Worried slipped condom

[Kalma]

Hi.

Sunday 29th January, I had a intercourse with a guy. I refused to do both anal and oral sex (no penetrative in any case) because I forgot to bring condoms. So we decided to do frottage, both of us weared underwear, at certain point I came and ejaculated in my pants, he probably not (I'm not sure 100%, but I see him mastrubating after). For a week I was sure what is "safe" for HIV.

But passing time I begin to have fear, because after five days I had a light throat sore lasted 3/4 days, (not fever the max temp was 36.8°C) that I would catch the virus. To worse the situation he told me that he had a unprotected intercourse (most probably oral, but he didn't tell me exactly in that occasion he did unprotected sex, he told what "he didn't like to do an oral without condom").

I will test after 40 days, but I want to know how probabilites, and how I must worry.

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

What you posted here was no HIV risk whatsoever, none!

Move on with your life, and as you are sexually active, get a yearly STI screening and HIV antibody test out of standard routine.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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[Kalma]

Hello, tow days ago, I had a intercourse with a guy.

He waer a condom with a attempt to do anal, but didn't succeed, because the I forgot to buy a a lubrification, so we had and intercourse where he rubbed in my anus without penetration (I don't feel any pain, I fell push sensation in the area but I don't feel that he was in), when I noticed that the condom was gone I stopped immediately,  he didn't came so no ejaculation.

How much the risk what I catch HIV?

Thanks in advance

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

What you posted here was no HIV risk to you.

Move on with your life, continue to use condoms, and consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention going forward.

[Kalma]

The forum make an error for some reason posted  a past topic what I asked.

The situation was this, two day ago o had a intercourse with a guy, and I tried to do an anal, he wear condom. But he didn't succede to going in, becuase i forgot the lubrificant, so we effectively we do an intercourse what he rubbing his penis in my anus, he didn't penetrated me (i don't think that che come in, i don't feel pain I don't feel that he was in, only that he's pushing I'm that area), but at certain point I noticed that his condom was slipped, and I stop immediately, he not came at moment so no ejaculation (maybe a bit of precum I don't know).

how much it is the risk to catch HIV?

[Jim Allen]

The forum make an error for some reason posted  a past topic what I asked.

The only error was you opened a new topic instead of posting in your original topic (thread). I corrected your error by merging the posts into a single topic.

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[Jim Allen]

The situation was this, two day ago o had a intercourse with a guy, and I tried to do an anal, he wear condom. But he didn't succede to going in, becuase i forgot the lubrificant, so we effectively we do an intercourse what he rubbing his penis in my anus, he didn't penetrated me (i don't think that che come in, i don't feel pain I don't feel that he was in, only that he's pushing I'm that area), but at certain point I noticed that his condom was slipped, and I stop immediately, he not came at moment so no ejaculation (maybe a bit of precum I don't know).

how much it is the risk to catch HIV?

Asked and answered already.

Hiya,

What you posted here was no HIV risk to you.

Move on with your life, continue to use condoms, and consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention going forward.