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Title: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 10:34:44 pm: Ok i thnk ive asked this question before but its friday night again and i dont know what to do...

I have 3 options:

1. Stay home and talk online until 2am and not drink anything...

2. Go out to a club, drink, dance, socialize, have a good time and then probably get hungry and scarf down a hotdog ruining my entire weeks diet (from the alcohol and hotdog)

3. Go out, not drink, probably be over it in about an hour or so and get the hell out of there (i dont enjoy myself as much unless im tipsy)

Ive been working hard at the gym lately, keeping a decent diet and alcohol screws me because i dont drink 1 drink I normally end up drinking 5-6 even if i say 1-2 only before i go out.....Drinking is not good for me but its fun....I have no job right now so i stay home and talk online till 2 am all week ...

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!
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Post by: Miss Philicia on March 30, 2007, 10:36:07 pm: read a book
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Post by: thunter34 on March 30, 2007, 10:41:43 pm: Take nudie pics of yourself and post them for your friends at AM.

Just a thought....just trying to help.
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 10:43:50 pm: i need to buy a good book.....

auditing principles is the only one i have that i should be reading but i study on sundays hehe....

I'm just a ball of energy most of the time so standing still at night doesnt do it for me usually (but im probably going to force myself to stay home wishing to go out lol)

youd think id be tired after going to the beach, lifting weights for 45 minutes and then running for 30 minutes later on in the evening....

but NO...im WIDE awake lol
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 10:45:13 pm: Quote from: thunter34 on March 30, 2007, 10:41:43 pm
Take nudie pics of yourself and post them for your friends at AM.

Just a thought....just trying to help.

i have a few on manhunt lol .....but i dont even want to sign on there because im trying to be good (kind of like someone lol)
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Post by: milker on March 30, 2007, 11:27:56 pm: Take a flight to San Diego and meet Milker

Milker.
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 30, 2007, 11:39:25 pm: believe me...id love too...but trips to california from PR are expensive (ive checked it out)
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Post by: Cseanr on March 31, 2007, 12:16:07 am: I can understand your delima. I often feel like I have to stay him and be reclusive so I won't feel like a zoo animal when friends see the weight I've gained from the meds. I tend to take a weekend trip and visit friends. But back to your question, set aside one weekend a month and go out and have fun. Your going to die one way or another, so you might as well have fun while your on this earth !!!
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 12:24:46 am: There is no dilemma here.

If you're a True Gay Man, you'll be out at Club Papi, drinking vodka from a yard glass, munching disco bikkies, shaking your tight little tushie before going home to an extended session in the sling with a pipe smoking daddy called Sid.

MtD
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Post by: mjmel on March 31, 2007, 08:15:10 am: I vote for:
3. Go out, not drink, probably be over it in about an hour or so and get the hell out of there (i dont enjoy myself as much unless im tipsy).
Because the sooner you understand the shallowness of what bores you (going out without street medications or intoxications in the system) -- the sooner you'll find something else to occupy yourself that is more in line with your goals.
Seems like you are going through a period of transition and you have to be patient with yourself while you adjust. (Easier said than done, I understand.) You're trying to build up that already magnificent bod of yours. Think of the rewards when you do get the opportunity to visit milker in San Diego! ...........who's going to be involved in some gym time real soon too.
Be nice to yourself and don't soil the body with poisons, young one. Remember you've been there; done that. You walked away from it for a reason. :-*
xxx,
Mike

P.S. MUST allow for a good time out now and again. I don't mean to convey some sort of puritanical impression. ;)
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 03:12:33 pm: i stayed home last night and did nothing hehe....i guess im not a true gay man mtd (welll last night anyway)..although i wish i could have enjoyed the sling last night....

but since i stayed home last night if i face the dilema again i can choose choice #1 or #3 hehe...

Luckily i havent started med yet because ive seen some posts on here of people drinking and then taking meds and they feel like they were hit by a bus (but others are fine with it)....in my case id probably be better off feeling like i was hit by a bus hehehe
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 04:52:57 pm: Don't feel bad. I went out last night for all of 30 minutes. Had one cider and then went home... tried watching some movie with James Garner in it for 20 mnutes and fell asleep on the sofa.

Wild times.
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Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 04:59:24 pm: ;D

Life is not just about drinking and vogueing, you can also have fun at home just use your imagination.

