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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: Yuri on February 24, 2008, 08:47:47 pm
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first and foremost thanks for having me this is a wonderful site which is why I decided to join. I will be detailed and brief(23 yr old male) my story goes i was hanging out with my friend ashley we kissed a little in the car then she gave me an unprotected blowjob for about a min then i pulled my seat back and she didnt sit on me but i rubbed my penis against her vagina i wasn't able to get in it(trying to have sex in a car sucks!) so then i panicked moved her and i put a condom on but by then i was already scared a little cause i had rubbed my penis on her vagina i didnt even up having sex at all she was very mad lol:) but im a worry wart so yea thats my situation what do you guys think??? some feedback please. I have read that it is in the cervical area where the virus is i dont know if thats a rumor or not but anyhow that was my story.
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Anyone out there...?. This has me bugging(worried) for like 10 days now
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No risk in the story you've provided.
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Yuri,
As Rod notes, you were not at risk from this encounter.
Receiving a blowjob (unprotected or otherwise) is not a risk for HIV transmission, nor is frottage (rubbing genitals) a risk. It's true that in HIV positive women, the virus is found around the cervix, not the vaginal opening or the vulva.
You do not need to be tested as a result of this encounter. Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) and follow the links to our Lessons to learn more about how HIV is and is not transmitted
MtD
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Oo i see so it wasn't a rumor thank you very much mr matty. I thought maybe like the vaginal fluid outside from her being wet might infect me through my urethra idk man sometimes i think about too much detail but at no momment did my penis fully penetrate not once!. Kool! :)
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Contact with vaginal fluid in the manner you have described is definitely not a risk for HIV transmission.
Yes, when your mind gets overly concerned with those details it can scare you unnecessarily. But you really weren't at risk for transmission in this incident you're concerned about. No testing is necessary in relation to this incident.
In general we do recommend that anyone who's sexually active ought to have a full STD panel done regularly -- at least once a year. There are other STDs out there and some are much easier to acquire than HIV.
Cheers,