Shaking with Fear

[deeply distrubed]

Thanxz to all of you for this wonderful helpful platform you have made online.

I am male of 30yrs, i did a protected sex with a black girl from Kenya, living in China. The girl says she is negative, but i don't know if she is saying truth or not because later she told me its her business to sleep with people and demand money.

My worry is as follows.

First she gave me oral unprotected on my penis, after we did a vaginal intercourse with a  condom, later when i withdrew the penis from her vagina and the condom was still inside her,  it didn't slipped during intercourse because when i was withdrawing my penis from her vagina, the penis was coming out of the condom itself but condom was held inside her, maybe i was bit soft.[but i haven't reached any climax yet].
After this she again gave me oral and this time she gave a new condom for my penis and we again did the intercourse which was again protected. Now when i reached climax, i thought i had ejaculated inside the condom, so i hold my penis + the condom which was intact and was covering it, to withdrew from her vagina, i saw that there was very less cum inside the condom, so i thought maybe my ejaculation was not high, so i just removed the condom from the penis and flush it. Then i went to bathroom and soaped my penis and cleaned it with water and dried it.

Now my concern is that if there is any chance that when i last ejaculated, there could be a leak in condom through which the semen might have leaked out of condom.[i was stupid enough not to check the condom for any leak but there was no rupture/tear was visible at that time] Is there any risk of contracting HIV in such case. I am actually shaking with fear and tormented mentally.

[Jeff G]

Hi Disturbed . If the condom had broke you have known it because they are designed to catastrophically fail , they will not just get a small hole , they will noticeably fracture .

The oral sex you had isn't a risk for HIV and the vaginal sex was with condoms and even though you slid out of one leaving it inside your partner it was still protected sex .
You did not have a risk for HIV .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care checkup, including but not limited to HIV testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine checkups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine HIV tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than HIV. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid HIV infection. It really is that simple!

[deeply distrubed]

Thanxz for million times, you have poured a cup of life inside me..... i am in tears, thankz alot .........

[Jeff G]

You are most welcome !

[deeply distrubed]

Hello every one,

As the forum experts already told me that i did not have risk of HIV. I believed them.
Its been more than 7 weeks, today i took a rapid test just to keep my mind calm which went paranoid after seeing a TV commerical last night and the result came out negative. Which further states that how easy it is to practice safe sex and stay away from getting infected. I request all youngsters to use condoms when ever you have to do intercourse.

Thankz POZ team for helping us all. You guys are wonderful. God Bless you all.

[Jeff G]

Thanks for the update !

[Jeff G]

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[deeply distrubed]

Noted Jeff