Or you can invite a couple of friends and vogue and drink at home..

Al

(who thinks people who vogue are funny) >:(
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Post by: Miss Philicia on March 31, 2007, 05:04:41 pm: vogue Miss Thing... you so fierce!
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:08:40 pm: lol voguing im not a voguer....it is kind of funny though

im more of the shirtless boy on the box kid kind of guy (i was going to say kid but im not 18-19 anymore *sighs*) and then finds a cute tourist tourist to make out with on occasion (it never fails...if i go up to someone even if theyre latin they dont live here haha)....

i do enjoy drinking at home with friends but my friends here in puerto rico are the "regulars" you know the ones that are at a club EVERY friday-saturday night without fail...they have a panic attack if they have to stay home (another reason why i stayed home i dont want to get in that RUT)

being an active night owl sucks sometimes....because what ACTIVE thing can i do at 12am other than go out (i dont think running at 12 am is very safe lol)
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:10:16 pm: Quote from: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 04:52:57 pm
Don't feel bad. I went out last night for all of 30 minutes. Had one cider and then went home... tried watching some movie with James Garner in it for 20 mnutes and fell asleep on the sofa.

Wild times.

lol why only 30 minutes?!.... and you only had 1 cider? that doesnt seem like the benj i know from preious posts...

-josh

(who believes benj has 6 drinks at home before going out for 30 minutes lol)
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 05:13:27 pm: I've been cutting back on drinking a lot, actually.

I know... it's like I don't even know me.

But drinking heavily and going out non-stop has seemed kinda boring to me, lately. So I've been staying in and reading books and watching movies. It's nice in its own way.
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 05:20:30 pm: Cider!?!?!

How deliciously Earnest Left Wing Student Activist circa 1992!!!

:-*

MtD
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:21:27 pm: well thats good...thats what im trying to do i suppose but i just dont get overly enthused by reading books.....not only does it get routine but its not good for me and i can be somewhat of a health nut sometimes

have any good movie reccomendations? (seen almost every new realease lately)....

I have been going to see foreign films lately also at the theatre hear but then its 12am and i en up going out sometimes anyways....
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Post by: Miss Philicia on March 31, 2007, 05:22:41 pm: Gay Clubbing Rule #274-J: never EVER be caught dancing on a raised area in a club... this includes most definitely the "disco boxes"!
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:23:08 pm: i doubt they even sell cider here....i dont think ive ever had cider actually guess ill have to overindulge on it one day so i can be knowlegeable in that area of life ;D
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Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 05:26:44 pm: you didn't seem like the voguer type. I bet you can salsa and drink Bacardi Rum all nigh though. ;)
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:28:58 pm: Quote from: philly267 on March 31, 2007, 05:22:41 pm
Gay Clubbing Rule #274-J: never EVER be caught dancing on a raised area in a club... this includes most definitely the "disco boxes"!

i never read that rule in my manual...must have missed it....why was this rule imposed????

i never played by the rules anyways!!!!! (guess thats why i am a member of this site lol)

Now that you explained that rule to me i understand #275 which states "if you break rule #274-J NEVER and i mean NEVER fall off!" it was halloween though and i wasnt used to platform boots (but i bet it was the booze)

that same night i broke rule #278 which states "when leaving a club please make sure that you leave with clothes on" unfortunatly my painted costume broke and i walked out ass showing and holding my crotch....

i need to retake the ettiquette course honestly...

god those were good times....i never gave a shit in florida hahaha

but now i am definatly more calmed down :-D

-josh
(who really wants to find a reason to wear those boots again)
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 05:29:26 pm: Cider is pretty good in its own way.

You can taste the apples.
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:30:22 pm: Quote from: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 05:26:44 pm
you didn't seem like the voguer type. I bet you can salsa and drink Bacardi Rum all nigh though. ;)

lol im not the best salsa dancer....and i dont like rum (unless there is nothing else then obviously i wont say no).....

i think may 1/2 white boy genes take over in that aspect..
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 05:41:33 pm: Quote from: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:30:22 pm
lol im not the best salsa dancer....and i dont like rum (unless there is nothing else then obviously i wont say no).....

i think may 1/2 white boy genes take over in that aspect..

oh... so that means you skateboard and dance to Blink 182? Or am I wrong again?
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 05:43:47 pm: Cider is pretty good in its own way.

