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condom slippage anal sex
« on: August 29, 2022, 04:34:02 am »
Hi Thank you for the Great works!

I had anal sex with a guy, I was the bottom, he put on a condom while entering me, but after he ejaculated, during withdrawal, the condom was stuck in my anus with the rim of the condom hanging outside of my anus.

I did not realise it at first, until a few minutes later after his withdrawal, he told me that the condom was stuck in my anus, I quickly pulled it out, I could see that he did cum inside the condom, there was no leakage, although there was cum leaking out from the  rim, the tip of the condom has no visible break or leakage, the exterior of the condom did feel quite slippery and slimy, I dont' know if it is cum or not, since I did use a lot of lubricants.

also could the condom have slipped while he cum? he did thrust me a few times after orgasm, so the cum could have ended up outside the condom?

Am I at risk ? I have already started taking pep 48 hours post exposure.

please help Thank you!
« Last Edit: August 29, 2022, 04:37:15 am by goodtoknowmore »

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Re: condom slippage anal sex
« Reply #1 on: August 29, 2022, 04:46:44 am »
Hiya,

Look, if there were any "fishing" for the condom, it would be an HIV concern; if during withdrawal, your partner slipped out of the condom and left it hanging half out, then I don't see any HIV concern.

Since you prehaps didn't directly witness what happened and have started PEP already, continue with the course for the full 28 days.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier acquired STIs.So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms, and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: condom slippage anal sex
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2022, 04:52:07 am »
Hi Jim

Thank you for you advice, May I know what do you mean by "fishing"

You are right, I did not witness what happened, I can only be sure that the rim of the condom was hanging outside and there was cum in it.

I will continue the Pep for 28 days, he will get tested too, if he comes back negative. should I continue with Pep?

once again thank you for your advice.

Tom

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Re: condom slippage anal sex
« Reply #3 on: August 29, 2022, 05:01:02 am »
Fishing as in its fully gone and having to go looking for pulling it out.

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he will get tested too, if he comes back negative.

If he has a non-reactive result it means nothing to you for serval reasons and to name a few; The window period, people lie about this stuff and you don't have direct unrestricted access to his medical results. The only way to know your HIV status is if you test.
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Re: condom slippage anal sex
« Reply #4 on: August 29, 2022, 05:05:45 am »
Thank you, it's quite likely that there was no fishing involved, because I didn't have to look for it, I feel the rim right away as it stick outside of my anus.

I should continue with pep since there is indeed a window period.

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Re: condom slippage anal sex
« Reply #5 on: August 29, 2022, 02:19:58 pm »
You're welcome.
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