit: March 05, 2009, 06:15:33 pm by John2038 »

Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #10 on: March 06, 2009, 03:39:30 am »
Thank you so much guys I can't tell you all how I am looking forward in spending time with Ric, it will also be the first in my life that I will date another Virgo yet The feeling of belonging and the feeling of wanted and appreciation is there I feel good over this I don't know why but I do.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
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Offline John2038

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #11 on: March 08, 2009, 09:33:20 am »
No news good news ?

Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #12 on: March 09, 2009, 02:41:24 am »
well were do one start, So I went to his place on Friday evening and he took me out for dinner at the most romantic little dinner in Jhb what a gentleman knowing his wine, so i let him choose it as he has more experience in wine than what i do went back home and damn i never had someone make me feel this special in my whole life but it was worth every minute. so I spend the evening with him and went for coffee on saturday only the two of us, as it was time for me to go home it was hard as you just want to hold on to him freeze the moment with him.

Yesterday get a phonecall asking me that I should please come over for lunch, which I did who will say no if he makes you feel like you are the only one in his world your world again what a pleasant sunday lunch with great company and friends his friends though but made me feel at home so again spend the whole day and evening with him, this morning getting up for work you just want to crawl back into bed holding him don't want to let go of this beautiful soul, so we have decided that we will see where to from here,

Does it make me a slut for liking him? does it make me a slut for spending two evenings with him? if it does then I must sure as hell be one goodlooking slut.....
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
2012-04-23 CD4=847 VL=125 CD4%=29
06-02-2013 CD4=990 VL=<20 CD4%=28
05-07-2013 CD4=869 VL=<20 CD4%=30
05-12-2013 CD4=859 VL=262 CD4%=28
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Offline next2u

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #13 on: March 09, 2009, 03:18:06 am »
fallen angel,

congratulations...that is so awesome. that lovey dovey feeling is the best. enjoy your courtship and keep us posted : )
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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #14 on: March 09, 2009, 07:02:59 am »
I love optimistic stories... I'm a Capricorn, our glass has a leak in the bottom. ;)

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Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: will this be the one?
« Reply #15 on: March 09, 2009, 08:13:00 am »
well not only did I have a spectacular weekend but so to did I receive the news that my finance for a new car has been approved so I will be getting my new vehicle this afternoon I am so excited and over the moon about this can't contain myself as everything just falls into place at this point in time. I have finally closed the chapter with the ex and have moved on so new doors are opening for me and I feel good about everything and everyone that my life is blessed with.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it - Charles Swindoll
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