had protected Sex but scared by possible ARS symptoms

[Khanj85]

hello All ,

26th of sept i had a Paid sex . used condom and there were no oral involved. The condom stayed on no broken condom.
2 weeks after that i had some sort of headache similar to sinus .
a  weeks after that i had a Diarrhea for one day it went away by taking medication.
On 20th October i got stye in my right eye it stayed for 5-6 days and then went away.
After a week i got light cough with mucus. The mucus is still there and now from last week or so i have sinus type symptoms specially in nights it gets heavier.

Can you please help me assess my symptoms i have not done any HIV test yet i am so scared  like hell.

What do you recommend based on my symptoms should i go tested ?

Thanks
jk

[Jim Allen]

We don't asses symptoms here, most common is people experience none during primary infection and what you posted is not HIV specific. If you are sick see a doctor and treat whatever is making you feel sick.

You risk assessment is that what you posted is not a HIV concern, none.
HIV can not transmit through an intact condom and when condoms fail they shred leaving no doubt to the person wearing it.

So if this was your only sexual contact and/or concern it is safe for you to move on.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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[Khanj85]

Hi Jim ,

Thank you for the reply. I was going through so much anxiety that i really convinced my self that i have HIV even using protection.

I have last question . Is it true using a water based lubricant with condom further reduce the risk ?

you are doing a great work . I have never seen any one on any forum replying this fast.

Thanks
jk.

[Jim Allen]

You're welcome.

To answer the question, yes, water-based lubricate will reduce the risks of the condom braking, particularly if you ever engage in anal sex.

What you need to know about condoms is that latex or polyurethane are effective barriers against HIV, HIV simply can not transmit through the intact barrier.

Do make sure that whatever the type of condom being used, you only use approved condoms. In other words check for certification mark (FDA, CE, ISO or Kitemark). This means it complies with safety standards. Check the expiry date and make sure the condom is still in date.

Also to note when using condoms use lubricant, condom safe water-based lubricants makes condoms more comfortable and reduces the risk of breakage. – but avoid oil-based lubricants  as they can weaken or break condoms.

As for putting condom on correctly, as incorrectly done it increases the risk of breakage.  Place one on top of the erect penis and pinch the teat at the end of the condom before you start to roll it down the penis. By doing this you’ll squeeze out any air bubbles and ensure there is room for the semen (cum). Roll the condom down to the base of the penis.

If it's on correctly it will roll downwards easily. If you've started putting it on the wrong way or you’re not sure then take it off and try again. Even if the you have not   ejaculated (cum) there can still be semen on his penis (pre-cum), so it’s important to try again with a new condom. (More to do with risks off other STI's and Pregnancy than anything else) 

Finally if you are changing the sex act, than change the condom.
 
Jim