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Title: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Ann on October 20, 2007, 10:45:52 am
Dear All,

Christine's husband, Chris, told us in another thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=16463.msg209255#msg209255) that her service will take place at 2pm on Monday, Oct 22, in Hershey Pennsylvania.

While most of us will not be able to attend, I would imagine many of us would like to mark the service in some way - I know I do. I'm going to light a candle and put it in one of the windows of my home. I feel this small act is so very appropriate, as Christine was a beacon of light in the darkness for so many of us.

I originally thought that I would be lighting Christine's candle at 7pm (to coincide with 2pm on the East Coast) but I checked with timezoneconverter.com (http://www.timezoneconverter.com/cgi-bin/tzc.tzc) and discovered that because the US will already be on winter time, but we will not, I will be lighting the candle at 6pm.

I'd like to ask everyone who knew and loved Christine to join me in lighting a Candle for Christine to coincide with 2pm Eastern Time on this coming Monday.

Ann
xxx


on edit...
PS - I get the feeling that some aren't reading my second post (Reply#4) in this thread about my mistake with the time change. Please do so if you live outside of the US
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: david25luvit on October 20, 2007, 10:54:23 am
Consider it done Ann.................
May she rest in peace
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dachshund on October 20, 2007, 10:55:14 am
What a beautiful gesture and I will join you in this most fitting tribute to our beloved Christine. It will be one pm Central Standard Time here in Memphis. The light that is Christine will continue to shine.

Thanks
Hal
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Iggy on October 20, 2007, 10:55:29 am
Love this idea and will do.

Thank you for suggesting this.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Ann on October 20, 2007, 11:00:27 am
I've just been informed that the law governing the yearly time-change in the States has been changed and has come into effect this year.

http://aa.usno.navy.mil/faq/docs/daylight_time.php

This means that if you live in another part of the world and use the time zone converter I linked to, you will need to alter the time it tells you by one hour. Whether you add or subtract an hour will depend on where you live and whether you're ahead of the East Coast or behind.

I'll be lighting Christine's candle at 7pm my time, as originally planned.

Ann
(who tips her hat to Iggy for the heads-up concerning the new time-change law)

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: thunter34 on October 20, 2007, 11:02:32 am
I'm absolutely in.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: AlanBama on October 20, 2007, 11:39:35 am
I'll light one for her at my church.


Thanks Ann, a lovely idea.

hugs,

Alan
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Alain on October 20, 2007, 11:40:43 am
The power of light!

Monday @ 200PM Eastern it will be.

Thank you Ann.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on October 20, 2007, 11:51:55 am
I'll be lighting one as well.  This is a beautiful thing that we can all do for Christine.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dan J. on October 20, 2007, 11:58:22 am
I will light one also. MOnday @ 1:00PM

You can also light a candle online...

This virtual Candlelight Memorial serves as a reminder that HIV/AIDS touches every person in every part of the world. We invite you to light a virtual candle for anyone who has been touched by HIV/AIDS.

http://www.candlelightmemorial.org/light_candle/index.php?page=6

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Moffie65 on October 20, 2007, 12:10:44 pm
Ann,

My candles will be lit at 11am, and burn for the rest of the day, here in Arizona.

Love,
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Miss Philicia on October 20, 2007, 12:25:35 pm
Will do, many thanks Ann.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: StrongGuy on October 20, 2007, 12:43:45 pm
Very nice idea Ann...

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: JBN727 on October 20, 2007, 02:24:08 pm
Unfortunately I didn't know Christine, But i'd be absolutely honored... There will be a candle burning at 2pm Cleveland Time Monday at my house
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Queen Tokelove on October 20, 2007, 02:39:23 pm
I will be lighting one at 2 pm as well...
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: J.R.E. on October 20, 2007, 03:13:05 pm


I will also be lighting a candle at 2:00 pm , this Monday.


Ray
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: sweetasmeli on October 20, 2007, 03:15:17 pm
I already emailed Chris this morning saying I would do just that on Monday. Thanks for the time difference heads-up, Ann.

Debra xxx
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dragonette on October 20, 2007, 03:21:30 pm
Monday 18.00, will light a candle.

(modified for right time)
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: chemistry001 on October 20, 2007, 04:38:20 pm
Her light will shine across the pond, I've read many posts by Christine in the last year and found strength and caring in the words she has said.
London will be illuminated and she and Chris will be in my thoughts.

Paul xXx
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: pozguy75 on October 20, 2007, 05:30:14 pm
We are so IN!
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: mjmel on October 20, 2007, 05:42:58 pm
EST @ 2 PM, Monday.
in rememberance of Christine.
xxx,
Mike
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: heartforyou on October 20, 2007, 06:47:08 pm
7 pm monday
I will light a candle in our main cathedral and have one burning all dayat home in sweet memory of our sister Christine who has preceeded us in death.

