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Offline klu3

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HIV risk - Anal frottage and slight insertion
« on: May 04, 2015, 10:33:29 pm »
I met up with an escort yesterday for some fun. Originally, I was suppose to top him, but he asked me if I wanted to bottom. I never bottomed before and was curious. I said I'll try it out, he puts on a condom, then starts to penetrate me. As my first time bottoming, there was discomfort and pain and he pulled out as soon as I told him.

After that, he took off the condom and started rubbing his penis against my anus. At first it was gentle, but as it went on he started to apply more force. At one point, it felt like part of his penis penetrated. This went on for like 5 minutes. The confusing part is that being a first time bottom, I don't have much experience and wasn't sure how deep the actual penetration was (i.e. before the sphincter, after the sphincter, etc.) or if there was penetration at all. It was definitely not full penetration like before when they guy had the condom on though.

Now I'm mainly concerned with the risk of HIV infection after the guy took off the condom and started the frottage. I did not know the guy's status, but he seem pretty safe during our visit. For example, when I tried to ejaculate on his chest, he put his hands in front of his face to prevent semen from touching his face.

It would be helpful to know the HIV risk. I've been worrying about this the entire day.
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Offline Joe K

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Re: HIV risk - Anal frottage and slight insertion
« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2015, 10:40:35 pm »
Anal frottage is not a risk for infection.  You used a condom for the penetrative sex, just as you should, so that is not a risk.

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth.
Very specific health care situations.

Use condoms for vaginal and anal sex consistently and correctly and you will avoid HIV infection, it is that simple.

Joe
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