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Title: Did I infected my Friend ?
Post by: panda on November 29, 2010, 06:44:52 pm

I am  FEMALE HIV +.Viral load undetectable for many years.
I went thru something very bad in my private life today and I went to get some comfort at an old friend.
One thing lead to the other , he does not know about my HIV ..I asked him to put a condom , he put it once and then during the sex he took it off. I tried.. I realy did to take him off me but he was about to come and pull some force on me. The result is that I did an un protected sex.
What are the chances I have infected him with my VL undetectable for a very long time ?

Title: Re: Did I infected my Friend ?
Post by: tendai on December 03, 2010, 05:13:06 am

from what i've gathered on this site, its very unlikely that u infected him as your VL is undetectable and the virus already is difficult to transmit from female to male.. fingers crossed

Title: Re: Did I infected my Friend ?
Post by: panda on December 03, 2010, 02:31:37 pm

Thanks - I really hope so ... Although I am not talking with him now  cause of what happened ... He said he is sorry that he used force on me. Anyway I emailed him that he should get tested - But I did not tell him anything about myself.