Want bj from friend hiv + status

[questguy]

Hi. I have a friend I've know a long time. He has an HIV positive status. He is also undetectable. He's been HIV + a long time and he just learned about that he is undetectable and what it means etc. He's always kind of hinted over the years that he wants to suck my dick but I've been hesitant about it. Though we've never really talked about it. After reading more about how HIV is spread and the effectiveness of current HIV meds, it seems that it should be pretty safe to let him do it. Sucking without a condom. Do I have this right? I understand there are still other STDs that can be acquired via oral sex.

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

Even if your friend was HIV+ and without treatment with a viral load in the millions, receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV. Thus it makes sense that after nearly 40 years of this pandemic in terms of BJ's, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"), and you will not be the worlds first.

I understand there are still other STDs that can be acquired via oral sex.

Yeah, receiving a blowjob is not an HIV risk to you, but it still poses a risk for transmission of other STI's.

Look use condoms for any intercourse, no exceptions and as you are sexually active get tested regularly and at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and, the only way of knowing is by testing.

[questguy]

Even if your friend was HIV+ and without treatment with a viral load in the millions, receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV. Thus it makes sense that after nearly 40 years of this pandemic in terms of BJ's, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"), and you will not be the worlds first.

That's good news

Yeah, receiving a blowjob is not an HIV risk to you, but it still poses a risk for transmission of other STI's.

Look use condoms for any intercourse, no exceptions and as you are sexually active get tested regularly and at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and, the only way of knowing is by testing.

Ok cool. I guess I thought this was the case. It's just feels final to hear it directly. I like this guy and I want to do that. So will proceed. Thank you.

[questguy]

That's good news

I just wanted to say that by this I meant that I feel comfortable to do what i want to do.