In memory

Heman
Gent
Belgium
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Teresa on October 20, 2007, 06:47:59 pm
Lit a candle in Christines memory on the web and will lite a candle Monday 1pm central time.

What a wonderful idea to honor Christine.

Teresa
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Oceanbeach on October 20, 2007, 07:09:00 pm
I am doing so as well.  Have the best day
Michael
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Jody on October 20, 2007, 07:26:39 pm
A very fine and compassionate idea Ann...I have it noted on my calendar to light a candle as soon as I get home from work Monday, about 6 PM.

In loving memory of Christine...

Jody
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Ric Wilke on October 20, 2007, 07:28:24 pm
Dear Ann,

Yet another reason that we love you so.

Hugs, Ric & Thom
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Biracial Bodybuilder NYC on October 20, 2007, 08:10:08 pm
My partner and I, here in New York City, will be lighting a candle for Christine, as well.  In the meantime, I am going to try and find a Disney-themed candle to light on Monday, since I know she liked Mickey/Minnie Mouse and anything Disney themed.  I'll also be listening to the theme of, "When You Wish Upon A Star" at 2 pm for her, as well.  I'm sure her spirit will be with us all at this moment.
Love You Christine,
Marco-Antonio
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Peter6836 on October 20, 2007, 09:23:02 pm
I am in!!!!!
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: pozattitude on October 20, 2007, 09:33:51 pm

I will have a candle light lunch with Christine on Monday and I'll wear my Mickey Mouse ears that day.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: xyahka on October 21, 2007, 12:23:15 am
Hi, i want to join you.

I am not sure where i will be on Monday Oct 22th at 1pm Ecuador time, perhaps i will be travelling... but i promise at 1pm i will pray for her and for all of the people who have left us. And... since i might not have a candle in that moment... i will turn on the lintern of my mobile for a minute, in memory of an incredible woman who will shine in our lives forever.

Juan Carlos

Edited to correct time
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: anniebc on October 21, 2007, 06:38:45 am
Hi Ann

I left a candle burning for Christine in Christchurch Cathedral at the weekend, but I will be joining the others and will be lighting one on Monday as we farewell Christine.

Hugs
Jan :'(
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: joemutt on October 21, 2007, 06:56:01 am
In Bangkok there will be a candle burning for Christine , it will then be Tue 2 am here.
Thank you for this inspired idea, Ann.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Ann on October 21, 2007, 07:47:50 am
Thank you to everyone who has responded so far - or will be participating but haven't posted.

I love the Disney tie-in ideas, as well as the "When You Wish" song. Chris, if you read this, could you let us know if there is a specific song Christine wanted played at the service? (((((Chris)))))

Ann
xxx
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: jntmax39 on October 21, 2007, 09:02:22 am
That is a great idea Ann i am on easterntime and i will also be lighting a candle at 2 pm. so sad.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: emeraldize on October 21, 2007, 12:29:31 pm
Lovely sentiment. Lighting a candle here at 2 p.m. Monday.

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Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: next2u on October 21, 2007, 02:26:17 pm
will do, her posts have inspired us all.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: water duck on October 21, 2007, 06:10:33 pm
Dragonette - 18h

Herman 7pm (19 h)

We are all in the same time zone, which one of you is correct ??

Ann , thank you for suggesting this, i shall light up in Brussels.

Wd
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: mjmel on October 21, 2007, 06:50:09 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkkzydIwdjU (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkkzydIwdjU)
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: pozniceguy on October 21, 2007, 06:55:50 pm
That performance by Shirley Bassey is certainly a classic rendition..it will bring tears to your eyes..a very fitting goodbye tribute to Christine..

Nick
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: fearless on October 21, 2007, 07:17:20 pm
I think it will be 4am on Tuesday, Sydney time, but I'll fill my room with candlelight tonight before I sleep.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Matty the Damned on October 21, 2007, 07:39:25 pm
A small but vibrant flame will burn for Christine somewhere in the wilds of Boolaboolabongbong at that time.

MtD
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Christine on October 21, 2007, 08:29:22 pm
Sorry I haven't had a chance to post in response. "When You Wish Upon a Star" would be a fitting song to play. I'm sure she would think it would be perfect. My personal favorite is Barber's Adagio for Strings, there are no words but it makes me cry every time I hear it. It will definitely help me smile tomorrow, knowing that candles all over the world will burn for her.

http://www.e2studio.com/creese/Barber_Adagio_for_Strings.mp3

Thank you all.

- Chris
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Terry on October 21, 2007, 09:37:40 pm
11am. tomorrow, Here on the west coast. So sad yet so beautiful.. :'(

Attached is a link to that song.


http://solosong.net/wish.html (http://solosong.net/wish.html)



I suggest that everyone turn the volume up on his or her computer so we hear it worldwide.


Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dachshund on October 22, 2007, 08:24:48 am
May I respectfully suggest that when we reach the hour, that worldwide we all observe a moment of silence.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: bear60 on October 22, 2007, 08:34:17 am
My candle, which will burn all day,  is lit .
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dachshund on October 22, 2007, 08:35:03 am
thanks Chris I will listen to Christine's song today.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: emeraldize on October 22, 2007, 08:37:15 am
A moment of silence is a fine suggestion.

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Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Andy Velez on October 22, 2007, 09:01:22 am
Another NYC candle here today at 2pm. It's a wonderful way to remember and celebrate Christine.

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: sharkdiver on October 22, 2007, 10:11:44 am
At that time (11am) I'll be at work but I'll find a way to light a candle for Christine. In fact, the little guy I work with at that time loves Mickey and Minnie Mouse. Maybe we'll both don Mouse ears during this hour in honor of Her as well.

eric
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dachshund on October 22, 2007, 12:39:42 pm
As the hour approaches you might want to....


http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: woodshere on October 22, 2007, 01:09:37 pm
As the hour approaches you might want to....


http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng

Thanks Hal, as I am at work was unable to light a real candle, but went to this site.

Peace to all,
Woods
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on October 22, 2007, 01:47:12 pm
Thanks, Aunty.  I appreciate the link you posted.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Jerry71 on October 22, 2007, 01:53:26 pm
Candle lit here.  :'(
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dachshund on October 22, 2007, 01:58:33 pm
Rest in peace Christine.

Love,
Hal

http://www.e2studio.com/creese/Barber_Adagio_for_Strings.mp3
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: pozguy75 on October 22, 2007, 01:59:56 pm
I lit a candle in two places,
http://www.candlelightmemorial.org/light_candle/ and one here
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=4574300

I was not able to do so here at work, but I wanted to make sure I did at least one!

I love you Christine!
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: MOONLIGHT1114 on October 22, 2007, 02:00:49 pm
Candle lit, ears on and songs playing.

God Bless You, Christine    :'(    :'(    :'(

http://solosong.net/wish.html

http://www.e2studio.com/creese/Barber_Adagio_for_Strings.mp3

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: sweetasmeli on October 22, 2007, 02:09:05 pm
Rest in peace, Christine.

Love
Debra xxx
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: xyahka on October 22, 2007, 02:13:55 pm
Que descanses en paz Christine.
Rest in peace.

Missing you...

Juan Carlos
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: pozattitude on October 22, 2007, 02:18:53 pm
I couldn't go home for lunch so I lit a candle in my office next to my Tiger clock and stapler (not mickey but still a disney character)  :'(
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: thunter34 on October 22, 2007, 02:31:23 pm
Yes, I've been here also since 2. 

Wow, Christine...just look at all the love you inspired in your time here.

I don't know how there could be any greater testament for a person's life than that.

I wish you peaceful rest now.


Timothy Hunter
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dan J. on October 22, 2007, 02:35:20 pm
My candle is buring.

Rest in peace Christine.

Love,

Dan Jones
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: cmhjeff on October 22, 2007, 02:41:35 pm
Have an orchid scented candle burning for Christine on my desk as well as a virtual candle.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Iggy on October 22, 2007, 02:47:09 pm
Just came back from St. Peter's in Charlotte where I lit two candles for her from me and Jeromy. 

Your name was said and you were thought of throughout the world today Christine.

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: AlanBama on October 22, 2007, 02:59:08 pm
I lit a candle for Christine at 1pm CST, at Holy Comforter Church...

Rest in peace, my friend.   

With love,

Alan
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: Dragonette on October 22, 2007, 03:03:33 pm
Scented candle still burning. I took a picture of it but I don't know if I should post, anyway I'll keep it.

Rest in peace, Christine.
 :'(
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: manchesteruk on October 22, 2007, 04:47:59 pm
Rest in peace, Christine.
Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: heartforyou on October 22, 2007, 06:06:07 pm
Christine,

I cried  today, not only over your passing but also over the immense togetherness that I have witnessed growing on the Forums since you are gone.

This solidarity is just overwhelming. Now where on  earth can you find this beside on AM?

My candle is still burning over here in Gent, Belgium.

May you rest in peace Christine and to Chris : please come back and vent if you need to. We are here for you now.


Herman
 :'( :'( :'(

Title: Re: Light a candle for Christine
Post by: RICKY77531 on October 22, 2007, 07:36:29 pm
(http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g17/ricky77531/ShineCross.jpg)      May you rest In peace Chrisitine...May gods light shine on                                   
                                                                                                                    you..Thanks for all the support ,advice....