You can taste the apples.

Cider was Matty the Damned's choice of bevvy in his Homocult days. Then he turned 18 and stopped drinking for seven years.

MtD
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 05:56:05 pm: Quote from: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 05:41:33 pm
oh... so that means you skateboard and dance to Blink 182? Or am I wrong again?

wrong again .....i like vogue music i just dont do all the voguing pantomime stuff ....but i like dance, pop, tribal, trance, all that good stuff youd hear in any GOOD club....

i also like rock, latin pop/rock, and many other genres.....im just not a good salsa dancer but i can dance other things very well :-D....
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 06:37:38 pm: i like vogue music i just dont do all the voguing pantomime stuff

You protest too much, methinks Josh. Admit it. When you're alone in your bedroom, you whack on the soundtrack to Dick Tracy and make like Madge. ;)

MtD
Title: Re: Dance or stay home sober?!
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 06:41:44 pm: Quote from: matty.the.damned on March 31, 2007, 06:37:38 pm
i like vogue music i just dont do all the voguing pantomime stuff

You protest too much, methinks Josh. Admit it. When you're alone in your bedroom, you whack on the soundtrack to Dick Tracy and make like Madge. ;)

MtD

how did you know?!?!

you obviously see right though me (just dont tell anyone :-[) lol
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 06:46:50 pm: My friend and I choreographed a dance to "More" fom Dick Tracy last summer.

It was so extremely, painfully gay. But out of character for me and therefore amusing.
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 06:56:15 pm: i need to hang out with wierd people like you guys (no offense)

...i think thats my problem and why im always bored (and never used to be bored when i had crazy wierd friends in florida but here everyone sucks lol)
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 07:03:06 pm: When I was 13, I was totally into a ghastly Brit Boi-Band called Bros. I used to lock myself in my bedroom and prance around singing their songs into my hairbrush.

;D

MtD
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:06:50 pm: for me it was the new kids on the block and menudo lol

-josh

(who secretly had a crush on the boys in the bands)
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 07:08:23 pm: Oooooooooooooh! NKOtB and The Right Stuff! How 1989!

MtD
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:10:41 pm: i know...i think of that now and it seems so cheesy lol....

i was a 90's child/teen.....

the 80s were cheeesier though (but more fun you have to love the hair haha)
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 07:16:52 pm: You haven't seen me clean my apartment.

I put on what I call "The Sparks Mix" really loudly.

It has songs like "Grazin' in the Grass" and "Rock Your Body" on it.

I act very "I Heart XY."
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Post by: Matty the Damned on March 31, 2007, 07:18:44 pm: I remember the 80's so well.

(http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j232/matty_the_damned/364.jpg)

MtD
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 07:22:41 pm: Hey I'm a DALIDA baby...

Milker.
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:24:45 pm: who?!?!l

lol :-*
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 07:33:55 pm: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dalida

The Gay goddess of the 80s in France :D
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 07:36:03 pm: I prefer the Supreme Goddess of France for All Time.

Emmanuelle.
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 07:36:55 pm: Quote from: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 07:36:03 pm
I prefer the Supreme Goddess of France for All Time.

Emmanuelle.

Oh My... been some time since I heard that name lol :D :D :D :D :D

Milker.
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:38:50 pm: ok so i obviously am lacking in the culture dept....

i need to broaden my horizons a bit....
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 07:40:04 pm: Quote from: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:38:50 pm
ok so i obviously am lacking in the culture dept....

i need to broaden my horizons a bit....
I'll give you private lessons on French culture ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D With drawings ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Milker.
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Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 07:49:13 pm: Quote from: milker on March 31, 2007, 07:40:04 pm
I'll give you private lessons on French culture ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D With drawings ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Milker.

Hey Milker

Your insinuiations of stealing my man by teaching him "French Culture" is a bunch of nonsense. Why can't you control your estrogen hormones and flirt with other men.

Al
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:49:41 pm: milker your french right?

just send me a picture of your culture :o
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 07:51:38 pm: I had a culture taken today!

Wait... never mind....
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:52:06 pm: Quote from: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 07:49:13 pm
Hey Milker

Your insinuiations of stealing my man by teaching him "French Culture" is a bunch of nonsense. Why can't you control your estrogen hormones and flirt with other men.

