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Offline JOEB

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LAP DANCE
« on: August 31, 2007, 01:44:03 pm »
Two weeks ago got a lap dance. The dancer had g-string on and i was fully clothed. The dancer
was grinding me for a while and I came which i know is no risk, but before that the dancer put her
vagina in my face for 2 seconds and stupidly i put my tongue out lick it, her g-string was on so
I don't think my tongue went inside her. Then the same thing happen when she put her ass in my
face. My tongue touch her ass for 2 seconds and g-string was still on. Is this considered oral sex
and do you think I need a test for hiv, hepatitis and all stds. I had a test on may 30 2007 for
hiv and all stds. Please reply if i should have any test and Iam married can I still have unprotected
sex with my wife. Also the test on may 30 2007 was negative for all stds.

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Offline RapidRod

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #1 on: August 31, 2007, 03:01:12 pm »
Where is the situation that you are concerned about?
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Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #2 on: August 31, 2007, 03:29:07 pm »
WITH THAT SITUATION IS A TEST NEEDED FOR HIV, HEPATATIS OR ANY STDS.
AND IS IT OKAY TO HAVE SEX WITH MY WIFE UNPROTECTED.
CAN I MOVE ON WITH LIFE AND FORGET THIS.
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Offline RapidRod

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #3 on: August 31, 2007, 03:57:49 pm »
You were never at risk with the situation above.
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Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #4 on: August 31, 2007, 04:08:29 pm »
So I don't have to worry about any stds.and no testing at all.
just confirming that I can get back to my life
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Offline RapidRod

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #5 on: August 31, 2007, 04:17:35 pm »
You don't need any kind of testing.
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Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #6 on: August 31, 2007, 04:25:33 pm »
So if some fluids got in my mouth it wouldn't matter, even hepatitis.

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Offline RapidRod

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #7 on: August 31, 2007, 04:27:50 pm »
For the last time you were never at risk. Period.. End of story.
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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #8 on: August 31, 2007, 04:36:08 pm »
For what it's worth since I suspect you are riddled with anxiety at this point, I'll add my voice to say you don't need to test. You weren't at risk in this situation. Period.

Get on with your life.

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Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #9 on: August 31, 2007, 04:44:59 pm »
Andy, I don't need testing for any stds. besides hiv.
Because it was so brief. Just nervous that I would give something to my wife.
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Offline Ann

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #10 on: August 31, 2007, 04:48:05 pm »
Joe,

You don't need testing for anything in relation to the lapdance encounter. Nothing you did put you at risk for anything. Yes, you can have sex with your wife.

Ann
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Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #11 on: September 02, 2007, 08:55:46 am »
Well friday I was happy with answers from the experts, but on saturday woke up with stuffy nose
and feeling tired. Now on sunday still stuffy nose and a little fever also. I know this forum doesn't
look at systems but now I am scared again because I never get sick and especially the summer.
I hate to do this to myself but all I think of is this encounter, I might caught something.
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Offline RapidRod

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #12 on: September 02, 2007, 09:32:34 am »
See a doctor it has nothing to do with HIV.
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Offline Ann

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #13 on: September 02, 2007, 10:06:24 am »
Joe,

If you hate to do this to yourself, then stop it. Just because you "never" get a headcold in summer doesn't mean that you can't. Stressing out can tax your system and make you more susceptible to colds and flu.

Symptoms or ever the LACK of symptoms mean nothing when it comes to hiv. Many people don't notice a thing - would you be as worried if you didn't get a stuffy nose? Your nose means nothing in terms of hiv.

You didn't have a risk for hiv in anything you bring to us, so whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv. See your doctor if your symptoms continue.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #14 on: September 02, 2007, 11:32:48 am »
So even if my tongue went into her ass & vagina for 2 seconds there is no risk for hiv,hepatitis and
any stds. Headcold, fever and means nothing. My test on may 30,2007 would mean I don't need
anymore testing as this was my only encounter since test. Also would not have worry about
giving something to my wife. If I didn't get sick I would have forget about this encounter
and move on.
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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #15 on: September 02, 2007, 12:17:47 pm »
Joe,

This is an hiv website and nothing you bring to us was a risk for hiv. If you're worried about other STIs, see your doctor to have your throat swabbed and whatever other test done you want.

However, sticking your tongue anywhere for such a brief time is unlikely in the extreme to cause you ANY illness - other than a BAD case of the guilts, which you seem to have in spades.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. No way, no how.

Sometimes - most of the time - a headcold is just that - a headcold.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline JOEB

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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #16 on: September 03, 2007, 12:12:34 am »
So from all the expert information I gather, no need for any testing, no worry about giving something
to my wife, no worry about systoms and get on with my life.
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Re: LAP DANCE
« Reply #17 on: September 03, 2007, 12:48:00 am »
That is correct Joe. You should log out and get on with your life.

MtD
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