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Offline Tonny2

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« on: April 23, 2024, 12:37:48 pm »




            ojo.           Hello everyone!… Has anyone heard from numbersguy82?… he is always around here I hope and he is OK… Hugs

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Re: Concerned
« Reply #1 on: April 23, 2024, 01:34:14 pm »
I saw that he was online this morning so Charley did not eat him yet.
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Re: Concerned
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2024, 03:35:55 pm »



             ojo.           Hi Jim, thanks for your input. That’s his cat right?.… Thanks again.… Hugs

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« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2024, 03:37:17 pm »
Yeah, Charley is his cat.
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Re: Concerned
« Reply #4 on: April 23, 2024, 05:38:54 pm »


Charley is alive and well…. And so am I. Tonny we have peer support this Friday, will you be joining?
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Re: Concerned
« Reply #5 on: April 24, 2024, 12:33:28 pm »



              ojo.                 Hello numbers, I’m glad that you are ok with your cute cat. I prefer dogs as matter fact, I have two. A Shitzu and a  Coton de Tulear, the latter is 16 years old and I think, he is in his last months or even days with me, he has given me unconditional love all these years. I remember in 2010 that he let me know that I was sick and I needed to go to the hospital. Long story, but I ended up in the hospital with hemolytic anemia  an auto immune illness that almost kill me. The other doggy is six years old. I don’t know how to upload pictures so I wear share one of my babies with you guys.



About joining you guys next Friday, I’m not sure sometimes I have family coming over to visit but, if nobody shows up by surprise, as usual, I will connect to the chat…hugs

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« Reply #6 on: April 24, 2024, 02:36:24 pm »


Charley is alive and well…. And so am I. Tonny we have peer support this Friday, will you be joining?

This doesn't prove anything. Charley could have taken this selfie with some stranger's leg... or prehaps that's all that's left...


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Re: Concerned
« Reply #7 on: April 24, 2024, 04:45:57 pm »


              ojo.                 Hello numbers, I’m glad that you are ok with your cute cat. I prefer dogs as matter fact, I have two. A Shitzu and a  Coton de Tulear, the latter is 16 years old and I think, he is in his last months or even days with me, he has given me unconditional love all these years. I remember in 2010 that he let me know that I was sick and I needed to go to the hospital. Long story, but I ended up in the hospital with hemolytic anemia  an auto immune illness that almost kill me. The other doggy is six years old. I don’t know how to upload pictures so I wear share one of my babies with you guys.



About joining you guys next Friday, I’m not sure sometimes I have family coming over to visit but, if nobody shows up by surprise, as usual, I will connect to the chat…hugs

Aw your doggies sound so special. I hope your older one is with you for many many more years to come. I hope you can join us Friday!
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« Reply #8 on: April 24, 2024, 04:47:06 pm »
This doesn't prove anything. Charley could have taken this selfie with some stranger's leg... or prehaps that's all that's left...

Well that’s the problem with ole Charley… she would never be around anyone else. She’s the epitome of fraidy cat 🤣
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« Reply #9 on: April 27, 2024, 10:07:22 am »
Aw your doggies sound so special. I hope your older one is with you for many many more years to come. I hope you can join us Friday!


            ojo.             Thanks for your good wishes but, last night I was planning to join the peer support call 📞 , instead, I was at the veterinarian emergency care with my older dog that sadly I had to put him to sleep because he got one more seizure and he was suffering so much that I and  the Veterinarian agree that we should put him to sleep. After 15 years with my dog I had to say goodbye to him.… Again, thanks for your good wishes and I’m sorry  I couldn’t make it again to  the call…hugs

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« Reply #10 on: April 27, 2024, 10:19:31 am »

            ojo.             Thanks for your good wishes but, last night I was planning to join the peer support call 📞 , instead, I was at the veterinarian emergency care with my older dog that sadly I had to put him to sleep because he got one more seizure and he was suffering so much that I and  the Veterinarian agree that we should put him to sleep. After 15 years with my dog I had to say goodbye to him.… Again, thanks for your good wishes and I’m sorry  I couldn’t make it again to  the call…hugs

Oh no I am so sorry to hear about your fur-baby. Sending you a big virtual hug.
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Re: Concerned
« Reply #11 on: April 27, 2024, 11:22:04 am »
I'm so sorry to hear that Tonny. I know you have said that your doggo has been in failing health lately. I'm sorry that you've had this loss and hope that time and your memories help you get through this terrible time.

I don't know how many times you've lost a pupper, but I have had to go through that a number of times. Sadly I learned that getting a new dog every year means on the other end losing a dog every year. It's never easy....and it shouldn't be. However, it is our responsibility. We're the ones who take the awesome responsibility of how our pets live, and die, from the moment we bring them into our house. It's so easy to make the decision to get a pet, and it's oh so hard to make the decision when it's time for their too short lives to come to an end.

But making that decision at the end for our pets is just as important as the decisions we make to feed them every day. It's a terrible decision to make at the end; but it's also the most important, and often most compassionate, decision to make. I hope you feel peace for making such a difficult decision to do the best for your good doggie. It hurts but it's the right decision.

My deepest sympathies to you during the sad time.  :P :P :P
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« Reply #12 on: April 27, 2024, 11:43:01 am »



                 ojo.          @numbersguy82, thanks for the virtual hug. it was painful to take the decision to put him to sleep, but it was necessary, he was suffering, and I didn’t like that. He gave me 15 years of unconditional love and Kept me busy. I just finished walking my other dog around the block and my neighbors asked for my White Dog. I Wish I Could Upload a Picture of Him so You Can See how Beautiful he Was… thanks Again For Taking The Time To send me a virtual hug…

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« Reply #13 on: April 27, 2024, 01:21:36 pm »



                Ojo.          @leatherman, Thanks for your kind words.
Last night, when the doctor was given the second shot to my dog, I think that is a massive relaxer and the first one is anesthesia, I was thinking that back in the day I gave my mother the authorization to stop treatment or unplug me and man! What a difficult decision it is, do you know what I mean?. But anyway, it is my first dog that I had to take the decision to put it to sleep, I’ve had other dogs that die of natural causes Ivan had two boxers that my neighbor killed throwing them meat with pieces of glass, so my ducks would eat it and die from it. But in this case, my two dogs are inside docs. There are always inside my house they even sleep with me… Again, thanks for your kind words. Hugs.

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« Reply #14 on: April 28, 2024, 08:09:10 am »
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Condolences and sending you virtual hugs.
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« Reply #15 on: April 28, 2024, 11:23:30 am »



               ojo.            Hi Jim, thank …hugs

 


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