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Offline feargoingonme

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insertive oral sex unprotected
« on: September 11, 2016, 08:04:42 am »
 Hi
A man performed oral sex on me without a condom 17 days ago and I ejaculated in his mouth .
Am I at a risk.
I can't work at office and enjoy my life because of this fear.
I don't have any symptoms yet

Thanks

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #1 on: September 11, 2016, 08:08:35 am »
Hi

No you are not at risk.

There hasn’t been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the first. It simply is not a risk.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions. As you are sexually active, it is highly recommended that you get a full sexual health check-up / screening at least annually including but not limited to hiv testing.

Remember that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's. So please do get fully tested regularly for all STI's including HIV and more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs. Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Finally use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, to avoid sexually transmitted hiv infection.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #2 on: September 11, 2016, 08:12:15 am »
Hi Jim.
Thanks for your  prompt reply.

Are u sure about this.can I live as normal then.

Should I get tested.

Kind regards

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #3 on: September 11, 2016, 08:14:15 am »
Hi

This incident was not a HIV transmission risk. End of story.

Specific testing is not needed as you simply had no risk however as you are sexually active, it is highly recommended that you get a full sexual health check-up / screening at least annually including but not limited to hiv testing.

Remember other STI's are far easier to transmit than HIV.

Jim
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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #4 on: September 11, 2016, 08:19:02 am »
Thanks Jim.

I will live normally then.

I trust ur comments.

Regards
Now I'm happy

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #5 on: September 11, 2016, 08:34:26 am »
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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #6 on: September 24, 2016, 09:49:41 am »
A month ago a gay man performed fellatio on me.i was the insertive partner and didn't use condems.
Now I have a sore throat that didn't cure after using antibiotics and I have a muscle aches on my arms.
Please help me. Should I get tested.
That guy also licked my pee hole.can saliva enter through pee hole. And i saw a rash on that man's arm.he performed oral sex about 10 minutes.
I have hiv or not

Please help me pls

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #7 on: September 24, 2016, 10:20:47 am »
Hi, Nothing you mentioned was risk for HIV.

No one has ever been infected from getting a blow job and you will not be the first,
confirmed cases have been sexually transmitted through unprotected anal and vaginal intercourse.  Sorry to hear your not feeling well but your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV , so please see your doctor if your ill.
It is safe to move on .

Best, Wade

To avoid infection,
You need to be using condoms for all anal and vaginal intercourse until you are in a trusting monogamous relationship and both have been tested for all STIs and HIV.
Everyone who is sexually active should have an annual exam and test for all STIs and HIV ,and always after unprotected intercourse. Always using condoms will give you peace of mind your tests will return with a negative result.
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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #8 on: September 24, 2016, 10:35:50 am »
Posting the same question in a different way will not give you a different answer, it
will only lead to a ban.   Also do not post outside this thread again.

Consider yourself warned,  Wade
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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #9 on: October 09, 2016, 01:25:40 am »
Wade had warned you not to ask the same question and not to post outside your own thread.

You have now earned yourself a 28 day ban, and the post was deleted.

Getting your penis sucked is not a HIV risk, saliva is not infectious, it also contains over a dozen elements that neutralize HIV. You had no risk end of story now move on with your life, no drama required.

Jim

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #10 on: November 11, 2016, 06:57:03 am »
Dear moderator,

On 25th august a man performed oral sex on me.he licked my pee hole as well.

Symptoms
1.dizziness
2.rashes
(Red color bumps)
3.muscle aches and joint aches

I know i have hiv and pls dont ban me without answering me.please i dont have money for subscription .

Im so poor and i decided to commit suicide.
I just wanna get a final answer.

Bye.

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Re: insertive oral sex unprotected
« Reply #11 on: November 11, 2016, 07:05:42 am »
Asked and Answered a number of times over.

Last and final time it was not a risk and whatever is making you sick it is not HIV from getting your penis sucked.

You have been permanently banned.

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