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How do you feel about the person who infected you?Do you forgive them?

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It's been just over 3 years since my diagnosis, but I'm still angry. Whenever I think about him I get feel rage and disgust and hate. And I know I can't fully place blame on him - because maybe he didn't know he was poz, but it doesn't make me any less angry or upset. 
I keep trying to get myself to forgive him - I keep telling myself that there's a chance he didn't know and I just can't bring myself to forgive him.
Maybe one day it will come, but not yet.


Hi and welcome to the forum.

As a new member, can you please open an introduction thread in the "I Just tested positive" section and introduce yourself to the forum members. Thanks.

Let us know how are you doing, how the treatment is going etc. It's standard for new members. :)


--- Quote from: Vonnie82 on August 08, 2021, 07:04:35 am ---Iím still very angry at the person who infected me, I was engaged to him and found out at a meeting at church that he had a male lover he was dealing with that was infected with the virus. I found out a few months after being infected his cousin told me he intentionally infected me because I questioned his sexual preference. I believe itís harder for me to get over because I had to see him and his mother frequently at job. So the constant reminder the person that altered my life abs the reason Iím no longer able to date seriously is rubbed in my face.

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Now this is a crazy story!!! Iím sorry Vonnie this happened to you! I felt that way about dating too, but I promise you it will get better. Men will still find you attractive and youíll get your confidence back.


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