Deep fingering with multiple CSW

[Mag2803]

Hi. Is fingering a risk of hiv. I have fingered some women really deep inside her vagina, i felt the cervix and kept going. The problem is in one of the exposure i had clipped my nails really short and then fingered her, the next day my fingers stings and when i applied pressure to the finger, tiny blood came out. I got scared that vaginal fluids might enter the cut that had blood.
- my proximal nail fold and side of the fingernails is not the good, there is scapes and nicks in the fingers. Is it safe that i fingered some womens deep in her cervix and with these small cut and the condition of my fingers. Why does it stings or hurt after fingering sometimes.
Secondly. I had brief protected sex with CSW. I think its was 3 minutes sex.i dont know if the condom broke or not. I developed tingling sensation in my penis thinking i got std. i start focus on it for months. Later after a year, i developed prostatitis (cpps) pain after ejaculation and slight discomfor after urinating. Im afraid it might be hiv related.
- i did frottage with a girl. She was on top me, placed my penis on my pubic area and went above it and started grinding for a minute. Is that a risk of hiv, im afraid my penis went in during frottage ( grinding) and I didnt know. She said it didnt went in, she just rubbed her clit on my dick to make her cum and before that i fingered her deeply.
Will i know for sure if my penis went in?
Please assest my risk. Thank you

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

I read your post three times.

The fingering & frottage wasn't an HIV risk to you and neither was the intercourse. HIV can't be transmitted through an intact latex, polyisoprene or polyurethane condom. Unless a condom obviously fails during intercourse, there is no reason to be stressing about HIV outside the standard yearly HIV screening.

Now, of course, you did have risks for far easier-to-transmit STIs but there is no need to panic, just get an STI screening yearly out of standard routine.

Will i know for sure if my penis went in?

Yes.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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[Mag2803]

So fingering with small cut really deep in her vagina for awhile until she cums is not a risk of hiv. Im sorry for the words.
Im afraid durinf frottage my penis went in without me knowing. This women is married and she has 3 children and the youngest is 4 years. She works as CSW for extra money, plus she works as cleaner in a hospital. Highly unlikely she got HIV but i dont know. I just afraid my penis went in when she was grinding on top of me.

[Jim Allen]

So fingering with small cut really deep in her vagina for awhile until she cums is not a risk of hiv. Im sorry for the words.
Im afraid durinf frottage my penis went in without me knowing.

Asked and answered already.

This women is married and she has 3 children and the youngest is 4 years. She works as CSW for extra money, plus she works as cleaner in a hospital. Highly unlikely she got HIV but i dont know

PLHIV can have children, I have two of them myself and PLHIV can also work in hospitals. Totally meaningless.

Move on with your life.

As you are sexually active, use condoms for any intercourse, consider PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention and get an STI screening yearly. Also talk to your healthcare provider about vaccination against HPV, Hepatitis A & B.

[Mag2803]

Im sorry if i offended you.
Am i clear or no risk of hiv from all the activities i have done.
Fingering deep with a cut multiple times , heavy frottage grinding for a minute and protected vaginal sex.
And i will move on, i just want your last comment and thank you.

[Jim Allen]

Asked and answered already.

You asked:

Hi. Is fingering a risk of hiv. I have fingered some women really deep inside her vagina, i felt the cervix and kept going. The problem is in one of the exposure i had clipped my nails really short and then fingered her, the next day my fingers stings and when i applied pressure to the finger, tiny blood came out. I got scared that vaginal fluids might enter the cut that had blood.
- my proximal nail fold and side of the fingernails is not the good, there is scapes and nicks in the fingers. Is it safe that i fingered some womens deep in her cervix and with these small cut and the condition of my fingers. Why does it stings or hurt after fingering sometimes.
Secondly. I had brief protected sex with CSW. I think its was 3 minutes sex.i dont know if the condom broke or not. I developed tingling sensation in my penis thinking i got std. i start focus on it for months. Later after a year, i developed prostatitis (cpps) pain after ejaculation and slight discomfor after urinating. Im afraid it might be hiv related.
- i did frottage with a girl. She was on top me, placed my penis on my pubic area and went above it and started grinding for a minute. Is that a risk of hiv, im afraid my penis went in during frottage ( grinding) and I didnt know. She said it didnt went in, she just rubbed her clit on my dick to make her cum and before that i fingered her deeply.
Will i know for sure if my penis went in?
Please assest my risk. Thank you

I answered:

The fingering & frottage wasn't an HIV risk to you and neither was the intercourse. HIV can't be transmitted through an intact latex, polyisoprene or polyurethane condom.

+

Will i know for sure if my penis went in?

Yes.

[Mag2803]

My bad getting back here. To my previous post. I couldn’t not post from my thread.
- After Protected sex, as i said i developed later prostatitis a year after the incident with swollen lymph nodes around the neck. I checked it out and the doctor says its too small but i can feel them. Is prostatitis related to HIV or STI?
- i don’t have to do hiv test from the exposures i have done?
- Am i safe of hiv from these exposures?

[Jim Allen]

Your post in the "Living with HIV" section has been removed.

You had no HIV risk from the activities you mentioned here, this has been explained to you, your left testicle and right arm could fall off but it has nothing to do with HIV from the activities mentioned here and we are not going to pretend otherwise as that would be a disservice to you and the wider community.

Please do not post about this again as I'll consider it excessive, it already is, so posting about this again will lead to a ban*

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[Mag2803]

One last question and im moving on from this.
I got Prostatitis a year after protected sex. I didn’t check the condom becuase it had anxiety during the sex and i finished quickly and left. By having tingling and discomfort in my penis 2days after the sex.im afraid the condom broke without me knowing and i developed these symptoms and the prostatitis.
- Dry mouth and ulcers, swollen lymph nodes in the neck, Bloating and gassy with slight constipation, feeling fatigue and brain fog, recurrent sinusitis and headaches.
- you told me fingering is not a risk but what about if there is a cut and blood, what type of injuries will pose a risk?
It is just when i got the tingling sensation and discomfort in penis 2 days after sex and prostatitis ( painful after ejaculation that lasts awhile, dull pain or stinging after urination, just discomfort in my pelvic area) made me think that the condom might failed or broke.
Thank you again and my bad for excessive question.

[Jim Allen]

28-day ban for excessive posting over no HIV risk situations/activities.

These questions have all been asked and read three times before I answered that it wasn't an HIV risk to you and you were warned. Now, if after 28 days, you return with more of the same the ban will be longer.

what type of injuries will pose a risk?

In theory something like if you got into a knife fight with her and were both needing urgent medical care, bleeding profusely into each other's wounds. However, that didn't happen, your situation was sexual contact not some fight to the death.

Also, you did not call an ambulance to attend to her vagina and in a moment of madness decide to cut your finger off whilst waiting and finger her with the blood stomp left on your hand to pass the time. My concern would be for her BTW in that scenario, not you and you would both have bigger problems than HIV to deal with.

What happened is you had a sore finger and fingered some lady, you also had sex with a condom and did some frottage, 2 days later you had a tingle in your cock. It's not an HIV risk and day-to-day scrapes, cuts etc are not an HIV route.