Al

i obviously have problems controlling my hormones also...but im working on that....

i love you too al :-* lol....cant we all just get along (preferably in the same room, same place, same time hahhaa)....

i have too much energy tonight ....probably because i just ate lol
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:53:51 pm: benj you can keep your culture to yourself i know enough about that culture....that culture (Neisseria gonorrheae) ar savage!
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Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 07:59:53 pm: Quote from: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 07:53:51 pm
benj you can keep your culture to yourself i know enough about that culture....that culture (Neisseria gonorrheae) ar savage!

That particular culture's being genocided right now.

Tee hee!
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 08:03:31 pm: lol....so your the one theyve been looking for with the "weapons of mass destruction"
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 08:05:03 pm: Al, you're invited to the French class too ;D ;D ;D ;D

Milker.
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Post by: Dachshund on March 31, 2007, 08:05:54 pm: Quote from: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 08:03:31 pm
lol....so your the one theyve been looking for with the "weapons of mass destruction"

correction: weapons of puss destruction
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 08:08:34 pm: Quote from: Dachshund on March 31, 2007, 08:05:54 pm

correction: weapons of puss destruction
Puke! :o :o :o :o :o
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Post by: puertorico2006 on March 31, 2007, 08:10:07 pm: Quote from: Dachshund on March 31, 2007, 08:05:54 pm

correction: weapons of puss destruction

i was just trying to sugar coat the wording lol....

but i stand corrected lol
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Post by: Miss Philicia on March 31, 2007, 09:27:56 pm: I'm sorry but the 80's were simply the fiercest. Everyone is still copying that decade. I thank God every day that it was *my* decade.
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Post by: milker on March 31, 2007, 10:16:06 pm: I agree with Philly, although I think the 70s were pretty cool too. The HIV scare was starting, and clubs were closing, but there was much more sexual and mind liberation than there is now. I look at the boys that were born after 1986 and they're not experiencing the fun that I had, IMHO.

Milker.
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Post by: Matty the Damned on April 01, 2007, 04:12:12 am: I thank God every day that it was *my* decade.

Yeah, we thank God it was your decade as well.

Fondly,

MtD :-*
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Post by: aupointillimite on April 01, 2007, 12:36:38 pm: My friend and I have decided that it seriously needs to be 1967.

(http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e39/marsaudiacsolo/peacocks_mod.jpg)
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Post by: bear60 on April 01, 2007, 12:53:57 pm: I confess......I used to think Jean Paul Belmondo was the sexiest man alive......and he was

(http://i178.photobucket.com/albums/w278/bear169/Belmondo.jpg)
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Post by: puertorico2006 on April 01, 2007, 01:08:56 pm: you guys rock....

blah i had to sleep without air conditioner last night because the electricity was all fucked up and only half powered so my fan wasnt working either....wierd surges and stuff....

drunk and hot is not fun lol
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Post by: Ihavehope on April 01, 2007, 03:37:25 pm: Quote from: puertorico2006 on April 01, 2007, 01:08:56 pm
you guys rock....

blah i had to sleep without air conditioner last night because the electricity was all fucked up and only half powered so my fan wasnt working either....wierd surges and stuff....

drunk and hot is not fun lol

u should have rang me Mr.Rico, I would have fanned you to sleep.

;)

Al

(who is not being slutty just flirtacious)
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Post by: puertorico2006 on April 01, 2007, 03:56:09 pm: Quote from: Ihavehope on April 01, 2007, 03:37:25 pm
u should have rang me Mr.Rico, I would have fanned you to sleep.

;)

Al

(who is not being slutty just flirtacious)

i would have called you but i didnt want to wake you :-* i didnt get home until 6am a bit late lol
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Post by: Miss Philicia on April 01, 2007, 05:38:36 pm: Shouldn't you be at the Atlantic Beach Hotel's Sunday Tea right now?
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Post by: puertorico2006 on April 01, 2007, 06:05:15 pm: nah sundays i stay in, go to church, and repent for all the evil things i did during the weekend so i can feel better about myself all week and do them again next weekend....

sunday is the day of worship helllo?!?! dont you know this :-D

-josh
(who doesnt even go to church and doubts anyone will believe this)